Why?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Virgous on Wednesday, September 14, 2016 and has 10 replies.
Hi all,

I fell all the out with this Cap chick who was (so I thought) a friend. It was ugly and we are done (at least I am), but after 1.5 years of us not saying a word to each other and her disappearing cause she was ticked she made a point to address me with a random question about something I didn't even care or know about.It was really out of the blue and weird.It was like she was looking for a reason to say something and despite how disgusting her behavior was pre-silence, she was nice.I'm normally super forgiving, but for some reason my mind and body didn't respond in kind. It was like a reflex, cordial,but cold. With that said,WTF does she want and what did she expect? I'll always be cordial,but she has to know by now that I would never be anything other than a passerby to her again. Otherwise, I would've broke the silence already,but I'm not interested and I don't trust this. Looking for insight cause mainly I'm looking to shut this down politely.
Was she just a friend?
Posted by FknNerd
Respond to her in a year and a half
Lol. I don't want to play the ignore game. That mess is petty.I accept who she is and Moreno that we don't mesh. So , why not go separate ways and leave each other alone. That's more simple to me.
Posted by Greentea
Was she just a friend?
Yes.
Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Was she just a friend?
Yes.
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So what exactly are you mad/hurt about more? Bcuz you made several claims in your original post.

Posted by Greentea
Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Was she just a friend?
Yes.
So what exactly are you mad/hurt about more? Bcuz you made several claims in your original post.

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Can you clarify what you mean by "several claims"? If you are actually willing to offer insight I accept it otherwise I'm not here for sarcasm. Just want to know why she is trying to be friendly? That's it

Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Was she just a friend?
Yes.
So what exactly are you mad/hurt about more? Bcuz you made several claims in your original post.

Can you clarify what you mean by "several claims"? If you are actually willing to offer insight I accept it otherwise I'm not here for sarcasm. Just want to know why she is trying to be friendly? That's it

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Well you seem really salty about her. So I was wondering if the offense she made towards you was what hurt you or that she didn't talk to you for a year and a half after is what you're really mad or hurt over.

So she's trying to reach out, to make amends.

And if you don't want to talk with her, then tell her directly so, or don't respond back at all.

Posted by Greentea
Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Posted by Virgous
Posted by Greentea
Was she just a friend?
Yes.
So what exactly are you mad/hurt about more? Bcuz you made several claims in your original post.

Can you clarify what you mean by "several claims"? If you are actually willing to offer insight I accept it otherwise I'm not here for sarcasm. Just want to know why she is trying to be friendly? That's it

Well you seem really salty about her. So I was wondering if the offense she made towards you was what hurt you or that she didn't talk to you for a year and a half after is what you're really mad or hurt over.

So she's trying to reach out, to make amends.

And if you don't want to talk with her, then tell her directly so, or don't respond back at all.

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Arguments for me are one thing. Allowing her ego to force her to cross the line is another and worse when one is fully aware. That's the issue for me.She can't expect amends and knows that.She knows me too well. Guess, I'm shocked by the sheer audacity. Anyway, thanks I will tell her.

Posted by Virgous
Hi all,

I fell all the out with this Cap chick who was (so I thought) a friend. It was ugly and we are done (at least I am), but after 1.5 years of us not saying a word to each other and her disappearing cause she was ticked she made a point to address me with a random question about something I didn't even care or know about.It was really out of the blue and weird.It was like she was looking for a reason to say something and despite how disgusting her behavior was pre-silence, she was nice.I'm normally super forgiving, but for some reason my mind and body didn't respond in kind. It was like a reflex, cordial,but cold. With that said,WTF does she want and what did she expect? I'll always be cordial,but she has to know by now that I would never be anything other than a passerby to her again. Otherwise, I would've broke the silence already,but I'm not interested and I don't trust this. Looking for insight cause mainly I'm looking to shut this down politely.


Tell her that

Posted by Virgous
Posted by FknNerd
Respond to her in a year and a half
Lol. I don't want to play the ignore game. That mess is petty.I accept who she is and Moreno that we don't mesh. So , why not go separate ways and leave each other alone. That's more simple to me.
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Tell her