When you oh are masking your feelings

Do you want people to ask if you are ok or just leave it alone?

Posted by ladylibra21
Do you want people to ask if you are ok or just leave it alone?

leave it alone ...

Leave it alone

Posted by ladylibra21
Do you want people to ask if you are ok or just leave it alone?

Totally depends

If a romantic relationship i do not want to be left alone.

In any other case , if i am not talking about it then its better to leave me alone

Eww yall sound like my Cap. "Let it go."

J/k I've learned "Ask once. Leave it alone."

Lol can totally hear them thinking. Yes yall think THAT hard.

Posted by ladylibra21
Do you want people to ask if you are ok or just leave it alone?

Depends if you want to vent and in person asking!

Posted by -elle-
there was a weird vibe last night...I felt it. His mind was thinking hard......

me "I can hear you thinking about something."

cap "How did you know?"

me "Because it's REALLY loud."

cap "I am." *goes back to thinking*

I feel uncomfortable because I'm full of air....more than water....so, I don't really want to ask if he is okay because I wouldn't want to be asked if I was okay....so, I sit there not knowing what to say but feel guilty for being an apathetic knob head.

*awkward silence*

me "Would you like to talk about it?"

cap "Sure."

me "Okay."

cap "Wanna have sex?"

LMAO

Win-Win

Posted by Capz
can you handle what is behind the mask

I'm not easily scared by emotions. 12 house Cancer moon

I want to talk, talk, talk. It needs to make sense to me. I figure out how I'm feeling by communicating.

Posted by Capz
can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

When it's something different that weighs on their shoulders (what really is behind the mask) and I don't mean in a harmful way.. I don't know how to say this... but most caps might understand me. These thoughts seem to be common within caps along with the anger issues.

Again, I don't know how accurate that is or maybe I'm just around people with similar personal issues and they all happen to be Caps. men and women.

They all seem to trust me a lot with their emotions and thoughts.

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can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

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Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.

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Posted by Capz
can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.

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Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.

I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.

Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care 😢 but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.

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can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.

Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.

I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.

Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care 😢 but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.

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Yes work is good, it keeps us cool and keeps our mind away from focussing too much on those emotions. We need to learn to face our emotions and stablize them until then we won't be able to live our true selves.

I meant that Aquas like to keep things cool, it is not that they don't understand/feel emotions it is just that you will ponder on the need to be so emotional at a particular thing while the other person will be trying to come around those emotions.

I said you do stick around and that would only happen if you care so we know you care. It is just that we don't like to bother others with our things which makes people think as becoming aloof and distant but we are like that. We would like someone to understand us and Aquas are very good in that but still we need to do things ourselves. It is very rare that we open up to people but this happens only with the trusted ones which takes considerable amount of time to build. We do not like to rely on others. Call it pride or vanity but we are independent like that. Once we are done with the thing that was bothering us we are back to our normal selves.

I apologize if it came out wrong previously. I know Aquas care the most and they care practically not in the passive emotional type. They will give you practical solutions to your problems which is good.

But I wanted to say they don't want an overly emotional partner rather one who is well balanced. Everyone has emotions but we can't be overwhelmed by them. We might have some instances here and there but overall the person should not be clingy/overly emotional type.

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Posted by Capz
can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.

Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.

I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.

Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care 😢 but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.

Yes work is good, it keeps us cool and keeps our mind away from focussing too much on those emotions. We need to learn to face our emotions and stablize them until then we won't be able to live our true selves.

I meant that Aquas like to keep things cool, it is not that they don't understand/feel emotions it is just that you will ponder on the need to be so emotional at a particular thing while the other person will be trying to come around those emotions.

I said you do stick around and that would only happen if you care so we know you care. It is just that we don't like to bother others with our things which makes people think as becoming aloof and distant but we are like that. We would like someone to understand us and Aquas are very good in that but still we need to do things ourselves. It is very rare that we open up to people but this happens only with the trusted ones which takes considerable amount of time to build. We do not like to rely on others. Call it pride or vanity but we are independent like that. Once we are done with the thing that was bothering us we are back to our normal selves.

I apologize if it came out wrong previously. I know Aquas care the most and they care practically not in the passive emotional type. They will give you practical solutions to your problems which is good.

But I wanted to say they don't want an overly emotional partner rather one who is well balanced. Everyone has emotions but we can't be overwhelmed by them. We might have some instances here and there but overall the person should not be clingy/overly emotional type.

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Aww, yeah all that is true. 🙂 are you a December cap? I've noticed slight differences between the dec and Jan caps.

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can you handle what is behind the mask

I feel like I communicate telepathically with Caps feelings. (I know it sounds weird) but when my ex-caps (btw not all at once lol) were upset, id just naturally let them do what they want, usually walk away or I'd stay where I am and I'm sure they will leave if they want to. If they didn't leave, i'll comfort them. Most of the time arguments were about stress at work or being grumpy from tiredness.

If I stay in the bed, I will hug, kiss, and then watch tv or something. Sometimes maybe sex 😛

Let the steam go.

With my longest Cap relationship (12yrs) Sometimes he will approach me and if I wasn't following him he would try to come after me.since I can turn ice cold, sometimes I was mad at him I wouldn't go after or let him comfort me.

Usually with him, he was weaker. He would give in when I got him mad.

With the cap I'm seeing for 6 months now, we are on first stage, the Times when he's upset or tired about work and tries to spend time with me but he's so tired he doesn't wanna go out, so I hang out with him in his room watch movies or simplt talk, is give him a massage, or sleep hugging and naked lol Usually that makes him feel better. 🙂

this is all natural...I feel the urge to hug him. Sometimes we stare at each other and feel the tension around us when one of us is upset :p

Hmm what I have noticed is that with Aquarius all masks go away and only the truth is left and they make it(any issue)look so trivial that you feel like it's nothing which you can't handle and then you are back to your normal self. But they can't take other people's emotions. They feel suffocated, drowning but still they stick with you. But it might be a downer for more emotional signs as they consider emotional volatility as weakness and try to stay away from it.

Also people don't notice that Capricorns are a bit watery so emotions can cause us problems just like Pisces and Scorpio but once we become stable it is very difficult to have those emotions and we seem cold and calculating but those emotions are there deep within just not on the surface.

Yes, I could see other signs feel these emotions deeply.

I don't know as to other Aquarians and you may just generalize but in my case, I don't overlook their issues or feelings. I may not feel the emotion deeply but i can understand how he must feel and figure out a solution to the problem. I always comfort, is a natural humanitarian trait, comfort and help. Not just one or the other, we offer both.

Caps issue is that they get in their world of work and when they get in touch with their emotions they don't know how to control them, and this overwhelms them, which is why they rather get busy and put the problem at the bottom of the pile.

We see it from different perspectives, I'm the Aqua you're the Cap. lol

You always think that we don't feel or care 😢 but that's wrong, we care more than anyone else probably would.

Yes work is good, it keeps us cool and keeps our mind away from focussing too much on those emotions. We need to learn to face our emotions and stablize them until then we won't be able to live our true selves.

I meant that Aquas like to keep things cool, it is not that they don't understand/feel emotions it is just that you will ponder on the need to be so emotional at a particular thing while the other person will be trying to come around those emotions.

I said you do stick around and that would only happen if you care so we know you care. It is just that we don't like to bother others with our things which makes people think as becoming aloof and distant but we are like that. We would like someone to understand us and Aquas are very good in that but still we need to do things ourselves. It is very rare that we open up to people but this happens only with the trusted ones which takes considerable amount of time to build. We do not like to rely on others. Call it pride or vanity but we are independent like that. Once we are done with the thing that was bothering us we are back to our normal selves.

I apologize if it came out wrong previously. I know Aquas care the most and they care practically not in the passive emotional type. They will give you practical solutions to your problems which is good.

But I wanted to say they don't want an overly emotional partner rather one who is well balanced. Everyone has emotions but we can't be overwhelmed by them. We might have some instances here and there but overall the person should not be clingy/overly emotional type.

Aww, yeah all that is true. 🙂 are you a December cap? I've noticed slight differences between the dec and Jan caps.

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No, I am a Jan Cap.

Mostly leave me alone till I'm ready to talk .. every so often it's nice if my man asks

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Can't speak for all Caps but i rather talk things out. Open communication.

People can be quick to jump to conclusions or assume an individual is a mind reader and it all leads to a path of bottling grudges.

😄 so happy to see you!!!

Hijacking the thread 😄

Sorry i got this 20hrs later and I'm a bit late. Its finals week and I've been studying.

How are you doing ?

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Good luck in finals!