Help ASAP PLEASE 🙏🏻

This topic was created in the Dreams forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, August 28, 2019 and has 22 replies.
Guys!

It’s unreal and I need your serious help! Please...

I just saw dream and I don’t usually dream...

Yesterday I went on grupovenus.com and read everything @DonnaLibra recommended and all the shit I’ve thought about my Aries became clear to me and I’ve made my decision to stop bugging shit out of him because it’s gave me peace! I understood that those small pieces like me not believing him 100% when he tells me he loves me is MY problems! Not his.

My demons were hunting me since we’ve met and he is younger and absolutely gorgeous and I was born with mind of some sort that hard to deal with so all that I had decided to let go of and start trusting him and see him for him and live happily ever after...

Yesterday I had excessive communications with him over text and phone because he had radio interview about his book and he was going crazy nervous. And we were talking and all ended well and we both were happy and waiting for the link and it to be aired in a few days and all...

Now I woke up from this dream where I went to see his friends who are about 20 women (whom he has none in real life because he is raising son after divorce and living with him and I am there every 2 weeks for 4 days and we are together and all is good...)

And these women starting telling me that he had been a womanizer his whole life and slept with tons of women and keeping on including very young once and they all looking at me like ‘poor woman doesn’t know any of it’ and I am shocked but kind of wondering why is he letting me see them and listen to them...and he is there somewhere but not present while we conversation going and somewhere in the back my ex sitting on the bench and crying...and I am feeling bad but I am not there to please him...we are divorced so him there just that...

So women aren’t angry. They rather friendly and very remorseful hoping I will get the picture and all...and I am not so nervous. I am just listening...and my mom is there and also not so nervous. She loves him IRL...

So I am awake laying there thinking WTF!!! And all I could think of is posting here...

And NO I haven’t ever thought of him cheating. His phone is always there and I look who is calling if he asleep to see if it’s important to tell him who called orbwake him up if it’s mom because his dead is sick.

We are always together in his FB which is full of his huge Italian family members and we read it together.

I don’t have anything to be thinking about though I am anal as shit and believe I am intuitive as well and THAT aspect of cheating never crossed my mind because I never had a cheating man in my life. I am just so surprised and shaken up by this! And like I said I HAD read too much and we had been excessively communicating...all day.

We usually do but yesterday it was over the top!

And I HAD said to myself that’s IT! I am building my life with this man!!! Fuck my crazy little demands that always ruining my moods...like ‘why don’t you hug me not long enough’ and he would laugh saying ‘I wasn’t aware of time for hugging’...or ‘get me the book on proper cuddling technique’...

He isn’t too affectionate being Aqua moon and I made peace with it FINALLY and here is THE DREAM!

I am typing in disbelieve...why is this happening? Is this premonition or mind fuckery by stars? Isnit test or warning? 🤦‍♀️

Thanks for reading and if you have anything - please do tell. 🙏🏻
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Infidelity dreams can mean feeling insecure or neglected, you need to work on your self esteem, Gem

(((Hugs)))

http://m.dreammoods.com/site/dreammoods/chase-dreams?url=http% 3A www.dreammoods.com commondreams cheating-dreams.html#2937
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Infidelity dreams can mean feeling insecure or neglected, you need to work on your self esteem, Gem

(((Hugs)))

http://m.dreammoods.com/site/dreammoods/chase-dreams?url=http% 3A www.dreammoods.com commondreams cheating-dreams.html#2937
I was hoping you’ll chime in dear.

Thanks

I am alarmed because I don’t dream as normal people do. I just sleep...lol

THIS was shocking ‘movie’ and yes let me read your link. ❤️
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Link may not work but go to dream moods and look at infidelity

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Infidelity>>>>go to common dreams, cheating dreams
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Posted by MyStarsShine

Link may not work but go to dream moods and look at infidelity
Ok. I read it. I understood. And grupovenus had this phrase about me thinking he is hiding something I don’t know what and why I am even thinking that...and that was exactly what I told him 2 weeks ago. And he said it’s hard to respond to the accusation that isn't even presented like ‘I am feeling you aren’t telling me simething’ And question is ‘what?’ And there is no answer...because I don’t know WHAT!

It was just bugging me to the point of black hole inside of me...and when I read these exact words I said to myself that I am crazy! I wouldn’t want to be in his shoes I am putting him in...

And now THAT! The dream...

I hate dreams...🤦‍♀️

It was this part that was right on money and I was like..:ok, I know what’s that and I’ll deal with it better now..:


This square won't make it easy for you to see reality as it unfolds. You confront problems emotionally and you will seldom find constructive solutions. When you argue you often step over boundaries, which should be respected. You have the feeling that your partner is hiding something from you, even if you aren't sure what it is. Your partner will completely confuse you emotionally, and may not even notice it. It may be that you don't see each other realistically. If you want to improve the situation, you should approach it rationally and be prepared to accept the truth, even if it is unpleasant.



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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine

Link may not work but go to dream moods and look at infidelity


Ok. I read it. I understood. And grupovenus had this phrase about me thinking he is hiding something I don’t know what and why I am even thinking that...and that was exactly what I told him 2 weeks ago. And he said it’s hard to respond to the accusation that isn't even presented like ‘I am feeling you aren’t telling me simething’ And question is ‘what?’ And there is no answer...because I don’t know WHAT!

It was just bugging me to the point of black hole inside of me...and when I read these exact words I said to myself that I am crazy! I wouldn’t want to be in his shoes I am putting him in...

And now THAT! The dream...

I hate dreams...🤦‍♀️

It was this part that was right on money and I was like..:ok, I know what’s that and I’ll deal with it better now..:


This square won't make it easy for you to see reality as it unfolds. You confront problems emotionally and you will seldom find constructive solutions. When you argue you often step over boundaries, which should be respected. You have the feeling that your partner is hiding something from you, even if you aren't sure what it is. Your partner will completely confuse you emotionally, and may not even notice it. It may be that you don't see each other realistically. If you want to improve the situation, you should approach it rationally and be prepared to accept the truth, even if it is unpleasant.
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Which square? Where are your synastry charts?

You need to heal the crazies lol 😆
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine

Link may not work but go to dream moods and look at infidelity


Ok. I read it. I understood. And grupovenus had this phrase about me thinking he is hiding something I don’t know what and why I am even thinking that...and that was exactly what I told him 2 weeks ago. And he said it’s hard to respond to the accusation that isn't even presented like ‘I am feeling you aren’t telling me simething’ And question is ‘what?’ And there is no answer...because I don’t know WHAT!

It was just bugging me to the point of black hole inside of me...and when I read these exact words I said to myself that I am crazy! I wouldn’t want to be in his shoes I am putting him in...

And now THAT! The dream...

I hate dreams...🤦‍♀️

It was this part that was right on money and I was like..:ok, I know what’s that and I’ll deal with it better now..:


This square won't make it easy for you to see reality as it unfolds. You confront problems emotionally and you will seldom find constructive solutions. When you argue you often step over boundaries, which should be respected. You have the feeling that your partner is hiding something from you, even if you aren't sure what it is. Your partner will completely confuse you emotionally, and may not even notice it. It may be that you don't see each other realistically. If you want to improve the situation, you should approach it rationally and be prepared to accept the truth, even if it is unpleasant.


Which square? Where are your synastry charts?

You need to heal the crazies lol 😆
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His Moon square My Neptune orb 2° 56'

His Neptune Scorpio 26° 20' in house 3

Mine Taurus 28° 32' in house 4

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I told you I had JUST decided to heal crazies! I said that’s it! No more crazies...and there I go dreaming shit!

🤦‍♀️
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Posted by MissKrabs

It's your stress coming on the surface trough dreams as well. Actually a good thing and the timing is right since you finally accepted what's going on.

I dream about my stress all the time and yeah, brain always add some more details that weren't really on my mind but like they are there to explain you in most simple way and in a way to make an impression.

So chill.
You think? Thanks ❤️
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Posted by Gemitati

I told you I had JUST decided to heal crazies! I said that’s it! No more crazies...and there I go dreaming shit!

🤦‍♀️
Keep reminding yourself

Moon sq Neptune

There is a tendency to misunderstand or misread each other’s signals, so you will have to spend more time processing hurt feelings or perceived slights. Be careful of addictive behaviors and habits or too stressful environments or activities. This aspect can lean toward avoidance or neglectful behaviors. Make sure you are always truthful with each other and, even when things are difficult, be willing to express your feelings openly. It’s the only way to preserving your deep connection and protecting the natural sweetness of your partnership.
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Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati

I told you I had JUST decided to heal crazies! I said that’s it! No more crazies...and there I go dreaming shit!

🤦‍♀️


Keep reminding yourself

Moon sq Neptune

There is a tendency to misunderstand or misread each other’s signals, so you will have to spend more time processing hurt feelings or perceived slights. Be careful of addictive behaviors and habits or too stressful environments or activities. This aspect can lean toward avoidance or neglectful behaviors. Make sure you are always truthful with each other and, even when things are difficult, be willing to express your feelings openly. It’s the only way to preserving your deep connection and protecting the natural sweetness of your partnership.
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I said to myself I am done torturing him! He is always just wants peace...and food...and to make me laugh. And I always want to trigger his whatevers...I said no more.

And I’ve got THE DREAM and it scared me shitless...

So Nevermind right? Thanks a lot. 😍
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MyStarsShine
Posted by Gemitati

I told you I had JUST decided to heal crazies! I said that’s it! No more crazies...and there I go dreaming shit!

🤦‍♀️


Keep reminding yourself

Moon sq Neptune

There is a tendency to misunderstand or misread each other’s signals, so you will have to spend more time processing hurt feelings or perceived slights. Be careful of addictive behaviors and habits or too stressful environments or activities. This aspect can lean toward avoidance or neglectful behaviors. Make sure you are always truthful with each other and, even when things are difficult, be willing to express your feelings openly. It’s the only way to preserving your deep connection and protecting the natural sweetness of your partnership.


I said to myself I am done torturing him! He is always just wants peace...and food...and to make me laugh. And I always want to trigger his whatevers...I said no more.

And I’ve got THE DREAM and it scared me shitless...

So Nevermind right? Thanks a lot. 😍
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No prob .... will bbl to look at synastry and therapy session 😄❤️
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Posted by MissKrabs
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by MissKrabs

It's your stress coming on the surface trough dreams as well. Actually a good thing and the timing is right since you finally accepted what's going on.

I dream about my stress all the time and yeah, brain always add some more details that weren't really on my mind but like they are there to explain you in most simple way and in a way to make an impression.

So chill.


You think? Thanks ❤️


Works for me, i mean these kind of interpretations. These woman could be just an extrapolation of your worries. And after these dreams they feel this intense just one day. Tomorrow 90% of the feels will fade.
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It did! ❤️
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Posted by Erinelda

This to me sounds like a fear you have that you torment yourself with so you brain is trying to "resolve" it while you sleep.

It will only be something to watch out for if he is also acting weird and lying.
That’s what is weird that he does NOT!! So...that’s why it’s fucked op and bothersome...like who wants to tell me what? 🤔
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Erinelda

This to me sounds like a fear you have that you torment yourself with so you brain is trying to "resolve" it while you sleep.

It will only be something to watch out for if he is also acting weird and lying.


That’s what is weird that he does NOT!! So...that’s why it’s fucked op and bothersome...like who wants to tell me what? 🤔
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It’s your subconscious worrying about it & not wanting to let go of trying find something hidden. Not everyone has something hidden 🙃 see you decided to stop consciously so your subconscious slammed you with a dream!

Usually I don’t dream unless my subconscious is trying to tell me something.. Dreammoods is a great site for dream interpretations!! I find it very accurate.

I think you need to work on why you think something is hidden. It doesn’t necessarily mean cheating is accurate. Seems more about insecurities to me.

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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

What do you think it means, @Gemitati?

Do you know about his past? Is it anything like it was in the dream? Are you worried he's hiding things from you?
I know everything about his past starting from the day he was born!!

We are totally in tune. I am saying that the only thing which is 1% of our rships I am not satisfied with...i want to be hugged every time he passing me by...that’s all. Big problem right?

After reading I’ve decided I can let it go and Nevermind this ‘problem’...otherwise its serenity and blessing
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I doubt he is cheating on you.

It’s much more likely your guilt from cheating for years on your ex husband is manifesting itself in your dreams by way of your subconscious.
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Posted by LadyNeptune

I doubt he is cheating on you.

It’s much more likely your guilt from cheating for years on your ex husband is manifesting itself in your dreams by way of your subconscious.
I had never regretted cheating on my husband! If I had to do it again I would! But I would t wait for THAT long.

So you can stuck it up your ass...if there isn’t any antique furniture in there...lmao
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You asked the question of "what is he hiding?"

Questions we don't know the answer keep rotating in our subconscient mind, like hamsters on a wheel. Till an answer is found.

Your subconscient mind (let's call it "The Secretary") proposed an answer, which is what you saw in your dream. It was a bit unusual, since you have never been cheated on, so your "Secretary" has no notion or "feeling" (of being cheated on) to work with. However, you and "your Secretary" are familiar with female competition and cheating, since the Scorpio was married.

I would not worry about it...it's you, not him, responsible for that dream.

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Your dream was nothing more than you working out your insecurities. Aries men are up front and that is one thing I love about them. There isn't much guessing with them because they will tell you the truth IMO. Younger Aries men love older women. There was a young Aries that was trying to get close to me and I'm old enough to be his mom and married (darn it). I think you need to relax and enjoy this greet gift of love you've been given.
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Posted by DonnaLibra

Your dream was nothing more than you working out your insecurities. Aries men are up front and that is one thing I love about them. There isn't much guessing with them because they will tell you the truth IMO. Younger Aries men love older women. There was a young Aries that was trying to get close to me and I'm old enough to be his mom and married (darn it). I think you need to relax and enjoy this greet gift of love you've been given.
I know there is something about you I love for a reason...
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