I'm dating a cap and he stopped contacting me for a month.We've been dating for 8 months and throughput the 8 months i did everything to prove to him that I loved him.Last month the last thing I wrote to him was asking about how his day was going and he hasnt responded.It's been a month.I see him online on fb and hes active on fb talking to his friends etc.But he still hasnt responded to me.This month I messaged him on fb and asked him how he was again and he didnt respond and an hour later I messaged him and said i guess you dont want to talk to me and responded right away saying no i do i'm just busy and i just said ok and the convo ended.He still hasnt initiated contact with me.Idk what to do should i continue proving to him how much i love him?while he's doing the whole ignoring thing?cause its not fair.I recently stopped liking his stuff on fb because i'm tired of proving.why is he acting this way?Everything was so perfect,we never fought or anything.Should I just continue not initating and not liking his fb status' and wait for him to initiate?Because i've done all i can and now it's his turn 😢Will he be back if he truly has feelings for me?
When a cap wants something will he go for it?...

Do you enjoy feeling like trash? Because that is how he is treating you and you love that!!! Does it feel good to be disrespected like that?
This person that you supposedly love...is that the type of love you want and deserve? Even if he came back tomorrow...would you except him without explanation? Do you really feel so low about yourself—
Ask yourself truthfully all these questions...and if you can answer yes to any of them...you're lost NOT in love!
This person that you supposedly love...is that the type of love you want and deserve? Even if he came back tomorrow...would you except him without explanation? Do you really feel so low about yourself—
Ask yourself truthfully all these questions...and if you can answer yes to any of them...you're lost NOT in love!

If a Cap actually loves you, it doesn't matter how busy they are they will reach out or respond...
So, I'm not sure. In your case I mean.
If he's busy he probably means it...
But I have to say, when you're the priority there is just no doubting it!
It doesn't sound super positive to be honest. =\
So, I'm not sure. In your case I mean.
If he's busy he probably means it...
But I have to say, when you're the priority there is just no doubting it!
It doesn't sound super positive to be honest. =\

You and him are dating steady for eight months, then one day, for no reason, he turns cold and doesn't speak to you for over a month. Do I have that right?
yes,pathfinder.I know he's not ready for a longterm relationship now.SO should i just completely leave him alone?and come to me when he's ready?
if he is treating u like that he'll never be ready or come to you seriously.
even if you dont see someone/something fitting into what you are doing now, if its someone/something that can be seen in your future you are not going to burn that bridge or treat that person harshly leaving scars theyll remember and associate to you. basically im saying that he doesn't seem to care, and once a Capricorn mind is made he wont let it go back to a place of caring romantically.
id say try your best to move on.,
even if you dont see someone/something fitting into what you are doing now, if its someone/something that can be seen in your future you are not going to burn that bridge or treat that person harshly leaving scars theyll remember and associate to you. basically im saying that he doesn't seem to care, and once a Capricorn mind is made he wont let it go back to a place of caring romantically.
id say try your best to move on.,

Something must have happened. You guys were dating steadily for 8 months?
Thanks for the advice guys.He has commitment issues he does this push pull thing.When he sees me getting closer and all relationshipy he backs away 😢 Idk what to do 😢 cause he told me he loves me,but how could someone not contact you for almost two months if they actually love you and dont wanna lose you 😢I'll just leave him alone,he knows how to reach me and where to find me.

I think that might be best for now. Leave him alone, let him MISS YOU. 🙂 Don't despair.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
I think that might be best for now. Leave him alone, let him MISS YOU. 🙂 Don't despair.
aww thanks for the advice aqua.So leaving him alone also means not liking his stuff on fb?cause i always used to.

Posted by HappyEndGirlPosted by aquapiscescusp
I think that might be best for now. Leave him alone, let him MISS YOU. 🙂 Don't despair.
aww thanks for the advice aqua.So leaving him alone also means not liking his stuff on fb?cause i always used to.click to expand
Yeah, it would include not liking his stuff on FB. Disappear for awhile, try it....
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