Posted by DwellingOnMoveI am not sure what his rising sign is because i don't know the time of his birth.
What is Rising sign and North Node of you both?
Posted by Nouran20Posted by DwellingOnMoveI am not sure what his rising sign is because i don't know the time of his birth.
What is Rising sign and North Node of you both?
But these are our birth dates:
ME: 18/05/1992
Him: 30/11/1989
Hope that is helpful enough?click to expand
Posted by DwellingOnMovecan i just deeply thank you for the great amount of research you have done..you really moved me
Another thing is that you both are fated to have fights. Cause Mars is the ruler of Aries and Scorpio. Now look, yours is in Aries. His in Scorpio. Don't get discouraged by these fights.
Posted by DwellingOnMovewhat do you mean by "silence your sun and venus"? Im sorry I don't think i caught that...i really hope I can make it survive.
Another point is his Pluto square to your Saturn. Scorp vs. Aqua. So he come across as dominant and forceful to you. This is something your Sun doesn't like. nor your Moon. nor Venus. Sag placements have an alergic reaction to direct comanding. Indirectly informed of the wishes of their lovers, they can serve.
If you are attracted to his dominance, you need to find ways to silence your Sun and Venus. It seems Fixed signs can better get along with each other, if troubled with squares and oppositions. So be aware: it will be difficult but if your mind is set on this then that can survive anything.
Posted by DwellingOnMovewhen you say new truth do you like new plans in life?
Another weakness is: his Sun in Sag (8°) square to your Jupiter in Virgo (5°). It can happen that he finds you take only small steps, do not dare to do more, maybe you critisize him and he is permanently busy with justifying himself.
Generally it is said about the Sag sign, that when we (I have multiple Sag placements) find a new truth and are enthusiastic about it, that we start to mission those around us. And we can exagerate and act as fanatic. Here the only thing you can do is to wait. Cause with Sag Mercury he will not stay with that truth for long. He'll find a new one. probably. it's not sure. cause Cap Moon and Venus might want to stay at that point.
You can tell your part, discuss to some extent and then go wear your pyjamas and wait that he turns the lights off and come to bed. Don't be stabborn. All these truths and ideas are nothing compared with love.
Ok, if it's about children and how to raise them, I don't know what to say. Some women show here the limits. Some have adapted to their men so that ... IDK. You'll see.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveohhh i really would hate it if he flirted with someone else, and i would hate for us to break up in 20/30 years...
There's no major aspect between the two moons. Maybe you both can stay in a long term relationship. Then after 20-30 years he breaks out to connect to a water moon. Maybe you get bored with his grumpy Moon and break out to connect to a fun loving Gemini Moon. IDK.
I guess with all the Capricorn and Earth placements you both have, you'll stay together. A little flirt here and there. But no big act of cheating. As long as his Jupiter in Cancer is engaged in charity projects and his Sag Mercury is busy with learning new things, hard work or travels, that could be enough. One could look at the houses and see which subjects are more on his or your plate.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveCan you further elaborate on this point because im not sure i fully get it "his fall-back character traits are more like those of Leo; that is in square to your Venus; so your behavior in showing love is of no help for him to move from Leo to Aqua."Posted by Nouran20Posted by DwellingOnMoveI am not sure what his rising sign is because i don't know the time of his birth.
What is Rising sign and North Node of you both?
But these are our birth dates:
ME: 18/05/1992
Him: 30/11/1989
Hope that is helpful enough?
The Nodes are as follows:
him Aqua 20
her Cap 2
I'd see his Moon conjuction your North Node, both at 2 degree of Capricorn a good thing. The theories about Nodes I've exctracted from Internet sources say
- this encounter is of special importance to your lives; not a short-lived dating case.
- your fall-back character is more something like a Cancer: moody, protective and very emotional; it would be worth for you to try to adapt to Capricornian traits; his steady Cap Moon is of great help for that matter.
- this is why you met; to learn from each other.
- his fall-back character traits are more like those of Leo; that is in square to your Venus; so your behavior in showing love is of no help for him to move from Leo to Aqua.
- my brother has Sn Leo and my mother had SN Aqua. He acts as a boss and requires attention. She'd better had acted as one. She was taken for granted. This is how I bring the theory with the reality I know. failures possible.click to expand
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... elaborate on ... "his fall-back character traits are more like those of Leo; that is in square to your Venus; so your behavior in showing love is of no help for him to move from Leo to Aqua."
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http://www.truenode.org/north-node-signs/north-node-in-aquarius/click to expand
Posted by Nouran20Posted by DwellingOnMoveohhh i really would hate it if he flirted with someone else, and i would hate for us to break up in 20/30 years...
... no major aspect between the two moons. ...
I guess with all the Capricorn and Earth placements you both have, you'll stay together. ...click to expand
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Posted by DwellingOnMoveThank you again for taking me seriously...I really appreciate the help.
"can i just deeply thank you for the great amount of research you have done..you really moved me"
you're welcome. I noticed that you were serious and have been looking for answers in several threads. So I decided to put time into it. I'm afraid this is only a glance.
"when we fight I feel so exhausted and tired, even depressed..I get panicky as well. If he gets mad I could get really panicky and depressed for longer period of time..."
ah, that is sad to hear. He acts as a young man. A young girl like you should not face such problems. You certailny have more options. He's too unexperienced to know your true value. Young pride.... Have you ever told him about your panic after those quarrels?
If he is living in an industrial country and you not, there are chances that you misinterpret his words. This is culture clash and can vanish after the first year.
"if we fight/argue and then he speaks to me right after in a nice way and things are smoothed out quickly then my panic calms down quickly."
well, it is his duty to calm you down (well, he was the trigger). good that he manages it.
"Do you think that is related to my mars being in aries and his in Scorpio?"
chances are. both signs don't shy away from challenges. I say yes.
"I just don't know what is the best way to calm myself down, have control over my panics...I just don't know why i feel this way and i wonder if he also feels the same?"
maybe you have seen uncomfortable scenes during your childhood? that some grown-ups were gross to each other? maybe your Moon hates it when seriousness takes over. Sag Moon is fun-loving. Maybe you like very much this marriage to happen and see it in danger whenever... Or you are not sure if it gets worse once you are with him far from family support. It is his job to calm you down. Or you put a brake on the sensitivity.
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