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Dating to marry
Posted by Maxianesque
I can arrange it for you.
I don’t feel ready yet 😝
But how does it work for real? Do those people date to marry only? What happened to dating for dating’s sake?
Posted by MaxianesquePosted by NotALibraPosted by borednbeautifulMaybe they know what they want and don't want to waste their time dating one person and then another? Particularly if they are getting older. Two people want a life partner and find someone compatible enough to commit toPosted by MaxianesqueI don’t feel ready yet 😝
I can arrange it for you.
But how does it work for real? Do those people date to marry only? What happened to dating for dating’s sake?
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Wizz makes a fair assessment here though.click to expand
Who is wizz? That crazy Gemini guy? 😬
exchange baby pics
Posted by MaxianesquePosted by borednbeautifulPosted by MaxianesquePosted by NotALibraWizz makes a fair assessment here though.Posted by borednbeautifulMaybe they know what they want and don't want to waste their time dating one person and then another? Particularly if they are getting older. Two people want a life partner and find someone compatible enough to commit toPosted by MaxianesqueI don’t feel ready yet 😝
I can arrange it for you.
But how does it work for real? Do those people date to marry only? What happened to dating for dating’s sake?
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Who is wizz? That crazy Gemini guy? 😬
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Yes😂click to expand
Oh wow, he must have gotten off his meds again.
I think it’s time for me to hit the gym. Better use of my time than dxp 😅
also when he starts buying furniture, he's an absolute keeper
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by MaxianesquePosted by NotALibraWizz makes a fair assessment here though.Posted by borednbeautifulMaybe they know what they want and don't want to waste their time dating one person and then another? Particularly if they are getting older. Two people want a life partner and find someone compatible enough to commit toPosted by MaxianesqueI don’t feel ready yet 😝
I can arrange it for you.
But how does it work for real? Do those people date to marry only? What happened to dating for dating’s sake?
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Who is wizz? That crazy Gemini guy? 😬
Grey Wizard? The one with the Dumbledore avi? I thought he was a Leo.click to expand
I doubt it’s the same guy. I’ve had a crush on that Leo guy 😻
Anyway, this guy is annoying gemini. Wizzards was his previous nickname, I believe?
Ask someone what they want from a relationship. Marriage etc
Posted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Posted by mygirlfriendsareinprison
Taxi cab theory
Just keep hailing cabs 🤣
What is it tho? I don’t think I’ve heard of it 🤔
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.click to expand
you know what's really cringe? when they do that it means they KNOW what they're doing wrong and must've realized that you've noticed.
i'm boring asf and only dated looking for serious material. so basically i'd be speed running, dropping guys after maybe like 2 dates for the smallest things. no need to waste time. why date one ahole guy to eventually waste a decade of your life?
and men who say they want marriage aren't always telling the truth anyway. there are better ways to 'measure' a man. like my cap ex who was with this chick for like 10-11 years, talking about wanting to marry her (conservative background) but then confessed to me at the end of our relationship that he wasn't planning to marry her at all.
a dude who'd waste one woman's decade like that shouldn't even be worth 2 dates.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
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Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.click to expand
“Let’s just go with the flow” seem like the worst type of a guy. It can take them years to go with the flow 🙄
One male friend told me good advice. He said to first focus on if he is husband material and then act accordingly. If he is for sex/dating only type of a man, then there is that. He said that should be known during the first couple of dates..
Me too. I’m waiting to be a mail ordered bride for the Aussie.
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by 4Moon
You have to work on yourself first
You'll never get to the final product. Just start from where you're at.click to expand
Yep. We are all work in the progress. We will never be a complete product. Perhaps when we die 🙂
Posted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.
you know what's really cringe? when they do that it means they KNOW what they're doing wrong and must've realized that you've noticed.
i'm boring asf and only dated looking for serious material. so basically i'd be speed running, dropping guys after maybe like 2 dates for the smallest things. no need to waste time. why date one ahole guy to eventually waste a decade of your life?
and men who say they want marriage aren't always telling the truth anyway. there are better ways to 'measure' a man. like my cap ex who was with this chick for like 10-11 years, talking about wanting to marry her (conservative background) but then confessed to me at the end of our relationship that he wasn't planning to marry her at all.
a dude who'd waste one woman's decade like that shouldn't even be worth 2 dates.
You're right. Glad you didnt waste your time. In US culture there is so much emphasis on not rushing things women waste their time dating men who never plan to commit. You knew you wanted marriage and I think you went about it that right way.click to expand
speed serial dating is the way. the western take sounds delusional to me: "don't look for it, love will find you." lmfao
personally, love found me but I had to make the effort of changing my fb status to single first.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.
you know what's really cringe? when they do that it means they KNOW what they're doing wrong and must've realized that you've noticed.
i'm boring asf and only dated looking for serious material. so basically i'd be speed running, dropping guys after maybe like 2 dates for the smallest things. no need to waste time. why date one ahole guy to eventually waste a decade of your life?
and men who say they want marriage aren't always telling the truth anyway. there are better ways to 'measure' a man. like my cap ex who was with this chick for like 10-11 years, talking about wanting to marry her (conservative background) but then confessed to me at the end of our relationship that he wasn't planning to marry her at all.
a dude who'd waste one woman's decade like that shouldn't even be worth 2 dates.
You're right. Glad you didnt waste your time. In US culture there is so much emphasis on not rushing things women waste their time dating men who never plan to commit. You knew you wanted marriage and I think you went about it that right way.
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speed serial dating is the way. the western take sounds delusional to me: "don't look for it, love will find you." lmfao
personally, love found me but I had to make the effort of changing my fb status to single first.click to expand
You met your husband on Facebook first?
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.
you know what's really cringe? when they do that it means they KNOW what they're doing wrong and must've realized that you've noticed.
i'm boring asf and only dated looking for serious material. so basically i'd be speed running, dropping guys after maybe like 2 dates for the smallest things. no need to waste time. why date one ahole guy to eventually waste a decade of your life?
and men who say they want marriage aren't always telling the truth anyway. there are better ways to 'measure' a man. like my cap ex who was with this chick for like 10-11 years, talking about wanting to marry her (conservative background) but then confessed to me at the end of our relationship that he wasn't planning to marry her at all.
a dude who'd waste one woman's decade like that shouldn't even be worth 2 dates.
You're right. Glad you didnt waste your time. In US culture there is so much emphasis on not rushing things women waste their time dating men who never plan to commit. You knew you wanted marriage and I think you went about it that right way.
click to expand
speed serial dating is the way. the western take sounds delusional to me: "don't look for it, love will find you." lmfao
personally, love found me but I had to make the effort of changing my fb status to single first.
You met your husband on Facebook first?
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yes lol and somehow one of the first things we've done was exchange baby pics which i guess was a subtle way for me to find out what he thought about children in general. he found me coz i was posting on a community group (i moved into his town coz i'm avoiding my relatives).
knowing me, i was prob trying to buy something and he must've liked my profile pic and started talking to me. 2 weekend dates during stormy weather together and he just kinda never left.
very on brand for me coz my venus is in the 11th which says I'd meet a love from unconventional places, groups, communities, technology, or friends which literally is Facebook 😆😆
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by borednbeautifulPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunnyPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by BadderBunny
Not sure if there is a method, but it just means dating with the intention of marriage. The idea is to only invest energy in dating someone who is ready and searching for someone to settle down and get married to, if marriage is what you want. If you dont see him as husband material and vice versa he isn't seeing you as potential wife material, then you're both just passing time. Which is fine for your 20s cause you have nothing better to do and dont mind wasting time dating for fun. But if you're looking for a serious life partner, you might not want to invest 5 to 10 years of your life in a person waiting for them to figure out if you are "the one".
this true, i dated a scorpio for like a heartbeat but just somehow wasn't sensing 'enough' commitment from him. so meh i drop and ghosted. always be prepared to cut loose a non-marriageable so you don't waste your fertility years.
when you leave a man, they always start to act 'right' even when you give 0 reason/excuse why you're walking out. they start to 'correct' themselves- the stuff you've 'mysteriously' left them for they suddenly dropped (vices, habits, attitudes, other women etc).
this why you never tell them WHY coz they always reveal themselves when you want out (righting their wrongs).
Yeah they correct just enough to get you back and then backslide to their old ways. I'm in that phase right not looking for a boyfriend, I'm looking for a husband. I want to take the time to know someone and find out if they are husband potential but I'm not interested in the "lets get to know each other and see how things go" energy. Those types usually end up being someone who will drag their feet forever when they arent actually interested in marriage, but they are too selfish to let you go because they dont want tl be alone.
you know what's really cringe? when they do that it means they KNOW what they're doing wrong and must've realized that you've noticed.
i'm boring asf and only dated looking for serious material. so basically i'd be speed running, dropping guys after maybe like 2 dates for the smallest things. no need to waste time. why date one ahole guy to eventually waste a decade of your life?
and men who say they want marriage aren't always telling the truth anyway. there are better ways to 'measure' a man. like my cap ex who was with this chick for like 10-11 years, talking about wanting to marry her (conservative background) but then confessed to me at the end of our relationship that he wasn't planning to marry her at all.
a dude who'd waste one woman's decade like that shouldn't even be worth 2 dates.
You're right. Glad you didnt waste your time. In US culture there is so much emphasis on not rushing things women waste their time dating men who never plan to commit. You knew you wanted marriage and I think you went about it that right way.
click to expand
speed serial dating is the way. the western take sounds delusional to me: "don't look for it, love will find you." lmfao
personally, love found me but I had to make the effort of changing my fb status to single first.
You met your husband on Facebook first?
yes lol and somehow one of the first things we've done was exchange baby pics which i guess was a subtle way for me to find out what he thought about children in general. he found me coz i was posting on a community group (i moved into his town coz i'm avoiding my relatives).
knowing me, i was prob trying to buy something and he must've liked my profile pic and started talking to me. 2 weekend dates during stormy weather together and he just kinda never left.
very on brand for me coz my venus is in the 11th which says I'd meet a love from unconventional places, groups, communities, technology, or friends which literally is Facebook 😆😆click to expand
That’s very nice! 😊 ♥️
I think the key is to meet up fast and see if you hit it in person. But in order to do that, there has to be some online chemistry to begin with.
Well as someone who has been married twice, it takes a serious relationship first where you are committed to each other. People recognize marriage material in my experience. In this internet/texting/online dating world it’s been a bit different. However, the key is it has to be right, actions not only words, being respectful & someone who is not talking about sex but understands sex is part of a relationship but respects you, supports you, wants to build a partnership. You also respect them, support them, and work in building a partnership. You have to beware of the lovebombers though.. that is not reality and real love. It’s not just “I want to get married” my experiences is it evolves toward with a relationship type person vs a fling/player/can’t commit type person. It’s pretty easy to tell the difference, they behave differently.. sometimes they might want it but can’t do it, and that might take some time to see if it’s actually right.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by MaxianesquePosted by NotALibraWizz makes a fair assessment here though.Posted by borednbeautifulMaybe they know what they want and don't want to waste their time dating one person and then another? Particularly if they are getting older. Two people want a life partner and find someone compatible enough to commit toPosted by MaxianesqueI don’t feel ready yet 😝
I can arrange it for you.
But how does it work for real? Do those people date to marry only? What happened to dating for dating’s sake?
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Who is wizz? That crazy Gemini guy? 😬click to expand
You've misspelled annoying 😂
Posted by Saturn_Returns
I can envisage @borednbeautiful going through at least five marriages by the time she's 75.
Hmmm... Maybe that was a conservative estimate. 🤣
I would have had to start much earlier in order to achieve that, eh?
My natal chart suggests no marriage at all. That is much more likely. That damn Saturn! ⚫️
Deep conversations about ourselves and what kind of life and future we each want.
Really deep personal questions.
Spend long periods of time together as trial runs.
Goal to see every side of who you are, at your best and worst. Work out any conflicts or anything we don't see eye to eye about that matter to the other or both.
For me, with long term relationship, if we don't click in a similar way a best friend deep friendship way, not going to bother. Because we will be spending the rest of our lives together. We got to be able to click and jibe.
Really deep personal questions.
Spend long periods of time together as trial runs.
Goal to see every side of who you are, at your best and worst. Work out any conflicts or anything we don't see eye to eye about that matter to the other or both.
For me, with long term relationship, if we don't click in a similar way a best friend deep friendship way, not going to bother. Because we will be spending the rest of our lives together. We got to be able to click and jibe.
Maybe you got to do the mail order bride thing 😁
Just kidding…. let me know when you have found out how it works. I've been pretty unsuccessful over the last decade.
What I learned so far is that an unbalanced income seems to cause problems because the ladies feel their independence or self-image is somehow threatened by it. Even having something as mundane as a cleaning service for your home can cause problems. So I’m coming to the conclusion you should date someone who is on a similar level or at least very self confident, and preferably someone from the same country so there are less misunderstandings regarding language and cultural norms.
Just kidding…. let me know when you have found out how it works. I've been pretty unsuccessful over the last decade.
What I learned so far is that an unbalanced income seems to cause problems because the ladies feel their independence or self-image is somehow threatened by it. Even having something as mundane as a cleaning service for your home can cause problems. So I’m coming to the conclusion you should date someone who is on a similar level or at least very self confident, and preferably someone from the same country so there are less misunderstandings regarding language and cultural norms.
Posted by DK
Maybe you got to do the mail order bride thing 😁
Just kidding…. let me know when you have found out how it works. I've been pretty unsuccessful over the last decade.
What I learned so far is that an unbalanced income seems to cause problems because the ladies feel their independence or self-image is somehow threatened by it. Even having something as mundane as a cleaning service for your home can cause problems. So I’m coming to the conclusion you should date someone who is on a similar level or at least very self confident, and preferably someone from the same country so there are less misunderstandings regarding language and cultural norms.
I always say the most successful relationships are when people are from the same socioeconomic backgrounds. Or at least very similar.
The good thing about your country is that most people aren’t married legally, right? Or is it 50-50?
So there is less pressure. Having said this, most people everywhere want to get married at some point which is completely understandable.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by DK
Maybe you got to do the mail order bride thing 😁
Just kidding…. let me know when you have found out how it works. I've been pretty unsuccessful over the last decade.
What I learned so far is that an unbalanced income seems to cause problems because the ladies feel their independence or self-image is somehow threatened by it. Even having something as mundane as a cleaning service for your home can cause problems. So I’m coming to the conclusion you should date someone who is on a similar level or at least very self confident, and preferably someone from the same country so there are less misunderstandings regarding language and cultural norms.
I always say the most successful relationships are when people are from the same socioeconomic backgrounds. Or at least very similar.
The good thing about your country is that most people aren’t married legally, right? Or is it 50-50?
So there is less pressure. Having said this, most people everywhere want to get married at some point which is completely understandable.click to expand
It’s true, there is no real pressure to marry from point of view of the society in general (occasionally you might find a family that ticks different). Couples usually do so when it’s about upbringing kids, it has advantages regarding inheritance.
I know the answer to this thread but I'm not even sure if you serious about this. From the look of it it sound to me like this thread is created out of boredom and free time off from working during the holidays.
Posted by borednbeautiful
How does it work?
Good afternoon, I’d like to get married asap, please.
I'd say the first step here is being pragmatic.
It just seems lately that A LOT of people are overestimating themselves and confusing attention with options.
The truth is, we don't have that many options and it dwindles as we get older. People don't want to hear that because the amount of interactions you may receive on a daily basis. But those aren't options, they're probably horny men.
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Even if they are just a piece of strange ass for you, they want to be your favorite
Yuka Takaoka - Tiktoker 🤢 and hostess in Japan who fell for another male host, got jealous and stabbed him in his sleep. Then posed with a cigarette and her cellphone nex
Recently I had a talk with a Japanese lady in a hotel lobby and it struck me how different our cultures are. I mean, there are differences between let’s say Americans and my people for example since independent from their zodiac sign the majority of peopl
What is your fav non-harm excuse?
1. "It is not you, it is me"
2. "I am having a hard time/focused on myself right now"
3. Chandler: "I am going to Yemen" http://www.tzr.io/yarn-clip/64fe263b-6b44-4fef-a114-5a9da8392544/gif
So... I have a little problem in terms of a girl Im starting to date. We've been on 2 dates already. Things have gone really well, we have kissed and gone a little further (not sex though) and are working out plans for a third date as we speak.
Here's
I don’t know how to play hard to get with a man. Is this important in the beginning phase of dating?
So they say men like a challenge and that’s my problem. When I like someone, I like him. Period.
Why do I have to pretend I don’t want to see him or text him if I really want to?
I hate playing games and I prefer to be straightforward and transparent but
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Good afternoon, I’d like to get married asap, please.