Good Parents: Astrology Wise
This topic was created in the Chart Interpretation forum by AbbyNormal on Monday, September 19, 2016 and has 13 replies.
So I was wondering what to look at in a chart to indicate what someone's parenting style would be like. I realize how someone was raised themselves and other factors go into it but is there a general place to look to see how someone is more inclined to behave with their children?
I've just now come into the period of my life where I believe I could be a good parent. I always felt a calling to be a mother which I never quite understood but I never felt stable and responsible enough for a child, thus i have none. the Virgo I am dating, while things are not optimal with us right now, may be a very good parent one day. I watch him with the puppy and I like how he will sit and explain to Bubba why he got mad at him/why what he did was bad/wrong and assures him of his love and that he is indeed a good boy (who just did a bad thing). while he does get kinda harsh on him at times, he's always there with him afterwards talking it out with him. we both agree that it is important with children too to sit and explain why they are in trouble, not to simply say "you re bad, go to your room and think about it" like i was told so many times. It doesn't encourage correct behaviour and doesn't correct negative behavior just causes rumination, sulking, and emotional distance. anyway, any light someone can shed will be appreciated!
I've just now come into the period of my life where I believe I could be a good parent. I always felt a calling to be a mother which I never quite understood but I never felt stable and responsible enough for a child, thus i have none. the Virgo I am dating, while things are not optimal with us right now, may be a very good parent one day. I watch him with the puppy and I like how he will sit and explain to Bubba why he got mad at him/why what he did was bad/wrong and assures him of his love and that he is indeed a good boy (who just did a bad thing). while he does get kinda harsh on him at times, he's always there with him afterwards talking it out with him. we both agree that it is important with children too to sit and explain why they are in trouble, not to simply say "you re bad, go to your room and think about it" like i was told so many times. It doesn't encourage correct behaviour and doesn't correct negative behavior just causes rumination, sulking, and emotional distance. anyway, any light someone can shed will be appreciated!
Sun, moon, 4th house and 10th house.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.
Posted by tiziani
I may have to steal your "not optimal" catchphrase lol
Parenting style usually boils down to where all three people's (both parents and the child)'s planets land in each other's houses.
You can see the power dynamics, say if one of the three has their planets in both the others' 10th House then they will come off as the authoritarian of the family, for example.
There are also some parts of the 3rd, 4th and 5th Houses, in Arabic parts, that predict better relationships with sons or daughters for the chart holder.
its how i get through my days lol I can't/won't change some aspects of my relationship so I've changed my way of thinking about it. until I'm ready to take action on my own behalf I have to accept that anything I'm going thru is of my own choosing. If that makes any sense lol I might be a lunatic who knows... anyway I can see we gonna get deep on this one lol gotta figure a lot of this out still. my next part of astrology to study will probably be composite charts so I can start learning to judge aspects and relationships better.
This mom:
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
Posted by nevesLOLOLOLOL
This mom:
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
I TOTALLY HOPE FOR A SON LIKE THAT!!! THERE'S FAR TOO MUCH USUAL IN THE WORLD!!
chances are I'd be like her but smiling ear to ear at the little piece of me he got LOL and id encourage him to go into acting lol
Posted by Aquistormdo i look at what planets are in the 4th and 10th?
Sun, moon, 4th house and 10th house.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.
Posted by AbbyNormalSun, Moon, Saturn and NeptunePosted by Aquistormdo i look at what planets are in the 4th and 10th?
Sun, moon, 4th house and 10th house.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalThe thing about "good parents" - well... that's more plausible in the right mix. If it's a good matching. If not... even though, the ones in question - might have the potential to be great parents - for a certain type of children, if they end-up with a mix - that's quite the opposite - in terms of personality (worlds apart even) - it just wouldn't work. That's a doomed mix for both parties (both the parents and the child). For example: a hippy pair - like the one from: Meet the Fockers...Posted by nevesLOLOLOLOL
This mom:
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
I TOTALLY HOPE FOR A SON LIKE THAT!!! THERE'S FAR TOO MUCH USUAL IN THE WORLD!!
chances are I'd be like her but smiling ear to ear at the little piece of me he got LOL and id encourage him to go into acting lolclick to expand
...who end-up with a serious child - who aims to be normal like everybody else. ^^
Or, something like this...
Posted by nevesPosted by AbbyNormalThe thing about "good parents" - well... that's more plausible in the right mix. If it's a good matching. If not... even though, the ones in question - might have the potential to be great parents - for a certain type of children, if they end-up with a mix - that's quite the opposite - in terms of personality (worlds apart even) - it just wouldn't work. That's a doomed mix for both parties (both the parents and the child). For example: a hippy pair - like the one from: Meet the Fockers...Posted by nevesLOLOLOLOL
This mom:
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
I TOTALLY HOPE FOR A SON LIKE THAT!!! THERE'S FAR TOO MUCH USUAL IN THE WORLD!!
chances are I'd be like her but smiling ear to ear at the little piece of me he got LOL and id encourage him to go into acting lol
...who end-up with a serious child - who aims to be normal like everybody else. ^^
Or, something like this...
click to expand
o.m.g. he is like really smacking that kid lol I see what you mean. while I appreciate all that, my outbursts lessen the older I get lol they still occur, I've just developed a lot of self control over the years. that's another reason I dont have kids yet either tho. I want my children to have both mother and father in their lives. period. I believe it's important. having said that, my personal responsibility is to choose the BEST possible mate in which to procreate. let's just say I don't think I've met him yet lol. I do believe I'll know when it's time. I want my children to be raised with a father who is above all present but also wise, patient, funny, spontaneous, stable, passionate, hard-working, intelligent, communicative, strong, loyal.... i honestly don't think this is too much to look for in one particularly amazing person but I realize it will be someone special, not an every day guy, but a once in a lifetime man. let's hope I find him soon. :-P Posted by AquistormI'm not sure that answered my question...Posted by AbbyNormalSun, Moon, Saturn and NeptunePosted by Aquistormdo i look at what planets are in the 4th and 10th?
Sun, moon, 4th house and 10th house.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.click to expand
Posted by AbbyNormalI am Taurus Sun Gemini moon with Scorpio Saturn and Capricorn Neptune. my 4th house is Virgo, and my 10th Pisces, both empty I believe ...Posted by AquistormI'm not sure that answered my question...Posted by AbbyNormalSun, Moon, Saturn and NeptunePosted by Aquistormdo i look at what planets are in the 4th and 10th?
Sun, moon, 4th house and 10th house.
4th House Motherhood or Maternal things such as nurturing, 10th House Fatherhood or Discipline.click to expand
he is Virgo Sun Aqua moon with Scorpio Saturn and Sagittarius Neptune. his 4th house is cancer and 10th Capricorn. I believe 4th is empty for him and Jupiter in the 10th.
anything??
Posted by nevesSo this is why kids are supposed to sit in the back seat..Posted by AbbyNormalThe thing about "good parents" - well... that's more plausible in the right mix. If it's a good matching. If not... even though, the ones in question - might have the potential to be great parents - for a certain type of children, if they end-up with a mix - that's quite the opposite - in terms of personality (worlds apart even) - it just wouldn't work. That's a doomed mix for both parties (both the parents and the child). For example: a hippy pair - like the one from: Meet the Fockers...Posted by nevesLOLOLOLOL
This mom:
... seems pretty cool - for an unusual son. ^^
I TOTALLY HOPE FOR A SON LIKE THAT!!! THERE'S FAR TOO MUCH USUAL IN THE WORLD!!
chances are I'd be like her but smiling ear to ear at the little piece of me he got LOL and id encourage him to go into acting lol
...who end-up with a serious child - who aims to be normal like everybody else. ^^
Or, something like this...
click to expand
there's no astrological indicator of what a good parent will be lol...
you're relationship with your partner, how well you coexist, how long you've been together, current living situation, etc. should give you some type of clue as to if you should even start thinking about having children....
if you're seeking information on having children, suitable mates, etc...and astrology charts are one of your primary sources to learn about that, then you're probably ready.
also, being married helps as well...
-Jack
you're relationship with your partner, how well you coexist, how long you've been together, current living situation, etc. should give you some type of clue as to if you should even start thinking about having children....
if you're seeking information on having children, suitable mates, etc...and astrology charts are one of your primary sources to learn about that, then you're probably ready.
also, being married helps as well...
-Jack
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