Stellium in third house but....
This topic was created in the Chart Interpretation forum by hnq on Monday, December 15, 2014 and has 10 replies.
I literally suck at talking. I have so much trouble finding the right words when I'm in a conversation... and story-telling, let's not even get into that. I'm also pretty shy and quiet. I talk a lot to my close friends when I'm in the mood. All the talking is mostly going on inside my head. Anyone have a theory or explanation?
a stellium shows what you need to focus on, in your case friendships and like you mentioned communicating.
Bless ur heart when it comes to presentations huh?
Bless ur heart when it comes to presentations huh?
That makes a lot of sense. I'm somewhat reserved, I always wait for people to come to me...
but I wish I wasn't because everything going on inside of me is so full of life.
Oh my god... funny that you mention it, I always demanded I present only in front of my teacher... I hate attention.
Is the sign my stellium is in or the house more important?
but I wish I wasn't because everything going on inside of me is so full of life.
Oh my god... funny that you mention it, I always demanded I present only in front of my teacher... I hate attention.
Is the sign my stellium is in or the house more important?
Posted by hnq
I literally suck at talking. I have so much trouble finding the right words when I'm in a conversation... and story-telling, let's not even get into that. I'm also pretty shy and quiet. I talk a lot to my close friends when I'm in the mood. All the talking is mostly going on inside my head. Anyone have a theory or explanation?
I have no planets in 3rd house. Yet I suck at talking.
Posted by hnq
That makes a lot of sense. I'm somewhat reserved, I always wait for people to come to me...
but I wish I wasn't because everything going on inside of me is so full of life.
Oh my god... funny that you mention it, I always demanded I present only in front of my teacher... I hate attention.
Is the sign my stellium is in or the house more important?
Maybe the sign of the stellium does play a part, I also have a stellium in the 3rd of 4 planets but I actually don't mind attention.
@hnq,
but your Merc and Sun are on the cusp to Scorpio.
My guess is:
you are either preserved as Scorpio or too open (all of a sudden) irritating People with your detriment Mercury.
yes? no?
but your Merc and Sun are on the cusp to Scorpio.
My guess is:
you are either preserved as Scorpio or too open (all of a sudden) irritating People with your detriment Mercury.
yes? no?
@Elizwerf what's your sign?
@DwellingOnMove Oh I had no idea... how come? I am too open all of a sudden sometimes!!! that makes a lot of sense
@DwellingOnMove Oh I had no idea... how come? I am too open all of a sudden sometimes!!! that makes a lot of sense
Posted by hnq
@Elizwerf what's your sign?
@DwellingOnMove Oh I had no idea... how come? I am too open all of a sudden sometimes!!! that makes a lot of sense
I am a Scorpio sun Taurus moon and Libra rising
I don't know much about 3rd house, but I have a 9th house stellium & gemini rising so it has to be somewhat similar. I used to be really anxious about talking and felt like I had nothing to say, which was really horrible for me, I hate to think that I am boring.
I don't know if it's the same thing we are talking about, but most of the conversations are in my head, too. And I mean, sometimes I find that instead of thinking in an inner monologue, the way I think is as if I am relaying the information to another person + editing things out to make it the best version of whatever i'm saying, like a script. I used to keep all those scripts to myself.
Its not very good advice, but you should work on getting out of your own mind. With a 3rd house stellium, you definitely have valuable and entertaining things to say. 3rd/9th is also really good at storytelling, seriously. practice saying the first thing that comes to your mind... It helps.
I don't know if it's the same thing we are talking about, but most of the conversations are in my head, too. And I mean, sometimes I find that instead of thinking in an inner monologue, the way I think is as if I am relaying the information to another person + editing things out to make it the best version of whatever i'm saying, like a script. I used to keep all those scripts to myself.
Its not very good advice, but you should work on getting out of your own mind. With a 3rd house stellium, you definitely have valuable and entertaining things to say. 3rd/9th is also really good at storytelling, seriously. practice saying the first thing that comes to your mind... It helps.
@augustmoon
Yes!!! I feel like I could always say so much more than I usually do. Depending on the person, I can limit what I say incredibly. Also you can probably imagine how honest I am with all this Sag in me.
I will really try... How do you suggest doing that? Just saying what I think as soon as I think it without all the filtering?
Thanks so much! Your insight is appreciated :-)
Yes!!! I feel like I could always say so much more than I usually do. Depending on the person, I can limit what I say incredibly. Also you can probably imagine how honest I am with all this Sag in me.
I will really try... How do you suggest doing that? Just saying what I think as soon as I think it without all the filtering?
Thanks so much! Your insight is appreciated :-)
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