okay last week this guy said he liked me and asked if i wouldd go on a date with him infront of a group of people. i didnt know if he was serious or not so i didnt really say anything and after a while he stopped asking and said 'ok ill stop before she gets angry'....
now he's acting like nothing ever happened....he still talks and teases and everything...but still he acts like he never asked me.....so my friend talked to him...she asked him if you and sarah (me) are going on a date and he says idk when..and she said that hewould talk to me about it and he hasnt/.. for example i saw him that day after school and he said nothing but hey sarah barah! and kept walking...then ANOTHER THING/// we were sitting next to each other practically all period and he never said anything about it...or barely talked to me at all (he asked help with something on the computer so i tried to show him with my hand where to go and he leaned away from me alittle bit??..))...ALTHOUGH one day this week his friend did tease me and him he wrote a note that said sarah+ drew and when i asked him why heworte it hesaid ' you and drew are in love" and pretty much drew (the guy that asked me out) played along with it....so im confused...
why would he tell my friend he''d talk to me about it and he hasnt said anything to me...second..why is he acting like nothing ever happened prettymuch? i'd really appreciate insight...
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Oct 25, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 8822 · Topics: 132
He laid it out there in front of everyone lol, so now I guess its up to you. Maybe something in your reaction made him get a little sensitive and back away. He's probably not going to put himself out there like that again lol, hopefully not like that again, so I'm not really sure what to say. I think he wanted you to give him a little something to work with after he asked, but really who knows, especially with young Caps. Its probably either go up to him and say yes to his offer, or just let him pace it.
Really, that was awkward in asking u in front of everyone. He probably did it like that figuring u wouldn't say no in front of a crowd smh lol.
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Oct 13, 2010Comments: 6 · Posts: 334 · Topics: 17
It's ok lol, don't worry too much about it, the cappy I know did that few times. He would throw an idea at you, and if you give him the impression that you don't want to go ahead with that idea, he just backs away and take the idea back as well, it's like a one chance thing or something like that. Maybe you should suggest you go somewhere instead of waiting because he probably won't after u didn't give him an answer
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Jul 08, 2009Comments: 5 · Posts: 4081 · Topics: 4
*sigh* He's not a young Cap.. he's a Virgo.. and she's asked this question several times in the past few days... obviously she's not gotten the answer she was looking for, so she keeps asking again. :/