Will this Cappy men come back again?

Posted by MissBizarre
If he ever contacts you again, tell him you are too depressed to speak to him :-)

Posted by michellemabelle
and if you ever want success with someone avoid contacting them in messages chat at all costs. Messangers etc and offline online with all the obligation to talk when youve nothing to talk about and hiding from each other..its the nail in the coffin of most relationships.
Plus the fact you cant see the persons facial expression body language, hear the tone of their voice leads to paranoia, negativity, and bluntness that usually spoil things. The obligation to talk daily or hide quickly dries up any good feelings

Posted by paranormalbadgirl
Every time I come back to read these posts, things start to make a lot of sense. A cap broke it off with me almost two months ago for "logical" reasons. A couple of days ago he instant messaged me. Nothing special, just your average, "hi, how are you?" type deal. For someone who told me to "have a good life" you would think he wouldnt come back, but he appeared just like everyone has been saying.

Posted by tiki33
men do this kind of back and forth crap because we women allow them to do it, it's his way of saying i want my cake and I want to eat it too, I want to have you around to give me sex, rub my back, listen to me talk, cook me food, jump through hoops, play the doting girlfriend role but I also want to remain independent and single and any amount of pressure that requires me to give back beyond my comfort zone and be committed beyond my comfort zone is not what I want so I'll leave to alleviate the pressure I feel and come back to pick back up again when things are cooled off to maintain those benefits I receive when I'm with you, IMO that's not a bad idea but it's just so misleading and confusing to women that don't understand this kind of mentality. This is what men do when they don't want to be in a real relationship.