Synastry reading

This topic was created in the Chart Interpretation forum by ALH0006 on Tuesday, October 24, 2017 and has 9 replies.
I have been living with him for about 8 months. My biggest concern is that other people's reactions to him will ultimately limit me. I've had three people already tell me that his energy unnerves them. I think it's got to do with his Scorpio stellium. We get along reasonably well but getting genuine conversation out of him is difficult. He's sweet and complimentary. He'll talk about emotional crap, our future together and other stuff like that but we have very different backgrounds and interests. Any advice based on what you see in our charts? How trustworthy would you say his motives are? How well do these charts blend? His chart: https://astro-charts.com/chart/b417e62cf/. My chart: https://astro-charts.com/chart/d85fd8e8f/ synastry chart: astro-charts.com/chart/synastry/ff183b7f2
10/31/1990
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
When was he born? He's got the same placements as me except I'm a Capricorn rising
10/31/1990 @ 6:14 am
Simple: stop listening to others opinions of your man.
Posted by LadyNeptune
Simple: stop listening to others opinions of your man.

That's not as simple as you make it out to be. If a person makes someone else deeply uncomfortable, even if it is for no apparent reason, then those they associate with do get backlash. I was doing some side work for my aunt for extra cash. She fired me after meeting him and said she wouldn't go into explicit detail and that it had nothing to do with my work or anything he did in particular. Just that his energy was too chaotic. A similar thing happened with my landlord, only she started yelling at me when she met him and I was about to buy her friggin property. Two aquaintances completely ignored me when I ran into them at an event because "he was with me". Another friend didn't cut me out but warned me to be careful because his energy set her alarm bells off but she was at least nice about it. I've been yelled at by another person about him over something extremely silly....it goes on. I've only seen something like this once before with someone I knew and it did not turn out well with them. People were reacting unfairly in the moment and without evidence but things did come to light later on that I probably should have figured out sooner. Regardless, I have been given numerous warnings to be careful who I associate with concerning him from people he doesn't know and when that happens people have the tendency to back away from me too and give me fewer opportunities. It straight shrinks my world. Not only that but I have had a couple of weird encounters with people who do know and like him. We are temporarily renting a room at his step- brothers house because I refused to do business with that woman who went nutty upon meeting him and did not purchase her property. It's the neighborhood he grew up in. One friend of his nervously asked me for a cigarette. No biggie. I gave him a few but did ask what had him so jumpy and he literally looked around and said something brief about how jealous my bf is. His step brother and I talked one night and after that he completely quit acknowledging my existence. It was a normal talk....but I do know that bf didn't particularly like that I had talked to him at all when he wasn't there. I suspect he said something to both of them because neither has talked to me since. I don't typically get these kinds of reactions from people. But I have since we've been together. I wonder if he is sabatoging in the background while giving me a face of freedom, if that makes sense.

Posted by ALH0006
Posted by LadyNeptune
Simple: stop listening to others opinions of your man.

That's not as simple as you make it out to be. If a person makes someone else deeply uncomfortable, even if it is for no apparent reason, then those they associate with do get backlash. I was doing some side work for my aunt for extra cash. She fired me after meeting him and said she wouldn't go into explicit detail and that it had nothing to do with my work or anything he did in particular. Just that his energy was too chaotic. A similar thing happened with my landlord, only she started yelling at me when she met him and I was about to buy her friggin property. Two aquaintances completely ignored me when I ran into them at an event because "he was with me". Another friend didn't cut me out but warned me to be careful because his energy set her alarm bells off but she was at least nice about it. I've been yelled at by another person about him over something extremely silly....it goes on. I've only seen something like this once before with someone I knew and it did not turn out well with them. People were reacting unfairly in the moment and without evidence but things did come to light later on that I probably should have figured out sooner. Regardless, I have been given numerous warnings to be careful who I associate with concerning him from people he doesn't know and when that happens people have the tendency to back away from me too and give me fewer opportunities. It straight shrinks my world. Not only that but I have had a couple of weird encounters with people who do know and like him. We are temporarily renting a room at his step- brothers house because I refused to do business with that woman who went nutty upon meeting him and did not purchase her property. It's the neighborhood he grew up in. One friend of his nervously asked me for a cigarette. No biggie. I gave him a few but did ask what had him so jumpy and he literally looked around and said something brief about how jealous my bf is. His step brother and I talked one night and after that he completely quit acknowledging my existence. It was a normal talk....but I do know that bf didn't particularly like that I had talked to him at all when he wasn't there. I suspect he said something to both of them because neither has talked to me since. I don't typically get these kinds of reactions from people. But I have since we've been together. I wonder if he is sabatoging in the background while giving me a face of freedom, if that makes sense.

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There is something more to this than energy.

And it's not simply other people. It's now YOUR gut telling you something too.
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by ALH0006
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
When was he born? He's got the same placements as me except I'm a Capricorn rising
10/31/1990 @ 6:14 am
😱

Depending on time zone/location i was born the day after

Water sign men are usually bitchy/moody imo
you are a 90 ? omg u so old

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wtf. Old at 27?

Listen to your gut on this.
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Posted by DeadInside
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by ALH0006
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
When was he born? He's got the same placements as me except I'm a Capricorn rising
10/31/1990 @ 6:14 am
😱

Depending on time zone/location i was born the day after

Water sign men are usually bitchy/moody imo
you are a 90 ? omg u so old

wtf. Old at 27?

how old do u give to uvd ?
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She already said she is the day after so it would make her 27. However I thought she was early 20's