Posted by cappygirl101Dont use any "hey handsome" or winky smileys.. that's cheap. Let him be and let him come to you, in the meantime move on with your life. How did you two remain last time you saw eachother?
What is your opinion on me texting this to my 1 week distant/disappeared capricorn male.
Either one of these
"Thinking about you (his nickname), hope you're having a great week."
"Hey handsomeI was just thinking about you, hope you're having a great week."
I posted in a previous thread but we are newly seeing each other and we just spent a 4 day weekend together. Now since I got back he hasn't texted anything since.
Posted by RindarooAwww you heard from him...how did it go? Where is he at?Posted by MiscorpionDefinitely true on the huge heart... so I finally heard from my Cap after 2 1/2 months. Shocked the hell out of me! What you said is good to remember about why they shut others out. It's just hard to not take it personally... plus with it being this long it's hard when he's not thinking about your feelings.
If he crosses your mind, reach out....I spent months on here tippy toeing round my long distance Cappy, overthinking, waiting, dissecting his moves and words etc. I lost myself and it consumed me to the point he didn't know who he was with anymore and I was beginning to wonder too.
Don't try to be anyone but yourself and don't doubt any actions or thoughts that cross your mind, reach out if that's what you want to do. You will find out where you stand either way. I did however have delayed responses through stressful times and especially after we spent time with one another.
Roughly a month ago my Cappy and I mutually parted, it was hard for each of us being 3 years. Now I message on and off when he crosses my mind and he gets back fairly swiftly...I honestly feel I am myself again, I can support him and be there far better than before. It's light and fun again....
Capricorns are absolutely beautiful people inside and outside...they are so hard on themselves and shut others out to not share their burdens or insecurities. I've learnt personally they have a strong serious front but the hugest heart lies within if you were lucky like me to see it.click to expand
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