Hi. Why Capricorn is overwhemled by emotions just to meet up even as friends..? I have been talking to this woman for almost a year now. On the first 3 mos of the time that we had been talking, i told her that i was falling but she said she doesn't like the idea of it which i respected and we stayed friends and connected. We talked about me visiting their country. She said she loves to tour me in her city and encouraged me. So, i decided to come and told her about it which she responded enthusiastically. We planned things and she was excited. She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit. She told me that i count on her. Then, recently she texted me that she is scared to see me cos she doesnt know how will she react when she sees me. She said she has lots of emotion, confusion happiness.She told me that she feel like she will scream and get paralyze in the moment.she told me that part of her really wanna see me. I don't know why she is feeling this way.. i was thinking maybe because of the incident that happened 2 days ago. We were talking about pizza and told her that i can buy it and made it delivered to her place if she wants. After that she texted me that she is not comfortable of the idea of me buying her something cos we are friends. My gestures made her think that i am develepong feelings i guess..
Why Capricorn is overwhemled by emotions just to meet up..
Posted by ChrisxKodakSorry. English is not my first language
I'm overwhelmed by your grammatical errors fam.
Posted by ChrisxKodakThanks.
She's not interested hun, maybe you should let her go

So you don't like her romantically at all?
Because if not, then you should tell her straight up that you think of her platonically and that's all. Especially if you'd like to continue the friendship.
Because if not, then you should tell her straight up that you think of her platonically and that's all. Especially if you'd like to continue the friendship.
Posted by SunsetvirgoThanks for responding back. I have feelings for her. I didn't tell her though. My plan is to have fun in their country and enjoy her company.
So you don't like her romantically at all?
Because if not, then you should tell her straight up that you think of her platonically and that's all. Especially if you'd like to continue the friendship.

Posted by Librawoman333Is she still 'in the closet?'
She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit.
This could be the reason why she's hesitant to take it further.
She's obviousy interested.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by Librawoman333Is she still 'in the closet?'
She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit.
This could be the reason why she's hesitant to take it further.
She's obviousy interested.
Her mom knows but didnt approve it i guess. She dont want to explain how or where we met to her mom and i am hesitant to go to their country cos of violence and i dont speak the language so i want her to be committed and not bail on me whenever i am there. So, i told her that she can be honest about it that i am her friend who wants to visit and see their lovely country. I even suggested that i can meet her mom just in case she doesnt beleive her.
Now i have to consider her feelings, my security and her mom. I just really wanna see her and feel how it feels to be with her company as a friend. If we don't have chemistry in person then i can move on. I just want to eliminate every doubts in my head. Btw thank u for your reply. I really appreciate it.
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Posted by sakuraflowersI guess. Also because of our age. She's 8 years younger than me.Posted by Librawoman333
Hi. Why Capricorn is overwhemled by emotions just to meet up even as friends..? I have been talking to this woman for almost a year now. On the first 3 mos of the time that we had been talking, i told her that i was falling but she said she doesn't like the idea of it which i respected and we stayed friends and connected. We talked about me visiting their country. She said she loves to tour me in her city and encouraged me. So, i decided to come and told her about it which she responded enthusiastically. We planned things and she was excited. She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit. She told me that i count on her. Then, recently she texted me that she is scared to see me cos she doesnt know how will she react when she sees me. She said she has lots of emotion, confusion happiness.She told me that she feel like she will scream and get paralyze in the moment.she told me that part of her really wanna see me. I don't know why she is feeling this way.. i was thinking maybe because of the incident that happened 2 days ago. We were talking about pizza and told her that i can buy it and made it delivered to her place if she wants. After that she texted me that she is not comfortable of the idea of me buying her something cos we are friends. My gestures made her think that i am develepong feelings i guess..
Probably things happened faster than she expected...
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Hi. Just an update. She left me a voicemail saying like this." You know that i wanna know you, i was confused and got scared cos i am just a human. Knowing our relationship your age ang my age, so just dont come very closer when your come her"- -- can someone pls explain it to me.
Then i told her that it was hard for me to understand some words. She left me another voicemail saying " the fact is a want to see you
I cannot give my whole week cos i cant"- Now i don't know if i need to pursue this trip ?. I texted her back to explain what she meant by "not very close" she didnt reply yet. I told her that words didnt set well with me, she made me feel like a perv cos i friended her, on my defense tho i didnt know her age at first. So now i have to explain to her that i love meeting different people, ethnicity, age,sexuality everything maybe because im taking international development studies.
Then i told her that it was hard for me to understand some words. She left me another voicemail saying " the fact is a want to see you
I cannot give my whole week cos i cant"- Now i don't know if i need to pursue this trip ?. I texted her back to explain what she meant by "not very close" she didnt reply yet. I told her that words didnt set well with me, she made me feel like a perv cos i friended her, on my defense tho i didnt know her age at first. So now i have to explain to her that i love meeting different people, ethnicity, age,sexuality everything maybe because im taking international development studies.

Posted by Librawoman333Age typically doesn't matter with Capricorns. I've been with one quite a bit younger than me and she brought it up a couple of times but it never changed our relationship dynamic
Hi. Just an update. She left me a voicemail saying like this." You know that i wanna know you, i was confused and got scared cos i am just a human. Knowing our relationship your age ang my age, so just dont come very closer when your come her"- -- can someone pls explain it to me.
Then i told her that it was hard for me to understand some words. She left me another voicemail saying " the fact is a want to see you
I cannot give my whole week cos i cant"- Now i don't know if i need to pursue this trip ?. I texted her back to explain what she meant by "not very close" she didnt reply yet. I told her that words didnt set well with me, she made me feel like a perv cos i friended her, on my defense tho i didnt know her age at first. So now i have to explain to her that i love meeting different people, ethnicity, age,sexuality everything maybe because im taking international development studies.
Yea, she's not that into you.
Has she been calling you and texting you a lot? Are you guys always together? Does she like spending time with you? She could've liked you before. If you become w little bit more persistent and actually do nice gestures, and try to spend time with her, she'll start to have those feelings again (if she ever did) or you're out of luck. Do you know her Venus sign?
Has she been calling you and texting you a lot? Are you guys always together? Does she like spending time with you? She could've liked you before. If you become w little bit more persistent and actually do nice gestures, and try to spend time with her, she'll start to have those feelings again (if she ever did) or you're out of luck. Do you know her Venus sign?
Posted by Leoguy8Hi thanks for replying.What is your age difference? If you don't mind me asking.Posted by Librawoman333Age typically doesn't matter with Capricorns. I've been with one quite a bit younger than me and she brought it up a couple of times but it never changed our relationship dynamic
Hi. Just an update. She left me a voicemail saying like this." You know that i wanna know you, i was confused and got scared cos i am just a human. Knowing our relationship your age ang my age, so just dont come very closer when your come her"- -- can someone pls explain it to me.
Then i told her that it was hard for me to understand some words. She left me another voicemail saying " the fact is a want to see you
I cannot give my whole week cos i cant"- Now i don't know if i need to pursue this trip ?. I texted her back to explain what she meant by "not very close" she didnt reply yet. I told her that words didnt set well with me, she made me feel like a perv cos i friended her, on my defense tho i didnt know her age at first. So now i have to explain to her that i love meeting different people, ethnicity, age,sexuality everything maybe because im taking international development studies.
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Posted by LameBlameHi. Thank you. We never met yet. We talked a lot before but now it kinda die down. We always reached out with each other whenever we feel we are drifting off. Her signs are Sun-Cap: Moon-Leo Mercury-Sagi: Venus-Scorpio while me has Sun-Libra: Moon-Leo : Mercury-Scorpio :Venus-Leo.
Yea, she's not that into you.
Has she been calling you and texting you a lot? Are you guys always together? Does she like spending time with you? She could've liked you before. If you become w little bit more persistent and actually do nice gestures, and try to spend time with her, she'll start to have those feelings again (if she ever did) or you're out of luck. Do you know her Venus sign?

If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.
Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. Thanks for reminding me but no, she's not. She said she wants to see me and know me but i just don't understand why she's scared to see me. Although she said that scared in a good way. I don't know whats running in her mind.
If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.

Posted by Librawoman333Have you ever seen her though? Video chat? FaceTime?Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. Thanks for reminding me but no, she's not. She said she wants to see me and know me but i just don't understand why she's scared to see me. Although she said that scared in a good way. I don't know whats running in her mind.
If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Librawoman333Have you ever seen her though? Video chat? FaceTime?Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. Thanks for reminding me but no, she's not. She said she wants to see me and know me but i just don't understand why she's scared to see me. Although she said that scared in a good way. I don't know whats running in her mind.
If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.click to expand
Yes,video chat once. She toldd me that if ever she will see me, she thinks she will be paralayze . She said she's confused, happy and scared and then told me that she will see me as a friend. I don't know.. i am confuse if i should pursue it or not.

Posted by Librawoman333It's long distance. So my vote would be a no. Cause that shit is too hard.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Librawoman333Have you ever seen her though? Video chat? FaceTime?Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. Thanks for reminding me but no, she's not. She said she wants to see me and know me but i just don't understand why she's scared to see me. Although she said that scared in a good way. I don't know whats running in her mind.
If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.
Yes,video chat once. She toldd me that if ever she will see me, she thinks she will be paralayze . She said she's confused, happy and scared and then told me that she will see me as a friend. I don't know.. i am confuse if i should pursue it or not.
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Good luck tho.
If she has to ask her mother permission before going anywhere then her mother probably doesn't know she is a lesbian. Which she obviously is because why make a big deal out of just meeting if she doesn't have feelings too? She is afraid you will meet and she will want to keep you and from a logical stand point y'all don't live in the same country so it would never work because Caps are practical so she is shuttingnit down before she gets any hope or gives you any hope. They barely believe relationships will work when the circumstances are damn near perfect it's a nightmare to think about when so much in their head can go wrong. I'm sorry. I would definitely give her space you could always do What I used to do plan a trip and don't expect anything find a bunch of things to do take pictures of yourself and send them to her saying I'm having lots of fun. But basically just go meet people and have fun. Who knows if you approach it in a lighthearted non-formal way she might try to find a way to come see you at least for one day. But this is my Sag Venus talking and it shouldn't be trusted lmao ?!
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Librawoman333It's long distance. So my vote would be a no. Cause that shit is too hard.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by Librawoman333Have you ever seen her though? Video chat? FaceTime?Posted by LadyNeptuneLol. Thanks for reminding me but no, she's not. She said she wants to see me and know me but i just don't understand why she's scared to see me. Although she said that scared in a good way. I don't know whats running in her mind.
If someone your dating online doesn't want to meet irl your probably dating a catfish. Js.
Yes,video chat once. She toldd me that if ever she will see me, she thinks she will be paralayze . She said she's confused, happy and scared and then told me that she will see me as a friend. I don't know.. i am confuse if i should pursue it or not.
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Thank you. I appreciate your honest opinion.

Have you ever met in person? Have you Skyped?
If you answered no to both there is a good chance that she misrepresented herself and now she is trying to get out of it.
Or she is insecure and doesn't think that you will find her attractive.
If you answered no to both there is a good chance that she misrepresented herself and now she is trying to get out of it.
Or she is insecure and doesn't think that you will find her attractive.
Posted by ladylibra21Hi. Thanks for your reply. I'll consider your advice ?? although she told me she will accompany me for like 4 days when i am there as a friend. So, i assured her that my feelings for her is purely friendship and nothing more and i apologized. She said there is nothing to apologize for and that we are good. My question is why after i said that she told me that she will be busy for a week ,so if ever she cannot reply on my messages that No need for me to panic. Now its almost 5 days i dont know if i should send her a music or a text or just wait for her to contact me. ☹️
If she has to ask her mother permission before going anywhere then her mother probably doesn't know she is a lesbian. Which she obviously is because why make a big deal out of just meeting if she doesn't have feelings too? She is afraid you will meet and she will want to keep you and from a logical stand point y'all don't live in the same country so it would never work because Caps are practical so she is shuttingnit down before she gets any hope or gives you any hope. They barely believe relationships will work when the circumstances are damn near perfect it's a nightmare to think about when so much in their head can go wrong. I'm sorry. I would definitely give her space you could always do What I used to do plan a trip and don't expect anything find a bunch of things to do take pictures of yourself and send them to her saying I'm having lots of fun. But basically just go meet people and have fun. Who knows if you approach it in a lighthearted non-formal way she might try to find a way to come see you at least for one day. But this is my Sag Venus talking and it shouldn't be trusted lmao ?!
Posted by greylaternThank you. I don't know but we were talking for a year now. I am scared that if ever i will not be persistent, i might lose her ?
She is interested and scared about it. You need to be patient and take your time respect her boundaries and let her come to you. You need to give her a chance to meet you half way before you can move in.
Posted by Deedee86Thanks for the reply.
Have you ever met in person? Have you Skyped?
If you answered no to both there is a good chance that she misrepresented herself and now she is trying to get out of it.
Or she is insecure and doesn't think that you will find her attractive.
We did once. I never met her in person yet. She said that she is shy. What should i do then?

Posted by Librawoman333If she's feeling insecure about her looks, you may want to resassure her that you will like her either way.Posted by Deedee86Thanks for the reply.
Have you ever met in person? Have you Skyped?
If you answered no to both there is a good chance that she misrepresented herself and now she is trying to get out of it.
Or she is insecure and doesn't think that you will find her attractive.
We did once. I never met her in person yet. She said that she is shy. What should i do then?click to expand
Posted by Librawoman333Yeah i agree she doesn't seem interested. I am a cap girl and i have a lot of guilt to let people down and i try to please everyone even if i don;t mean certain things. If someone said they are going to come visit me but i really didn't want them to, i would try to let them down easy but sometimes people hear what they want and don't understand what i am trying to tell them lol. I don't think she is interested, i would move on. When capricorn really wants something we go after it.
Hi. Why Capricorn is overwhemled by emotions just to meet up even as friends..? I have been talking to this woman for almost a year now. On the first 3 mos of the time that we had been talking, i told her that i was falling but she said she doesn't like the idea of it which i respected and we stayed friends and connected. We talked about me visiting their country. She said she loves to tour me in her city and encouraged me. So, i decided to come and told her about it which she responded enthusiastically. We planned things and she was excited. She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit. She told me that i count on her. Then, recently she texted me that she is scared to see me cos she doesnt know how will she react when she sees me. She said she has lots of emotion, confusion happiness.She told me that she feel like she will scream and get paralyze in the moment.she told me that part of her really wanna see me. I don't know why she is feeling this way.. i was thinking maybe because of the incident that happened 2 days ago. We were talking about pizza and told her that i can buy it and made it delivered to her place if she wants. After that she texted me that she is not comfortable of the idea of me buying her something cos we are friends. My gestures made her think that i am develepong feelings i guess..
Posted by capricorngirl25Thanks for your reply. She left me a vm saying "the fact is i want to see you, to know you its that just do'nt come closer" i have no idea what she meant by that.Posted by Librawoman333Yeah i agree she doesn't seem interested. I am a cap girl and i have a lot of guilt to let people down and i try to please everyone even if i don;t mean certain things. If someone said they are going to come visit me but i really didn't want them to, i would try to let them down easy but sometimes people hear what they want and don't understand what i am trying to tell them lol. I don't think she is interested, i would move on. When capricorn really wants something we go after it.
Hi. Why Capricorn is overwhemled by emotions just to meet up even as friends..? I have been talking to this woman for almost a year now. On the first 3 mos of the time that we had been talking, i told her that i was falling but she said she doesn't like the idea of it which i respected and we stayed friends and connected. We talked about me visiting their country. She said she loves to tour me in her city and encouraged me. So, i decided to come and told her about it which she responded enthusiastically. We planned things and she was excited. She told me that she needed to think what to tell her mother when i come since she will be going out everyday once i come to visit. She told me that i count on her. Then, recently she texted me that she is scared to see me cos she doesnt know how will she react when she sees me. She said she has lots of emotion, confusion happiness.She told me that she feel like she will scream and get paralyze in the moment.she told me that part of her really wanna see me. I don't know why she is feeling this way.. i was thinking maybe because of the incident that happened 2 days ago. We were talking about pizza and told her that i can buy it and made it delivered to her place if she wants. After that she texted me that she is not comfortable of the idea of me buying her something cos we are friends. My gestures made her think that i am develepong feelings i guess..click to expand
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