Worst month in a very long time :(

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Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?
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No, Im not ok, I usually am though..just not this time Sad
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
In a way you could say it becomes a shared experience with their reactions too, to some degree. smile


haha, I had never looked at it that way. Clever!
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Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?


No, Im not ok, I usually am though..just not this time Sad
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Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?


No, Im not ok, I usually am though..just not this time Sad


Would you like to tell us more???
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Its about my gf and moi, we're going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



Brings the vegan cocoWinking *hands out mugs
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Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



lol I actually felt relaxed the moment I saw this pic
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Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?


No, Im not ok, I usually am though..just not this time Sad


Would you like to tell us more???


Its about my gf and moi, we're going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment.
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Seriously? I thought someone died.
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Posted by tryandguess
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Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



Brings the vegan cocoWinking *hands out mugs


Cinnamon sprinkles too ?smile
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I love sprinkles
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Thanks blingz smile
I guess astro cop was just my way of venting lately Tongue not healthy..



Awww are you ok?


No, Im not ok, I usually am though..just not this time Sad


Would you like to tell us more???


Its about my gf and moi, we're going through a bit of a rough patch at the moment.


Seriously? I thought someone died.
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Hell no! that doesnt diminish my sadness though
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
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Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



lol I actually felt relaxed the moment I saw this pic


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Hopefully you can weather the storm with your g/f Shaks, you've stuck it out for a few years now right ?
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Yeah, I hope its only a storm in the big scheme of things. What we have is much bigger than this crisis we're going through, at the moment we're taking a small break from one another (we both agreed that was the best for the moment)
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



lol I actually felt relaxed the moment I saw this pic


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Hopefully you can weather the storm with your g/f Shaks, you've stuck it out for a few years now right ?



Yeah, I hope its only a storm in the big scheme of things. What we have is much bigger than this crisis we're going through, at the moment we're taking a small break from one another (we both agreed that was the best for the moment)
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Oh, whats her sign?
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Eeeshh, I dunno what to suggest. Loose but positive contact while this break is going on ?


Yeah, we have been on civil/good terms since the break started, but we need to figure out separately how this is going to continue and for that we figured it was best if we didnt contact/saw each other for some time.
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Oh a cappy. Yeah.... Hummmm
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Make yourself comfortable Shaks, lay back, take the load off smile



lol I actually felt relaxed the moment I saw this pic


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Hopefully you can weather the storm with your g/f Shaks, you've stuck it out for a few years now right ?



Yeah, I hope its only a storm in the big scheme of things. What we have is much bigger than this crisis we're going through, at the moment we're taking a small break from one another (we both agreed that was the best for the moment)


Oh, whats her sign?

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Capricorn (moon in Aries)
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you sure it wasn't more dramatic, shaks?
Anyhow, a break is always good, instead of being clingy-dingy all the time. See it as a positive manifestation things are going into a new phase after the fall.
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you sure it wasn't more dramatic, shaks?
Anyhow, a break is always good, instead of being clingy-dingy all the time. See it as a positive manifestation things are going into a new phase after the fall.
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you sure it wasn't more dramatic, shaks?
Anyhow, a break is always good, instead of being clingy-dingy all the time. See it as a positive manifestation things are going into a new phase after the fall.
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The discussion that came before deciding the break (which we decided only after we had both cooled off) was dramatic.
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hmm, blame the libra month again? Tongue must be the infusion of sun in libra + others opposite her aries moon Tongue
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Oh gawd Adele
*facepalm*

Queen of breakup songs
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hmm, blame the libra month again? Tongue must be the infusion of sun in libra + others opposite her aries moon Tongue


Trust me, Ive overanalyzed all of that for weeks. From every angle imaginable.
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Oh sorry spica, I dont like Adele..so I havent hit play on that vid smile
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Oh gawd Adele
*facepalm*

Queen of breakup songs


I think maybe she should stop breaking people up and write something uplifting if that's the case ? smile
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I see it as she expresses herself and people identify with it, I guess.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
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hmm, blame the libra month again? Tongue must be the infusion of sun in libra + others opposite her aries moon Tongue


Trust me, Ive overanalyzed all of that for weeks. From every angle imaginable.
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Alwais blame the Libra.
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Im not in the mood either for breakup songs, its inapropiate too considering its not what Im going through.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Oh sorry spica, I dont like Adele..so I havent hit play on that vid smile

Nevermind, dont worry bout it.
Hope you sit on that flaming red couch that EEE posted and relax your nerves smile
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Thank you spica smile that couch surely looks damn relaxing, the red gives it a subliminal effect too I guess smile
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hmm, blame the libra month again? Tongue must be the infusion of sun in libra + others opposite her aries moon Tongue


Trust me, Ive overanalyzed all of that for weeks. From every angle imaginable.


Alwais blame the Libra.


Err, only the ones that like Adele. smile
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So you saying me, right? Winking
I was indicating him blaming this month which is Libra month. smile
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Thank you spica smile that couch surely looks damn relaxing, the red gives it a subliminal effect too I guess smile


Well you obviously love your gf, so you'd most likely stay with her no matter the breaks, I hope.
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Posted by morningsb
Is this why you keep accusing capricorns on the capricorn board of passive aggressiveness?
I'm sorry for what's happening shaks. I hope things work out.


Oh no! I think Ive said that before too but I havent exactly been systematically slagging off caps lately if you read my posts!
And thank you, I hope so too
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Thank you spica smile that couch surely looks damn relaxing, the red gives it a subliminal effect too I guess smile


Well you obviously love your gf, so you'd most likely stay with her no matter the breaks, I hope.
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Yeah, I miss her so much..its hell. Not only as in "being my gf" but just the person she is, the person I can get along so well with (most of the time!)
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LOL @ DR I dont like her music either. Come to think of it, I dont like breakup songs, regardless of my mood/situation. When going through a bad moment I always want uplifting/motivating music. The moments I wallow in self-pity are always on the short side.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
LOL @ DR I dont like her music either. Come to think of it, I dont like breakup songs, regardless of my mood/situation. When going through a bad moment I always want uplifting/motivating music. The moments I wallow in self-pity are always on the short side.


Well this thread is getting on the long side Winking
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Relative to what? smile
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Relative to what? smile


You said the "moments you wallow in self pity are rather short"
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I know that.
I started this thread around an hour and half ago, thats not long in my book.
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I know that.
I started this thread around an hour and half ago, thats not long in my book.


Oh wow, never mind Winking
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Oh yeah, Aries full moon.. its suppsed to oppose my sun and strew of planets but I feel good.. weird transits smile
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Posted by thxbutnothx
I was going to say don't make any hasty decision right now. The aries full moon was really something. I am usually very professinal at work but I told a client of ours on Thur that I'd do it for him this time skipping lunch but I'd really appreciate him being more considrate next time (meaning "fucker. there is no next time" i bet he could hear that in my tone lol) and i told my big boss I need a f'n drink at work lol.
And I told scorp that I do not think we are compatible of course lol.
Did you say it has been like this for several weeks? This month as been very challenging for me on the work front (I changed career) so I have not been very considerate of my relationship.
Hang in there. It should only get better from this point on. So smile if you can smile.


Hi sg smile Yeah I had that aries moon on my radar even before the whole thing, the whole dynamics of "Me v.s You v.s. Us" are on the menu this month. Saturn being in Libra too, Uranus in Aries and Pluto in Cap are all forming a very stressed Cardinal Square energy. Its really making people confront their basic needs v.s. what society expects from them.
LOL@ at your comment on your scorpio, that was mean Tongue
Today it is 3 weeks since we started the break. I have a feeling things could be decided in a week or 2. Her parents are so good to me though, her gem mom has called me a few times in these weeks saying how bad she feels for both of us and telling me how her and my gf's cappy dad miss me. I love those people.
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You're getting drowned in semantics, blueribbons.
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Posted by thxbutnothx
It's very nice and sweet of her parents for checking on you. I bet they saw how sad and concerned of you cappy has been.
I hope everything turns out to be just fine. Well, I know it will shaka have faith smile.


I was actually going to mentioned that too! her mom told me that last weekend when cappy was at her parents, she seemed very down Sad they had a good talk too! Im actually seeing her mom tomorrow (she wants to see me) and shes even bringing the birthday present she hasnt had the chance of giving me since september lol
There is one thing Im sure of, whatever the outcome is, I know and trust that we are both very sensible people..so whatever is decided WILL be the best for both of us.

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Posted by blueribbons
hmmm yea? then why worry if you're "on a break" or "broken up" when the real focus is you're at odds? It seems the break is a defining circumstance in your book. Am I wrong?


Im not worried, you're the one stating in 3 posts how that isnt your style blah blah blah, have you come to think this has nothing to do with you?
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You're an Aqua. We're earth signs, thats the difference smile
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I think so too, or maybe I just didnt convey what I wanted to say accurately to some people.
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I know! smile most of the time Im a happy-go-lucky guy with a weakness for teasing people Tongue just not right now.
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Posted by thxbutnothx
Hmmm... now you are making me a bit sad lol :/
As you said, both of you are very sensible and both of you cherish what you have/had I know you find comfort knowing this knowing the best decision will be made. Hard times make the sweet times sweeter right smile.
Best wishes shaka have a relax night k




Ah, dont be sad smile I dont doubt for a second the strength of the love we have for one another, and that is exactly the reason I want her to be happy regardless of anything else, including me or our relationship.
Thank you for your kind wordssmile nighty!
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