Parkourler
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Women have you dated an unemployed guy?
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Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
š yes because two of em quit their jobs after we got together (a Taurus and Virgo).
you a sugar mama?
Iāve never had a job
Don't know about dating but a lot of women are platonically and politically involved with guys who display unemployed behaviour
welll yeah his dad's a scouting agent and he literally lived off of his parents. oh and he's one of those guys wanting to break into showbusiness but he literally makes zero to no effort even with his resources.
but i had šÆ of his time.
tho i do agree with the above observation that there are certain men with the mentality of: "why are you dating a loser like me?" to which they'd then conclude that you must be low value as well.
personally, i prefer someone whose 'leisurely employed' like a freelancer or with some business generating some passive income so that it means more time with me. in fact, my dude rn literally lives this way. and is home more often than i am which is a LOT to say since i've turned into a penguin. he's very indoorsy.
but i had šÆ of his time.
tho i do agree with the above observation that there are certain men with the mentality of: "why are you dating a loser like me?" to which they'd then conclude that you must be low value as well.
personally, i prefer someone whose 'leisurely employed' like a freelancer or with some business generating some passive income so that it means more time with me. in fact, my dude rn literally lives this way. and is home more often than i am which is a LOT to say since i've turned into a penguin. he's very indoorsy.
Posted by virgoOPPP
welll yeah his dad's a scouting agent and he literally lived off of his parents. oh and he's one of those guys wanting to break into showbusiness but he literally makes zero to no effort even with his resources.
but i had šÆ of his time.
tho i do agree with the above observaton that there are certain men with the mentality of: "why are you dating a loser like me?" to which they'd then conclude that you must be low value as well.
personally, i prefer someone whose 'leisurely employed' like a freelancer or with some business generating some passive income so that it means more time with me. in fact, my dude rn literally lives this way. and is home more often than i am which is a LOT to say since i've turned into a penguin. he's very indoorsy.
Plus you know where we are all the time
At home š¤£
No overtime when theyāre really out banging hookers š
Posted by BasicPosted by virgoOPPP
welll yeah his dad's a scouting agent and he literally lived off of his parents. oh and he's one of those guys wanting to break into showbusiness but he literally makes zero to no effort even with his resources.
but i had šÆ of his time.
tho i do agree with the above observaton that there are certain men with the mentality of: "why are you dating a loser like me?" to which they'd then conclude that you must be low value as well.
personally, i prefer someone whose 'leisurely employed' like a freelancer or with some business generating some passive income so that it means more time with me. in fact, my dude rn literally lives this way. and is home more often than i am which is a LOT to say since i've turned into a penguin. he's very indoorsy.
Plus you know where we are all the time
At home š¤£
No overtime when theyāre really out banging hookers š
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right? lessens the paranoia. in fact, he mentioned putting up cameras but we already have access to all of each other's accounts and tracking each other's location so that's just overkill. there's comfortably no privacy between us. i suppose scorpio moons prefer this type of full mutual disclosures.
i literally don't care coz i'm not the cheating type coz i don't have to be when i can just kick him out if i really didn't want him.
Itās a huge turn off for me
My sisters bf is able bodied with a CS degree and heās been unemployed and mooching off her for 5 years now while she struggles to make ends meet for them. She doesnāt have any specific skills either so she works low paying jobs
He goes fishing all the time and my dad told him āwhy donāt you go fishing for a fucking job!ā
All are Aquariuses btw.
If my S.O loses his job while we are together and itās not his fault, itās obviously a different story. But he better be looking for work or contributing other ways. I have zero tolerance for laziness and mooches.
My sisters bf is able bodied with a CS degree and heās been unemployed and mooching off her for 5 years now while she struggles to make ends meet for them. She doesnāt have any specific skills either so she works low paying jobs
He goes fishing all the time and my dad told him āwhy donāt you go fishing for a fucking job!ā
All are Aquariuses btw.
If my S.O loses his job while we are together and itās not his fault, itās obviously a different story. But he better be looking for work or contributing other ways. I have zero tolerance for laziness and mooches.
Yes, I paid my dues to society and dated a couple broke guys. I always felt guilty to overlook them. Keep love first. Blah blah blah
Look, Iām done being a broke manās punching bag and doormat.
You will always be on the receiving end of āwhy Iām mad today.ā
It was also very disrespectful to my own father to even give these guys the time of day. He is an exceptional father and for me to date someone who doesnāt even have the same values and work ethic was disgraceful. Seriously, I need to apologize to him.
Look, Iām done being a broke manās punching bag and doormat.
You will always be on the receiving end of āwhy Iām mad today.ā
It was also very disrespectful to my own father to even give these guys the time of day. He is an exceptional father and for me to date someone who doesnāt even have the same values and work ethic was disgraceful. Seriously, I need to apologize to him.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvck
š yes because two of em quit their jobs after we got together (a Taurus and Virgo).
How long did they stay that way?
Weāre there any red flags that you missed?
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
Posted by nanochip
Itās a huge turn off for me
My sisters bf is able bodied with a CS degree and heās been unemployed and mooching off her for 5 years now while she struggles to make ends meet for them. She doesnāt have any specific skills either so she works low paying jobs
He goes fishing all the time and my dad told him āwhy donāt you go fishing for a fucking job!ā
All are Aquariuses btw.
If my S.O loses his job while we are together and itās not his fault, itās obviously a different story. But he better be looking for work or contributing other ways. I have zero tolerance for laziness and mooches.
Wow 5 years š
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Basic
Iāve never had a job
How do you live?click to expand
Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicHow do you live?
Iāve never had a job
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Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to meclick to expand
Is the trust enough to support a family?
Well kinda same if you get with a man with children paying alimony and support
Posted by TruemaraPosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicHow do you live?
Iāve never had a job
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Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Is the trust enough to support a family?click to expand
Oh my trust isnāt that big what I make passively is more. Cost of living is pretty low here. I think the biggest expense would be childrenās schooling. But I donāt think thatās my vibe. š
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Basic
Iāve never had a job
How do you live?
Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to meclick to expand
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Basic
Iāve never had a job
How do you live?
Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?click to expand
Lol no Iām not rich I just donāt find myself in need a lot
If I worked I would definitely be rich š¤£
And maybe I will find something to do soon. Itās never too late. I could do charity or local government work to feel more connected to my people.
Not at all I think Iāve entertained myself for the last 23 years in the same way thatās why I have to be a city kid coz there are much more things to do in the city. My friends from high school said I lived like Hugh grant in about a boy. I told them maybe minus the single momās and the boy š
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Basic
Iāve never had a job
How do you live?
Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?
Lol no Iām not rich I just donāt find myself in need a lot
If I worked I would definitely be rich š¤£
And maybe I will find something to do soon. Itās never too late. I could do charity or local government work to feel more connected to my people.
Not at all I think Iāve entertained myself for the last 23 years in the same way thatās why I have to be a city kid coz there are much more things to do in the city. My friends from high school said I lived like Hugh grant in about a boy. I told them maybe minus the single momās and the boy šclick to expand
Hugh Grant š
About a dog š
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePassive income and a trust fundPosted by BasicHow do you live?
Iāve never had a job
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?
Lol no Iām not rich I just donāt find myself in need a lot
If I worked I would definitely be rich š¤£
And maybe I will find something to do soon. Itās never too late. I could do charity or local government work to feel more connected to my people.
Not at all I think Iāve entertained myself for the last 23 years in the same way thatās why I have to be a city kid coz there are much more things to do in the city. My friends from high school said I lived like Hugh grant in about a boy. I told them maybe minus the single momās and the boy š
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Hugh Grant š
About a dog šclick to expand
Thatās what I will name my YouTube mgtow channel š¤£
Posted by trackstar
I mean I have...would I again? No. unless he's blind. I'd date a blind guy.
Sanch Iām losing my vision can I feel the thigh gap area to see if it back
I went on a date once with a guy that had just lost his job. No chemistry so there was no second date.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by dragonh0rsecvck
š yes because two of em quit their jobs after we got together (a Taurus and Virgo).
You've raised a very interesting point.
A job for life is pretty much a myth nowadays. And while someone could be employed, when you start dating them, their circumstances could abruptly change (sometimes, through no fault of their own).
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What Iām realizing is that if I dated someone with a degree or high ambitions, as long as heās working towards his goals itās probably better off if heās not wasting time and energy in an exhausting blue collar job working off-shift and lots of mandatory overtime. Leaving you with no energy or waking time to apply and interview for a career in your dream field, nevermind build a portfolio or commit to developing your own business
Tldr sometimes itās more lucrative to take an extended leave from work. Theoretically anywayclick to expand
THIS.
Youāve lierally summed up the main challenge of the last 5 years of my life.
I could have had a cush job in private equity or consulting ( not my dream field ) right now but more helpful in the pursuit of my dream field (medicine) right now if I hadnāt been doing Amazon Gig Work while I was finishing up my degree and post graduation.
Posted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
The story of Elon Musk and his first wife Justine that got with him when he was Bald.
Sure, if he had enough money saved to support himself forever or for the time being.
No if he needed me to help him afford life.
No if he needed me to help him afford life.
Posted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePassive income and a trust fundPosted by BasicHow do you live?
Iāve never had a job
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?
Lol no Iām not rich I just donāt find myself in need a lot
If I worked I would definitely be rich š¤£
And maybe I will find something to do soon. Itās never too late. I could do charity or local government work to feel more connected to my people.
Not at all I think Iāve entertained myself for the last 23 years in the same way thatās why I have to be a city kid coz there are much more things to do in the city. My friends from high school said I lived like Hugh grant in about a boy. I told them maybe minus the single momās and the boy š
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Hugh Grant š
About a dog š
Thatās what I will name my YouTube mgtow channel š¤£click to expand
Brilliant š
Posted by Parkourler
Just overheard a conversation with two female coworkers they want to set up a date with their neighbor and an unemployed guy. They had a heated conversation about this. Woman what are your experiences?
I have.
He lost his well paying job due to Covid. Like A LOT of people living here in the city area.
He was hugely against taking the jab.
He did Uber eats a few hours a week and social justice work.
Out the gate. I would not date someone who wasn't actively seeking employment.
A man that's not financially stable has the possibility to bring up insecurities in him in
a relationship. If he can't provide for you and him. He should first get his ish together.
That's just me.
Posted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
What a dumb ass.
That's the kind of person who you can spend the rest of your life with. Struggled in life together, seen you at your worst, stuck by you in the toughest times.
His karma will be receiving the same treatment and mentality. Like attracts like.
Her's will be attracting someone who will match her energy too.
After talking to soo many woman and their relationship history, I get it. They supported dude and he didn't work towards support himself and her too. Struggled for dude to continue sponging or eventually left or cheated on her...
They felt burned and almost traumatized.
Now they willn't even look at someone without income and etc.
Sadly it's their choice in men that's the main issue.
Far more successful stories out there of people working together with a game plan. Swapping to stay at home and part time job while other goes to school full time is common.
One partner stating at home until children reach school age and possibly picking up a graveyard or am shift.
Ambition, game plan...I get it.
They felt burned and almost traumatized.
Now they willn't even look at someone without income and etc.
Sadly it's their choice in men that's the main issue.
Far more successful stories out there of people working together with a game plan. Swapping to stay at home and part time job while other goes to school full time is common.
One partner stating at home until children reach school age and possibly picking up a graveyard or am shift.
Ambition, game plan...I get it.
If he was unemployed but had money to
pay his way then Iād consider it
I wouldnāt let someone mooch off me though and I wouldnāt do that to a man
pay his way then Iād consider it
I wouldnāt let someone mooch off me though and I wouldnāt do that to a man
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by BasicHow do you live?
Iāve never had a job
Passive income and a trust fund
Everything I have I was given
Even if I can buy things on my own
The means to buy those things were given to me
click to expand
Wow like Royalty šš~ King Ands ~
Donāt you get bored with no work to do?click to expand
No heās here entertaining us
Posted by LostthoughtsPosted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
What a dumb ass.
That's the kind of person who you can spend the rest of your life with. Struggled in life together, seen you at your worst, stuck by you in the toughest times.
His karma will be receiving the same treatment and mentality. Like attracts like.
Her's will be attracting someone who will match her energy too.click to expand
Wait until the gold digger takes him to the cleaners
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by DMVPosted by dragonh0rsecvck
š yes because two of em quit their jobs after we got together (a Taurus and Virgo).
How long did they stay that way?
Weāre there any red flags that you missed?
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Virgo and I moved in together as roommates in 2014, he quit his job like within days of signing the lease, I was lonely and desperate and loved his sense of humor and communicativeness so we were together a few months later. He didnāt get a job till after we lost the apt and broke up, then he got fired from that job and I took him back. Were together a year and a half off and on and he was never employed when on lol. He was a walking red flag the whole time. I just liked who I liked and didnāt care how I was treated back then (within reasonā¦ and being used financially didnāt seem unreasonable yet)
The Taurus was in 2019 and went like this: we got together that September, his 18 year old female cousin with a 2 year old son suddenly called him saying her bf was abusive and she needed a place to stay. He asked me if they could all move in with me. I reluctantly agreed, once he was on the drive to Florida I told him hell no I canāt live with no damn kid but he did not respond the whole time and they operated on my original yes. So I sucked it up. Within the first 2 weeks she had multiple dating app men over to my house and he had adopted a dog that shit all over my carpet and quit his job. I freaked tf out, went to my dads, and gave them a week before I would personally take their shit apart and put it in my lawn. They moved out on time but I paid for his uhaul. That dude owed me $ 3k by the end (that heād promise to pay me backā and never did. It was student loan living expense $ so I was careless with it sadly). Everything that transpired at the end (after these events) was so nightmarishly messy that I canāt believe he started following me on IG this year lmaooooo
There were definitely red flags early on in both instances but rose colored glasses and desperation yaknow.click to expand
"There were definitely red flags early on in both instances"
Yeah, dating dudes from Florida
I need a woman who wants to support my creative endeavors so I can contribute something meaningful to society, construction just ain't it.
Posted by Walk_on_by
I need a woman who wants to support my creative endeavors so I can contribute something meaningful to society, construction just ain't it.
Ang Lee was supported by his wife then he hit it big and was like crouching tiger hidden dragon mfers!!
Posted by BasicPosted by Walk_on_by
I need a woman who wants to support my creative endeavors so I can contribute something meaningful to society, construction just ain't it.
Ang Lee was supported by his wife then he hit it big and was like crouching tiger hidden dragon mfers!!
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Behind every great man is a great woman
Posted by StubbornSag
Yes, there was one Libra guy who was unemployed, skipped college, played games all night and slept till 5pm. Could not stand his way of life. So not surprising it didn't last long.
Jeezus did we date the same person š
Yes, dated a Libra who quit his job after we got together because he did not want to be "tied down to a routine job" because "he was a free spirit and way too good for 9-5." Then he would make excuses to not apply for regular jobs by saying it would end up bad anyway so why even waste energy trying? He was unemployed for over a year and after a huge fight where I said I have been paying for your stupid ass and you have to pull your own weight, he started doing deliveries for Grubhub but would forget to sign up for shifts, and then cry and want me to comfort him. Then he would say Oh well, I'll work next week, and then play video games all night on MY XBox, sleep until 4pm, use all my things up, totally mooched off me. His other "job," he was also the guy sitting in the men's restroom at a bar arcade handing out paper towels and gum and sweeping barf off the floor. When I was finally kicking him out of my life I remember him trying to take my Xbox saying it was his because "he played it more than I did." When I got on his case about him purposely not getting a decent job and mooching off me he said, "So what if I do 20% and you do 80% of the work?? It all adds to 100% in the end!" ššššššš
Itās up to the woman to decide if thatās something she can live with. Some women are just fine making the money for the household and having a partner who doesnāt contribute as much financially. If everyoneās getting their needs met, whoās to say otherwise š¤·āāļø
I have to preface this with the fact that I was in an open relationship with an adult Cancer from age 16 - 20. It was his idea for me to date while he was deployed. He proposed afterward.
I never dated with commitment or a relationship in mind, the guy proposed it or not. I'm good either way. And, like the fly-by night fool I was, I would be surprised.
With that said, when I met my husband a month or so after the Cancer, neither of us were employed. We were both in college. He was on summer break from California. He decided not to return because of me. We built a life from ground zero. I was a stay at home mom from our son's age 2 - 5. Virgo did try to stay home at the beginning for a short period.
As a mature adult, I went back to usual self with no plans or ideas of commitment but even more so absent minded or blaze than before. I just don't care (as a matter of fact, I think I made it a mission not to get caught up). So, I dated a guy that was unemployed but I never even thought about commitment. I felt he was approaching that and I ghosted him. But, I found him a job before I did. I redid his resume. He was so happy that his phone was ringing off the hook with offers. He emailed me later to thank me, that he had a job, and he would always remember me as his "girlfriend of firsts." He was a Sag.
I care about people as people to care about. I just don't necessarily care for commitment that much.
I never dated with commitment or a relationship in mind, the guy proposed it or not. I'm good either way. And, like the fly-by night fool I was, I would be surprised.
With that said, when I met my husband a month or so after the Cancer, neither of us were employed. We were both in college. He was on summer break from California. He decided not to return because of me. We built a life from ground zero. I was a stay at home mom from our son's age 2 - 5. Virgo did try to stay home at the beginning for a short period.
As a mature adult, I went back to usual self with no plans or ideas of commitment but even more so absent minded or blaze than before. I just don't care (as a matter of fact, I think I made it a mission not to get caught up). So, I dated a guy that was unemployed but I never even thought about commitment. I felt he was approaching that and I ghosted him. But, I found him a job before I did. I redid his resume. He was so happy that his phone was ringing off the hook with offers. He emailed me later to thank me, that he had a job, and he would always remember me as his "girlfriend of firsts." He was a Sag.
I care about people as people to care about. I just don't necessarily care for commitment that much.
Yes, but I didn't know that he was also a cheapskate and unmotivated with household duties. I mean, nothing wrong with cheapskate, just don't let the other person pick up the bill ALL the time because you have no money. It was hard. Everyone feels some sort of way about money/ their resources.
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
Some females shouldn't be so picky if their "boyfriend" is unemployed. Especially if you live in a country with a robust social support from the state and your "job" is a fulltime chakra readjuster and spend your whole day dicking around DXP.
The chakra readjusting sure got me a lot of muscle
Donāt mind my nasolabial folds and the fact that I cried off half my makeup lolclick to expand
Do you work on one of those sites where you have to wear your hardhat to the bathroom?
Posted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by Walk_on_byPosted by dragonh0rsecvckPosted by Shamalamadingdongmcshlong
Some females shouldn't be so picky if their "boyfriend" is unemployed. Especially if you live in a country with a robust social support from the state and your "job" is a fulltime chakra readjuster and spend your whole day dicking around DXP.
The chakra readjusting sure got me a lot of muscle
Donāt mind my nasolabial folds and the fact that I cried off half my makeup lol
Do you work on one of those sites where you have to wear your hardhat to the bathroom?
No I just do bc Iām a foreheadcelclick to expand
So am I let it out, don't let Ands psyop you he's never had a job in his life
Posted by Walk_on_by
I need a woman who wants to support my creative endeavors so I can contribute something meaningful to society, construction just ain't it.
Ditto.
Posted by DMV
Yes, I paid my dues to society and dated a couple broke guys. I always felt guilty to overlook them. Keep love first. Blah blah blah
Look, Iām done being a broke manās punching bag and doormat.
You will always be on the receiving end of āwhy Iām mad today.ā
It was also very disrespectful to my own father to even give these guys the time of day. He is an exceptional father and for me to date someone who doesnāt even have the same values and work ethic was disgraceful. Seriously, I need to apologize to him.
Amen.
Posted by DMV
Yes, I paid my dues to society and dated a couple broke guys. I always felt guilty to overlook them. Keep love first. Blah blah blah
Look, Iām done being a broke manās punching bag and doormat.
You will always be on the receiving end of āwhy Iām mad today.ā
It was also very disrespectful to my own father to even give these guys the time of day. He is an exceptional father and for me to date someone who doesnāt even have the same values and work ethic was disgraceful. Seriously, I need to apologize to him.
Where can I find a woman looking to pay her dues?
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But yeah this is a thing, when we're not working we will get angry out as all kinds of self loathing and other emotions arise. Men without hobbies too.
Posted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
some men think you must be 'low value' to date their 'subpar, disabled/sick/ill, broke, loser selves' and they will try to 'punish' you for being in a relationship with them. this why i'm now into dudes who likes to aim 'above their league.'
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
some men think you must be 'low value' to date their 'subpar, disabled/sick/ill, broke, loser selves' and they will try to 'punish' you for being in a relationship with them. this why i'm now into dudes who likes to aim 'above their league.'
Imaging loving a woman knowing another man has her kidney
Posted by Walk_on_byPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by DMV
There was a Reddit where a guy was with a girl while he was building himself up.
He finally got to where he wants to be and now he wants to dump her because she is a constant reminder of his poor days. He wants someone new and fresh. Someone who doesnāt know about his previous faults.
He doesnāt even see her as a partner to build with anymore. He views her as a struggle plate.
Where for her, it was all love.
some men think you must be 'low value' to date their 'subpar, disabled/sick/ill, broke, loser selves' and they will try to 'punish' you for being in a relationship with them. this why i'm now into dudes who likes to aim 'above their league.'
Imaging loving a woman knowing another man has her kidneyclick to expand
man or woman, wouldn't it be a green flag tho?
i'd be a bit nervous for her health though. can be pretty hard when you don't have a backup kidney.
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