Virgooo
@Virgooo
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I may have posted this wrong lol...im new to this site too
Omg yesss. I hate it!
We share a few in common.
You: Me:
Sun: virgo Virgo
Moon: scorpio Scorpio
Rising: aquarius Capricorn
Mercury: libra Libra
Venus: scorpio Leo
Mars: cancer Scorpio
Jupiter : scorpio Virgo
Saturn: pisces Virgo
Uranus: capricorn Scorpio
Neptune: capricorn Sagittarius
Pluto: scorpio Libra
Lilith: Taurus Leo
I'm very sure of myself but like you, I have relationship issues. My interpersonal skills could use some work.
You: Me:
Sun: virgo Virgo
Moon: scorpio Scorpio
Rising: aquarius Capricorn
Mercury: libra Libra
Venus: scorpio Leo
Mars: cancer Scorpio
Jupiter : scorpio Virgo
Saturn: pisces Virgo
Uranus: capricorn Scorpio
Neptune: capricorn Sagittarius
Pluto: scorpio Libra
Lilith: Taurus Leo
I'm very sure of myself but like you, I have relationship issues. My interpersonal skills could use some work.
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself back
@Joselineee yeah I know, when im angry sometimes im on the verge of tears, and im super defensive
Posted by VirgoooI'm holding myself back in the more literal sense. I'm not dating right now. After my last relationship, I decided that I need to mature some. I started dating in my early teens. As soon as I was single, there was always someone else to date. I failed to take time out between relationships and figure things out. Which means I don't think that in my dating life, I've taken time to learn any lessons from dating. In other areas, I'm fully mature. But when it comes to dating, I'm realizing I'm emotionally still around fourteen or fifteen years old. Time for some self-reflection because I'm wasting my time and their time. KWIM?
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself back
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseHow old are you?Posted by VirgoooI'm holding myself back in the more literal sense. I'm not dating right now. After my last relationship, I decided that I need to mature some. I started dating in my early teens. As soon as I was single, there was always someone else to date. I failed to take time out between relationships and figure things out. Which means I don't think that in my dating life, I've taken time to learn any lessons from dating. In other areas, I'm fully mature. But when it comes to dating, I'm realizing I'm emotionally still around fourteen or fifteen years old. Time for some self-reflection because I'm wasting my time and their time. KWIM?
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself backclick to expand
Posted by MsTeeq1974Twenty-five. Why?Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseHow old are you?Posted by VirgoooI'm holding myself back in the more literal sense. I'm not dating right now. After my last relationship, I decided that I need to mature some. I started dating in my early teens. As soon as I was single, there was always someone else to date. I failed to take time out between relationships and figure things out. Which means I don't think that in my dating life, I've taken time to learn any lessons from dating. In other areas, I'm fully mature. But when it comes to dating, I'm realizing I'm emotionally still around fourteen or fifteen years old. Time for some self-reflection because I'm wasting my time and their time. KWIM?
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself backclick to expand
Posted by BlackMambaWhy stick around? Are you just a sucker for punishment?
i think im dating a virgo with scorpio moon, he's an immense headache...probably worst relationships i've ever been in...
but i still stick around...😢
Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseBecause you and my loverboy have similar energies in your charts. Not the same placements, but the same exact energies in different placements. He's very relationship immature for someone his age and I've often wondered about that. I mean, he responds well enough, but he's soooo immature in a lot of our interactions which is weird, because he's very mature in other ways. It takes something to shake him up in order for him to reach into his mature stash of relationship interaction. He can do it, he just doesn't prefer to do it. He's admittedly and openly very childish with me and he says that it's because he's comfortable. For the most part, it doesn't bother me. I don't need him to do be one thing or another as an individual for me to feel good about us. I actually find it very funny when he says shit that is so inappropriate and I'm sure another woman would probably be offended. I'm not. I think it's hilarious, because it's actually coming out audibly from his mouth instead of being trapped in his head. AWESOME. I respect people who take the risk of actually saying what's on their mind instead of being proper or saying the proper thing. lol Then there's the playful aspect of it all. I need that, because things in my life tend to be heavy. Responsibilities, my motivation level, how introspective and observant I am. I need a partner to lighten the load so to speak and let me just laugh instead of always problem solving or thinking about everything on a serious level. When we go out and come back home, I even undress him. He asks me to and so I do it. lol Shoes, shirt, pants, everything. I'm the one to take his clothes off. Even when I visited him and he came homePosted by MsTeeq1974Twenty-five. Why?Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseHow old are you?Posted by VirgoooI'm holding myself back in the more literal sense. I'm not dating right now. After my last relationship, I decided that I need to mature some. I started dating in my early teens. As soon as I was single, there was always someone else to date. I failed to take time out between relationships and figure things out. Which means I don't think that in my dating life, I've taken time to learn any lessons from dating. In other areas, I'm fully mature. But when it comes to dating, I'm realizing I'm emotionally still around fourteen or fifteen years old. Time for some self-reflection because I'm wasting my time and their time. KWIM?
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself backclick to expand
Even when I visited him and he came home from work. He just lifts up his hands and I start taking his clothes off...non sexually. lol I think it's cute. He's going to be 34 next month.
His first relationship didn't last, because he was very young, she was almost twice his age and he admitted that he wasn't ready. He was single for 4 years before we got together and he said that he figures he's already done everything that a single person CAN do, so he's finally ready for another relationship. I'd be curious to know what kind of inner work he did while single. So far everything he's mentioned has to do with getting buck wild and being very/openly non-committal while having flings and affairs. The only thing that I don't like about his four year single and doing everything stint is that he developed a liking for married women or getting with women who were in long term serious relationships. That's the only thing that we don't see eye to eye on. I don't think it was right, but it was what he felt he wanted to do so I don't knock it. Everyone has a past and he's entitled to one.
Posted by MsTeeq1974Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseBecause you and my loverboy have similar energies in your charts. Not the same placements, but the same exact energies in different placements. He's very relationship immature for someone his age and I've often wondered about that. I mean, he responds well enough, but he's soooo immature in a lot of our interactions which is weird, because he's very mature in other ways. It takes something to shake him up in order for him to reach into his mature stash of relationship interaction. He can do it, he just doesn't prefer to do it. He's admittedly and openly very childish with me and he says that it's because he's comfortable. For the most part, it doesn't bother me. I don't need him to do be one thing or another as an individual for me to feel good about us. I actually find it very funny when he says shit that is so inappropriate and I'm sure another woman would probably be offended. I'm not. I think it's hilarious, because it's actually coming out audibly from his mouth instead of being trapped in his head. AWESOME. I respect people who take the risk of actually saying what's on their mind instead of being proper or saying the proper thing. lol Then there's the playful aspect of it all. I need that, because things in my life tend to be heavy. Responsibilities, my motivation level, how introspective and observant I am. I need a partner to lighten the load so to speak and let me just laugh instead of always problem solving or thinking about everything on a serious level. When we go out and come back home, I even undress him. He asks me to and so I do it. lol Shoes, sPosted by MsTeeq1974Twenty-five. Why?Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseHow old are you?Posted by VirgoooI'm holding myself back in the more literal sense. I'm not dating right now. After my last relationship, I decided that I need to mature some. I started dating in my early teens. As soon as I was single, there was always someone else to date. I failed to take time out between relationships and figure things out. Which means I don't think that in my dating life, I've taken time to learn any lessons from dating. In other areas, I'm fully mature. But when it comes to dating, I'm realizing I'm emotionally still around fourteen or fifteen years old. Time for some self-reflection because I'm wasting my time and their time. KWIM?
@SquirrelFromTheNuthouse smh why usss? Lol. I would love to be in a great relationship but i keep holding myself backclick to expand
Posted by aquaboy84I would agree that the Scorp moon is more problematic than the sun. The moon tends to give the natal carrier this weird and dark bend. They can be VERY calculatingly vengeful. I'm not sure if they plan it that way or not, but when they don't get their way, they become moralistically blinded and will get revenge without putting much effort into it. They are also VERY possessive just because. It has nothing to do with love...if they consider something theirs...it's theirs until they say it's not. That causes many problems and the Scorp moon is shameless about it.
I don't think moon in scorpio is the problem for some reason.. it's the sun sign
@MsTeeq1974
Yes, i agree i can be a bit possesive sometimes. Even with my friends. Whenever they hang out with other people i get a little bit jealous and i think that theyre trying to steal my friend. But i usually get over it and think that im being over dramatic so i try not to let it bother me.
Also when someone does something that bothers me i cant help but try to make them pay in little ways until im satisfied.
But whats weird is, if i do something to someone and something bad happens to me. I feel like i deserve it, that i deserve the karma.
Yes, i agree i can be a bit possesive sometimes. Even with my friends. Whenever they hang out with other people i get a little bit jealous and i think that theyre trying to steal my friend. But i usually get over it and think that im being over dramatic so i try not to let it bother me.
Also when someone does something that bothers me i cant help but try to make them pay in little ways until im satisfied.
But whats weird is, if i do something to someone and something bad happens to me. I feel like i deserve it, that i deserve the karma.
My best friend is a scorp sun and she tells me that she doesnt like when i hang out with other ppl too. So we have this weird friendship where we're almost in some sort of relationship. And everyone sees it
Posted by VirgoooYou're not alone. I've heard this from a few Scorp moon people and observed it in others. That's the resiliency of Scorp moon. You guys can take what you dish.
@MsTeeq1974
Yes, i agree i can be a bit possesive sometimes. Even with my friends. Whenever they hang out with other people i get a little bit jealous and i think that theyre trying to steal my friend. But i usually get over it and think that im being over dramatic so i try not to let it bother me.
Also when someone does something that bothers me i cant help but try to make them pay in little ways until im satisfied.
But whats weird is, if i do something to someone and something bad happens to me. I feel like i deserve it, that i deserve the karma.
Posted by MsTeeq1974My post only pulled your quote. Not my words. grrr....
His first relationship didn't last, because he was very young, she was almost twice his age and he admitted that he wasn't ready. He was single for 4 years before we got together and he said that he figures he's already done everything that a single person CAN do, so he's finally ready for another relationship. I'd be curious to know what kind of inner work he did while single. So far everything he's mentioned has to do with getting buck wild and being very/openly non-committal while having flings and affairs. The only thing that I don't like about his four year single and doing everything stint is that he developed a liking for married women or getting with women who were in long term serious relationships. That's the only thing that we don't see eye to eye on. I don't think it was right, but it was what he felt he wanted to do so I don't knock it. Everyone has a past and he's entitled to one.
Try again. What I'm working on is my identity as a single person. Making decisions on my own. My ex's were bossy and it's all very well to complain about it, but when did I ever speak up and say what I wanted to be doing or what I liked? I think part of it was I dated guys too old for me. I was dating 18 year olds when I was 14. They were as much authority figures as they were boyfriends. And I that became the pattern. Dating guys too old for me who were into extreme sports. I figured because I like adrenaline rushes I like the same sports. But on my own, I'm finding I like more toned down stuff. Like rock climbing. It's only being single that I'm finding this stuff out. I'm mature enough to find my own job and hold it down and pay my bills and live on my own. But having my own personal tastes and preferences got lost somewhere along the way. I need to mature.
Posted by VirgoooI haven't noticed myself being particularly jealous. I think if I was actually cheated on, I'd be jealous. But otherwise that isn't among my many problems.
My best friend is a scorp sun and she tells me that she doesnt like when i hang out with other ppl too. So we have this weird friendship where we're almost in some sort of relationship. And everyone sees it
Posted by BlackMambaNow, now... you're being far too sensible for someone that's a sucker for punishment.Posted by MsTeeq1974how about learning not to dish it....Posted by VirgoooYou're not alone. I've heard this from a few Scorp moon people and observed it in others. That's the resiliency of Scorp moon. You guys can take what you dish.
@MsTeeq1974
Yes, i agree i can be a bit possesive sometimes. Even with my friends. Whenever they hang out with other people i get a little bit jealous and i think that theyre trying to steal my friend. But i usually get over it and think that im being over dramatic so i try not to let it bother me.
Also when someone does something that bothers me i cant help but try to make them pay in little ways until im satisfied.
But whats weird is, if i do something to someone and something bad happens to me. I feel like i deserve it, that i deserve the karma.click to expand
Posted by VirgoooWow, we have almost exactly the same chart, I'm also Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon/Aquarius Rising/Scorpio Venus but then with Cap Mars.. I can relate to being possessive and harbouring pretty intense emotions that I don't know what to do with - I'm also fully functioning in most areas of life EXCEPT romantic relationships, which I've never fully "understood", and I always feel like I have to be "guarded" and I expect to be let down, be lied to and for someone to leave me.
Hey do you guys think im problematic? And why?
I think i am, because i always feel confused about everything. Especially relationships! Heres my chart:
Sun: virgo
Moon: scorpio
Rising: aquarius
Mercury: libra
Venus: scorpio
Mars: cancer
Jupiter : scorpio
Saturn: pisces
Uranus: capricorn
Neptune: capricorn
Pluto: scorpio
Lilith: Taurus
Kinda new to astrology!
Also this constant feeling of always having more "intense" feelings than the other person - like they couldn't possibly understand how I feel, or how much I feel.
Only good thing is that I don't develop romantic feelings very often, it's kind of a relief to me actually, since it's such a burden sometimes, it literally gets to the point where I'm obsessive, though I hide it VERY well.
One thing I can say is that the jealousy and protectiveness is something you can rid yourself off, by convincing yourself you ARE being too over dramatic and such, just like you're doing.
I'm a lot more easy going with those kind of emotions now than let's say 6-7 years ago.
Posted by VirgoooI have a MAJOR tendency of being super defensive and constantly taking things as a negative attack on me, I think I alienate some people because of it, and also that a lot of guys get intimidated and put off by it, because I can get aggressive when I'm being defensive and feel hurt.
@Joselineee yeah I know, when im angry sometimes im on the verge of tears, and im super defensive
This is something I'm constantly struggling with - I have to keep reminding myself that mostly it's just jokes gone bad, or people are just not thinking through what they're saying, or that sometimes it's just "their opinion", and I have to leave it that.. it's hard though.
Posted by aquaboy84IMO Scorp suns have a lot of bravado, but they're actually really sweethearts. lol I've never met a Scorp sun person that I didn't get along with IRL. We always seem to gravitate towards each other and no matter what goes on between us, it's always repairable. Scorp is in my 7th house of partnership so I actually appreciate what Scorps bring to the table. I see the resourcefulness in being private as well as calculating. You can't just put everything out there all of the time. Plus, the reserve is amazing. I need people with that kind of regenerative energy in my life. It's inspiring.Posted by MsTeeq1974Posted by aquaboy84I would agree that the Scorp moon is more problematic than the sun. The moon tends to give the natal carrier this weird and dark bend. They can be VERY calculatingly vengeful. I'm not sure if they plan it that way or not, but when they don't get their way, they become moralistically blinded and will get revenge without putting much effort into it. They are also VERY possessive just because. It has nothing to do with love...if they consider something theirs...it's theirs until they say it's not. That causes many problems and the Scorp moon is shameless about it.
I don't think moon in scorpio is the problem for some reason.. it's the sun sign
maybe because i have moon in the 8th so I can relate to moon in scorpio people. my gemini friend has moon in scorpio and I know he has a dark side and he has spazzed on me before but I feel it's innocent for some reason. Remember, the sun is your ego. I think virgo suns have a big ego so that's why I think it may be the sun.click to expand
@jpx wow are charts are really really similar. I can understand exactly where youre coming from.
What happens with me is that after i get angry and defensive i try to play it off and tell myself that im just being over dramatic and then i get cold.
I feel like im very impulsive at times. And my reaction is based on how i am feeling at the moment.
What happens with me is that after i get angry and defensive i try to play it off and tell myself that im just being over dramatic and then i get cold.
I feel like im very impulsive at times. And my reaction is based on how i am feeling at the moment.
Posted by jpxIf your partner doted on you, but at the same time gave you space...how would that make you feel? Like, I give my bf lots of space, since I require it myself, but when we do connect, I'm all ga ga over him. I shower him with loving words, actions, sentiments, and I tell him things like, "I miss you every second, minute, hour, of every day that I'm not with you and it's been that way since the day we met." However, I then let him go to his thing and I do mine. I kiss him passionately, but then I go off to do things by myself or with my friends. I acquiesce when he needs to physically cling to me, but then when it's time for me to go...I let go easily and with a smile. I never send him away with a pouting look on my face. I can't do that. lol His biggest worry has been that I'll leave him as you stated. I did for a minute, but that was because he was up to something and being cold about it and I knew it. I just wasn't willing to stick around and let him get away with it. Now, he's back on point with the communication, but I don't require a lot. He's the touch and go caller. He'll call me like 3-4 times a day foPosted by VirgoooWow, we have almost exactly the same chart, I'm also Virgo Sun/Scorpio Moon/Aquarius Rising/Scorpio Venus but then with Cap Mars.. I can relate to being possessive and harbouring pretty intense emotions that I don't know what to do with - I'm also fully functioning in most areas of life EXCEPT romantic relationships, which I've never fully "understood", and I always feel like I have to be "guarded" and I expect to be let down, be lied to and for someone to leave me.
Hey do you guys think im problematic? And why?
I think i am, because i always feel confused about everything. Especially relationships! Heres my chart:
Sun: virgo
Moon: scorpio
Rising: aquarius
Mercury: libra
Venus: scorpio
Mars: cancer
Jupiter : scorpio
Saturn: pisces
Uranus: capricorn
Neptune: capricorn
Pluto: scorpio
Lilith: Taurus
Kinda new to astrology!
Also this constant feeling of always having more "intense" feelings than the other person - like they couldn't possibly understand how I feel, or how much I feel.
Only good thing is that I don't develop romantic feelings very often, it's kind of a relief to me actually, since it's such a burden sometimes, it literally gets to the point where I'm obsessive, though I hide it VERY well.
One thing I can say is that the jealousy and protectiveness is something you can rid yourself off, by convincing yourself you ARE being too over dramatic and such, just like you're doing.
I'm a lot more easy going with those kind of emotions now than let's say 6-7 years ago.click to expand
Posted by VirgoooYeah, exactly, I'm the least impulsive person in other situations usually, but when I feel hurt by a remark or something like that, it's like a fire just goes off, lol.. and I can't stop myself, it's some sort of protective instinct.
@jpx wow are charts are really really similar. I can understand exactly where youre coming from.
What happens with me is that after i get angry and defensive i try to play it off and tell myself that im just being over dramatic and then i get cold.
I feel like im very impulsive at times. And my reaction is based on how i am feeling at the moment.
And I definitely feel that coldness as well - do you also experience that if someone really does hurt you deeply, they're really OUT of your life for good, as a punishment? I've done this a few times, but if my trust is broken you know.. it's just gone forever :/
He'll call me like 3-4 times a day for like five to ten minutes at a time. The rest of my message got lost. lol I was basically saying that sometimes I think because I'm so easy going that he doesn't take me serious at times. That's my biggest fear. If someone was able to just vibe with you, but have their own life...but at the same time...like give you a lot of affection, attention, and love when you guys get together...would that make you feel secure/insecure/doubtful...like would you want to be with that person for a long time or would you look at that person as a "good time for now" person? When he references our relationship he mentions the love, but he mostly mentions the fun. He said that he's never had so much fun with a woman in his life. He also says that it breaks his heart to know when he's taken the smile off of my face. I'm a happy go lucky person and I hate FUSSING. Like...I can't stand when I fuss so it's short lived. I feel like I've made my point and when a situation is over...it's OVER. I don't keep rehashing it or bringing it back up. I can't stand that in other people and so I don't do it...plus life is too short. I like for us to have serious moments and definitely romantic moments, but I'm a fun person most of the time. Could you take a partner like that serious?
@MsTeeq1974 sounds like you guys have a great thing going
Posted by VirgoooI'm not always so sure about that. lol Yes, it's good in that we genuinely like each other and we get along well, but I just want to know that we're not wasting each other's time. I'm in it for the long haul and he says he is too...but as you guys with his same chart energies are saying...you don't always stick to it. It's like you guys require everything and at the same time...nothing at all. lol It's crazy. I don't spend too much time thinking about it and things do go best between us when I just do me and don't think about it. I just don't want the rug to be pulled from underneath me. You know? Us fun people tend to have that happen. We're all giggles and smiles with our partner and come to find out, they enjoy us, but feel like all there is...is fun. Not so. People like me who bring the fun actually do get attached...deeply and it hurts us when people don't take our love serious.
@MsTeeq1974 sounds like you guys have a great thing going
@jpx yeah i had this friend who was such a compulsive liar. Like she would lie about the smallest little thing for no reason.
But I didn't think much of it because i always knew she was lying and i felt that she was a bit insecure.
And because she helped me out a lot and i returned the favor. But when i found out that she was talking to other people about me. I got so furious. I called her up immediately and cursed her out and when i saw her the next day i was a total bitch. Like i purposely tried to ruin her morning even though she apologized to me.
But after a few days my anger died down and i apologized to her for going off. But ever since then ive only said hi and bye to her and thats it.
But I didn't think much of it because i always knew she was lying and i felt that she was a bit insecure.
And because she helped me out a lot and i returned the favor. But when i found out that she was talking to other people about me. I got so furious. I called her up immediately and cursed her out and when i saw her the next day i was a total bitch. Like i purposely tried to ruin her morning even though she apologized to me.
But after a few days my anger died down and i apologized to her for going off. But ever since then ive only said hi and bye to her and thats it.
@MsTeeq1974 I hope I can learn how deal with this energies, because i need need to have that assurance
Posted by VirgoooI'm so sorry Dear...what assurance? Even having this convo with you guys is a lot like interacting with my guy. Sometimes I feel like grabbing his face and saying, "Hey...focus...we're having a conversation here." lol ha ha ha ha His answers are also like...half answers and I know that he thinks that he IS answering thoroughly. What would this assurance feel like?
@MsTeeq1974 I hope I can learn how deal with this energies, because i need need to have that assurance
@MsTeeq1974 lol, I admit im not the best communicator all the time not to mention im at work trying not to get caught on my phone smh
Posted by VirgoooAh...understood. How about we catch up later? lol Out of all Dxp users, you really do seem the most like my guy or at least have expressed the same exact things that I see in him, so I hope that I'm not bothering you with these questions. However, I understand that you can't really chit chat in depth right now.
@MsTeeq1974 lol, I admit im not the best communicator all the time not to mention im at work trying not to get caught on my phone smh
@MsTeeq1974 sure no problem.
Posted by BlackMambaYou know you love us virgo's. It's the tendency to be over critical that is impossible to resist.Posted by SquirrelFromTheNuthouseVirgo men are a nightmare. This my last onePosted by BlackMambaNow, now... you're being far too sensible for someone that's a sucker for punishment.Posted by MsTeeq1974how about learning not to dish it....Posted by VirgoooYou're not alone. I've heard this from a few Scorp moon people and observed it in others. That's the resiliency of Scorp moon. You guys can take what you dish.
@MsTeeq1974
Yes, i agree i can be a bit possesive sometimes. Even with my friends. Whenever they hang out with other people i get a little bit jealous and i think that theyre trying to steal my friend. But i usually get over it and think that im being over dramatic so i try not to let it bother me.
Also when someone does something that bothers me i cant help but try to make them pay in little ways until im satisfied.
But whats weird is, if i do something to someone and something bad happens to me. I feel like i deserve it, that i deserve the karma.click to expand
Posted by MsTeeq1974
He'll call me like 3-4 times a day for like five to ten minutes at a time. The rest of my message got lost. lol I was basically saying that sometimes I think because I'm so easy going that he doesn't take me serious at times. That's my biggest fear. If someone was able to just vibe with you, but have their own life...but at the same time...like give you a lot of affection, attention, and love when you guys get together...would that make you feel secure/insecure/doubtful...like would you want to be with that person for a long time or would you look at that person as a "good time for now" person? When he references our relationship he mentions the love, but he mostly mentions the fun. He said that he's never had so much fun with a woman in his life. He also says that it breaks his heart to know when he's taken the smile off of my face. I'm a happy go lucky person and I hate FUSSING. Like...I can't stand when I fuss so it's short lived. I feel like I've made my point and when a situation is over...it's OVER. I don't keep rehashing it or bringing it back up. I can't stand that in other people and so I don't do it...plus life is too short. I like for us to have serious moments and definitely romantic moments, but I'm a fun person most of the time. Could you take a partner like that serious?
Yeah, that sort of balance would be great for me, like someone who's not afraid of showing their emotions or love, but at the same time has their own thing and interests going!
I get very, very put off by guys coming on too strong, as I've had VERY bad experiences with people like that and mentally clingy and unstable people in general, so I think I'm drawn to more introverted and reserved people because of it, but that in turn becomes a problem because those guys haven't been very vocal about how they feel about me, which keeps me in a guessing game and I tend to believe the most negative I can about me which becomes detrimental for us both.
What are your placements? Maybe I should look for similiar placements like yours 🙂
Posted by VirgoooWow, this is weird, had almost the same exact situation with a female friend (Aries Sun/Virgo Moon and Libra Rising) except she did other things than talk about me, but they were equally as bad. I literally just told her my limit had been reached, and then I cut her off. We still say hi and bye, and if she'll text me I'll respond but I'll be very short about stuff, always. I just feel I'll never have any trust or respect for this person ever again.
@jpx yeah i had this friend who was such a compulsive liar. Like she would lie about the smallest little thing for no reason.
But I didn't think much of it because i always knew she was lying and i felt that she was a bit insecure.
And because she helped me out a lot and i returned the favor. But when i found out that she was talking to other people about me. I got so furious. I called her up immediately and cursed her out and when i saw her the next day i was a total bitch. Like i purposely tried to ruin her morning even though she apologized to me.
But after a few days my anger died down and i apologized to her for going off. But ever since then ive only said hi and bye to her and thats it.
Pisces Sun, Moon, and Merc. Capricorn Venus, Taurus Mars, Aquarius Jupiter. My chart is mostly air. I'm a Mars in the 1st house person with all Pisces personal planets in my 11th house of Friendship and community associations. Friendship is HIGH in my partnership need. Ummm...I'm a Taurus rising and Scorpio Descendant. My IC is in Leo and my MC is in Aquarius. Virgo rules my 5th house of romance and Sagittarius rules my 8th house of sex and open partnerships. I definitely view my family like a Lion pride and that's exactly how I run my house. Everyone eats good and is very comfortable, but it comes at a high prices of me being proud of US and everyone better act accordingly...don't disappoint the herd. I've worked in the non profit sector for the past....gosh...10 years and always will. Community organizations are my passion. I'm pretty easy to get along with and again, I love to laugh and have fun. That's definitely a priority, but not at the expense of balance, harmony in regards to the bills being paid etc. Libra rules my 6th house of daily routines. The more secure I am in the ability to pay bills, the more fun we have. I'm good at sharing space and tend to do more than my fair share to make sure that things are clean and functional. It doesn't bother me and as long as other people are contributing, I'll never bellyache about taking on a bit more in regards to chores than others.
Music is MY LIFE! I can't go without music being played or me singing, etc. It has to happen, so noise in the house doesn't bother me. Not ever...unless it's toxic noise. I once had a friend stay with me who left her guy, but she argued loudly with him on the phone constantly. That was nerve wrecking. I couldn't take that long term. If she'd been loud, but cherry or argued with him quietly...cool, but both of those drove me nuts to the point to where I got keys to a friend's apartment and stayed there for a few days trying to figure out how to tell her that she couldn't do that anymore. She would argue with that man at midnight when I had to be at work the next morning and she stayed with me for over three months without paying a single bill or helping financially. That wasn't the issue...it was the fact that she wasn't contributing, but basically took over the atmosphere of my home...not cool. We'd been friends for over 15 years so I was trying to tolerate it as long as possible.
Music is MY LIFE! I can't go without music being played or me singing, etc. It has to happen, so noise in the house doesn't bother me. Not ever...unless it's toxic noise. I once had a friend stay with me who left her guy, but she argued loudly with him on the phone constantly. That was nerve wrecking. I couldn't take that long term. If she'd been loud, but cherry or argued with him quietly...cool, but both of those drove me nuts to the point to where I got keys to a friend's apartment and stayed there for a few days trying to figure out how to tell her that she couldn't do that anymore. She would argue with that man at midnight when I had to be at work the next morning and she stayed with me for over three months without paying a single bill or helping financially. That wasn't the issue...it was the fact that she wasn't contributing, but basically took over the atmosphere of my home...not cool. We'd been friends for over 15 years so I was trying to tolerate it as long as possible.
@jpx wowwww, i just looked up her chart and she is a leo sun, Virgo moon and libra rising. Thats so weird lol
@jpx wowwww, i just looked up her chart and she is a leo sun, Virgo moon and libra rising. Thats so weird lol
@MsTeeq1974 i still dont know everything when it comes to astrology charts. I do not understand when someone says they have this sign in their 5th house or w.e.
What does that signify?
What does that signify?
@FrenchKpricorn lol no, theyre show boxes
@FrenchKpricorn lol no, theyre show boxes
@FrenchKpricorn *shoe
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@jpx wowwww, i just looked up her chart and she is a leo sun, Virgo moon and libra rising. Thats so weird lol
Hahaha, that's scary :O
So these are fiery and dominant women on the outside but sooo insecure on the inside.. maybe we should hook those two up with each other? 😛
Posted by FrenchKpricornPosted by BlackMambaI bet double on this one,
i think im dating a virgo with scorpio moon, he's an immense headache...probably worst relationships i've ever been in...
but i still stick around...😢
only a cap can handle a weirgo, your choice ?click to expand
Haha, I never meet any Cap guys. Where are you hiding?
@FrenchKpricorn same shop lol.
@jpx yeah we definitely should! Lol. And ive never met any capi guys either. Except my dad and we dont get along at all! He has a Leo moon and Aries mars. Very stubborn and controlling
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