HELP ME! Gemini x Taurus

This topic was created in the Gemini Men forum by Singmealullaby on Friday, November 1, 2019 and has 46 replies.
HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.
Posted by Singmealullaby

HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.
While all Gemini men are not asshole manipulators, this one DEFINITELY IS. He is NOT AT ALL GOOD for you.

i understand your immense need for a loving partner assuming your young age, but don't be desperate. Your will to long-term commitment is a precious trait and you should wait until you find a person who knows it's value and deserves it. This Guy is not even close.
Block him and move on
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Singmealullaby

HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.


This is just classic young dickhead guy pressuring young naive girl to have sex and the girl giving in because she thinks it will lead to a relationship. This is the kind of shit bad boys did to good girls in the 50s, the kind of stuff parents usually warn you about.

Treat it as a lesson learned.


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Thanks! If anything I thought him and I were friends and I never thought he would do something like that. I truly didn't want a relationship. I could've had him if I wanted. I kept rejecting him. I had sex because it felt like I had no other choice in the moment in addition to I didn't want to end our friendship. I understand how dumb it sounds now but that's how I felt at the time. I need to learn to be more assertive. I'll just be happy when I'm over this. Ik it may seem like it isn't a big deal but I can't stop obsessing over it. It has put me in a really dark place. I don't even like him I think I'm just drawn to him bc he's distant as opposed to before.
Posted by 7s

He's 21. I assume you're the same age...
yes, what's your point?
Posted by emeraldgem

Wait.....why did you say yes again? I keep looking for that part. It was all a big NO up to that point then suddenly it was yes.....?
I have a hard time being assertive and the fact that he kept disregarding no made me feel like I should've just to get it over with. It was all a mistake. At this point I just want to get over it but I can't.
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Posted by Singmealullaby

HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.


While all Gemini men are not asshole manipulators, this one DEFINITELY IS. He is NOT AT ALL GOOD for you.

i understand your immense need for a loving partner assuming your young age, but don't be desperate. Your will to long-term commitment is a precious trait and you should wait until you find a person who knows it's value and deserves it. This Guy is not even close.
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Thanks. I had to speak to someone about it. I tried to speak to him about it and he said "you don't even have a reason to be mad" making me question my sanity. I hope to get over this asap.
Posted by DMV

Block him and move on
easier said than done
Posted by emeraldgem

@Singmealullaby - "I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me"

What on earth is going on here? He forced sex on you, now is distant and you're attached to this guy? You got used, straight up and I would feel disgusted with myself too. Yeah, listen to that little voice - because that's what's telling you the truth right now.
ik it doesn't make sense. Im confused myself which is why I felt I needed to talk to someone about it. I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt bc in my head we were friends and he wouldn't intentionally hurt me. We're both in college and oftentimes we'd support each other as far as our goals and whatnot. idk lol I need therapy bc I feel worthless and unwanted kinda wanna die too sorry

I think the sex is tied to it also. he was very affectionate with lots of kissing and oral. I could tell he wanted to please me
I blocked him but he went to our mutual friend. She didn't know what happened. She only knew he liked me and that I stopped talking to him. He pretty much begged her to "get me back on his line" he told her if you were my real friend you'd do it. He came to our job where we all met and where he no longer worked to ask her that. He told her I still really like her. I unblocked him but I want to send him one last message before I block him again. It probably won't work but I want him to feel just as shitty as I do. I want to say

"You're sick and manipulative. The only thing beneficial was that you taught me the type of guy to stay away from. I hope I never run into you again & I hope you aren't pressing other girls to fuck either; It's creepy. I sold myself short by associating with you. Overall disgusting human being 3/10."
Say nothing. Treat him like he is invisible.

Comes around your job, ignore and call the cops.

Talks to your friends, change the subject when they bring him up.

He does not exist in your world anymore.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Singmealullaby

HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.


This is just classic young dickhead guy pressuring young naive girl to have sex and the girl giving in because she thinks it will lead to a relationship. This is the kind of shit bad boys did to good girls in the 50s, the kind of stuff parents usually warn you about.

Treat it as a lesson learned.


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So, this has PISSED me off. That dude is SCUM and he needs his ass BEAT.

Where is your father? Any brothers or uncles?

This post has me seeing red 😠
Posted by Singmealullaby
Posted by emeraldgem

@Singmealullaby - "I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me"

What on earth is going on here? He forced sex on you, now is distant and you're attached to this guy? You got used, straight up and I would feel disgusted with myself too. Yeah, listen to that little voice - because that's what's telling you the truth right now.


ik it doesn't make sense. Im confused myself which is why I felt I needed to talk to someone about it. I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt bc in my head we were friends and he wouldn't intentionally hurt me. We're both in college and oftentimes we'd support each other as far as our goals and whatnot. idk lol I need therapy bc I feel worthless and unwanted kinda wanna die too sorry

I think the sex is tied to it also. he was very affectionate with lots of kissing and oral. I could tell he wanted to please me
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You're NOT worthless.

You're NOT unwanted.

Don't believe the LIES.

You're hurt, and disappointed. This dude was a mess from the beginning. He KNOWS he did wrong by you.

You are naive which is NORMAL at your age. But, what he did was PREMEDITATED. "He grabbed your vagina" That's sexual assault and sexual harassment. UNACCEPTABLE!

Forgive yourself and yes, seek therapy. Where is your FAMILY, BEST FRIENDS? This is the time to talk w them.
Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.
Posted by Singmealullaby

We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.
Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.
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They were in a car not a room. PLEASE READ. She said yes so it was consensual. He may have been unethical in his tactics but it was NOT rape.

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Posted by Singmealullaby

We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.
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Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.
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Posted by Singmealullaby

We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


They were in a car not a room. PLEASE READ. She said yes so it was consensual. He may have been unethical in his tactics but it was NOT rape.


She said yes because she got forced to. Her heart says no.
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“Her heart says no”

LMAO 🤣

But that kitty said yes
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Posted by CreativeCap

Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.

seriously!! Groupthink at it's finest
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Unbelievable how some people misinterpret the truth and are unable to read between the lines to decipher the nuances when the details are clearly stated.
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Posted by emeraldgem

@Singmealullaby - "I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me"

What on earth is going on here? He forced sex on you, now is distant and you're attached to this guy? You got used, straight up and I would feel disgusted with myself too. Yeah, listen to that little voice - because that's what's telling you the truth right now.


ik it doesn't make sense. Im confused myself which is why I felt I needed to talk to someone about it. I keep giving him the benefit of the doubt bc in my head we were friends and he wouldn't intentionally hurt me. We're both in college and oftentimes we'd support each other as far as our goals and whatnot. idk lol I need therapy bc I feel worthless and unwanted kinda wanna die too sorry

I think the sex is tied to it also. he was very affectionate with lots of kissing and oral. I could tell he wanted to please me


You're NOT worthless.

You're NOT unwanted.

Don't believe the LIES.

You're hurt, and disappointed. This dude was a mess from the beginning. He KNOWS he did wrong by you.

You are naive which is NORMAL at your age. But, what he did was PREMEDITATED. "He grabbed your vagina" That's sexual assault and sexual harassment. UNACCEPTABLE!

Forgive yourself and yes, seek therapy. Where is your FAMILY, BEST FRIENDS? This is the time to talk w them.


Yes!
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Posted by CreativeCap

Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.
I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.
Posted by sweetpea2977

So, this has PISSED me off. That dude is SCUM and he needs his ass BEAT.

Where is your father? Any brothers or uncles?

This post has me seeing red 😠
It's just my my mom, younger sister, and I.
Thanks for your responses. It helped me put things into perspective.
Posted by Singmealullaby
Posted by CreativeCap

Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.
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My main purpose of the post was my question of "how do I get over this" not to say that I was raped
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Posted by Singmealullaby

HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.


This is just classic young dickhead guy pressuring young naive girl to have sex and the girl giving in because she thinks it will lead to a relationship. This is the kind of shit bad boys did to good girls in the 50s, the kind of stuff parents usually warn you about.

Treat it as a lesson learned.




Thanks! If anything I thought him and I were friends and I never thought he would do something like that. I truly didn't want a relationship. I could've had him if I wanted. I kept rejecting him. I had sex because it felt like I had no other choice in the moment in addition to I didn't want to end our friendship. I understand how dumb it sounds now but that's how I felt at the time. I need to learn to be more assertive. I'll just be happy when I'm over this. Ik it may seem like it isn't a big deal but I can't stop obsessing over it. It has put me in a really dark place. I don't even like him I think I'm just drawn to him bc he's distant as opposed to before.


He's not a good friend or boyfriend. I understand why you feel obsessive and dark about it. Have you told him that you did not want to do it and only did it because you felt pressured? He probably needs to know that if he doesn't. He doesn't need to do

that to you or anyone else again.
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OMG!!! Are you all insane?

He was good and oral and she enjoyed their sex!!

And now she says ‘how could he do it to ME?’

What? Eat her pussy and being ‘wanting to please’ her is a tape?

Yeah...
Posted by CreativeCap

Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.
Thanks! I am with you.

And it might be the best sex she ever had in life! 🤔

And she says she wants him.

But she doesn’t know...because he isn’t chasing her. Now when he says he likes her she doesn’t want him.

She is fucked up!

Stop this feminist bullshit!

What is she supposed to tell therapist? That she had great sex? Therapist might laugh. Or get jealous.::🤦‍♀️

You people need to read carefully what she says.

None of her makes sense. Period!
I haven't hidden anything. Literally every single post is available.
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.
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He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.
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HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible. I’m a Taurus with a lot of fire in my chart (21). Aries rising Aries mercury & Leo moon. I’m not saying we’re incompatible simply bc of our signs. In fact, he has a lot of water & earth which overall makes us compatible but certain things he’d say & do rubbed me the wrong way. Plus I was never comfortable being my outgoing, talkative self around him. I decided we’d just be friends. Long story short he asks to hangout. I finally agreed. We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship. A couple weeks later I asked him how he feels about me. He said “wdym, we’re chilling.” Not even answering the question. Now I’m disgusted with myself. I know he didn’t deserve me in that way. He’s distant now. I can’t help but to wonder why he doesn’t like me enough to date or if he’s just not ready for a relationship now. He’s probably thinking “you had your chance..too late now.” Ik geminis can be scared of commitment for various reasons & get bored easily. (He wants to continue sex) I feel attached now. I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me. How do I get over this? I get anxious every time I think about it all.


This is just classic young dickhead guy pressuring young naive girl to have sex and the girl giving in because she thinks it will lead to a relationship. This is the kind of shit bad boys did to good girls in the 50s, the kind of stuff parents usually warn you about.

Treat it as a lesson learned.




Thanks! If anything I thought him and I were friends and I never thought he would do something like that. I truly didn't want a relationship. I could've had him if I wanted. I kept rejecting him. I had sex because it felt like I had no other choice in the moment in addition to I didn't want to end our friendship. I understand how dumb it sounds now but that's how I felt at the time. I need to learn to be more assertive. I'll just be happy when I'm over this. Ik it may seem like it isn't a big deal but I can't stop obsessing over it. It has put me in a really dark place. I don't even like him I think I'm just drawn to him bc he's distant as opposed to before.


He's not a good friend or boyfriend. I understand why you feel obsessive and dark about it. Have you told him that you did not want to do it and only did it because you felt pressured? He probably needs to know that if he doesn't. He doesn't need to do

that to you or anyone else again.


OMG!!! Are you all insane?

He was good and oral and she enjoyed their sex!!

And now she says ‘how could he do it to ME?’

What? Eat her pussy and being ‘wanting to please’ her is a tape?

Yeah...


Do you realize that you're disgusting?
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No.

Girls SUPPOSED to say NO and THEN give up.

Otherwise we might be viewed as sluts.

Some play this game until they old and then they called spinsters. Those are nasty bitches you know...right?🤷‍♀️
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.
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You need to SPEAK affirmations OVER yourself; over your life. Speak positive words to yourself. For every 1 negative phrase, combat it with 3 positive phrases. It works. Words have power and changing ones mind does too.
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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.
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This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.
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I’m not judging you at all. My statements regarding rape were NOT directed towards you but the users on the forum calling it that. You know you were not raped. You made that very clear. There are some women who don’t know the difference and ALOT of innocent men are locked up in prison because of that. There were way too many people on this forum suggesting that you were.

I read your initial post and some of the commentary after. You come off as a very intelligent young woman who understands you made a poor decision by giving in to the sexual demands of a guy that didn’t have the patience or respect to wait until you were completely ready.

To answer your question, “How do you move on from it?”

Take responsibility for the decision you made (which you already did). Instead of being angry with yourself, change your perspective. It was just an experience that taught you a valuable lesson. You cut all contact from this guy. There should be no gray area. Make it very clear that you are not interested in any dealings with him whatsoever. In the future, when come across guys like this or any hint that he’s an asshole, don’t even give them the time of day.

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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


"HELP! This Gemini guy (21) tried to pursue me for an entire year. Initially he’d say I’m smart, ask me out on dates, and ask my friends about me. He was consistent. Although I liked him I had no intentions of dating or having sex bc I felt we were incompatible."

"We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. "

Not listening to no's is abuse.
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Abuse and Harassment.
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.
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I had one problem with your post understanding you liking him to the point that you have into his toxic masculinity...then you wanted him so bad...then he later laughed at you...then he begged your friends to tell you he likes you...then you rejecting him.

Is it correct? WTF is this mess all about?

Help getting over WHAT? You’ve had sex with man you liked and what happened AFTER is a mess!

You don’t really getting over sex with him do you?

You are angry at him for laughing and rejecting you. Is that what this is all about?
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.


I’m not judging you at all. My statements regarding rape were NOT directed towards you but the users on the forum calling it that. You know you were not raped. You made that very clear. There are some women who don’t know the difference and ALOT of innocent men are locked up in prison because of that. There were way too many people on this forum suggesting that you were.

I read your initial post and some of the commentary after. You come off as a very intelligent young woman who understands you made a poor decision by giving in to the sexual demands of a guy that didn’t have the patience or respect to wait until you were completely ready.

To answer your question, “How do you move on from it?”

Take responsibility for the decision you made (which you already did). Instead of being angry with yourself, change your perspective. It was just an experience that taught you a valuable lesson. You cut all contact from this guy. There should be no gray area. Make it very clear that you are not interested in any dealings with him whatsoever. In the future, when come across guys like this or any hint that he’s an asshole, don’t even give them the time of day.


Who said rape before you did? I said "rapey". Some others said sexual assault. You tanked this girl's thread.

Edit: That came out a little harsh. I mean I think people ended up arguing about how to classify rape instead of trying to help her because of your post. Maybe that's laying too much on you.
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I think you are so involved into life of people you don’t know...I am wondering what’s going on with your own life. 🤔
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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.


This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.
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It seems like that’s what you want to hear. We all aren’t the same. Dude tried to pursue me for an entire YEAR. I did not want him. You can definitely make sex good for someone despite them not wanting it. He gave me oral. He kept asking if I was enjoying it. He probably did that to make himself feel better bc he knew I didn’t want it to begin with or in hopes that I’d want to continue to do it & it doesn’t matter what my body language says if my words keep saying no. You’re weird af.
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.


You need to SPEAK affirmations OVER yourself; over your life. Speak positive words to yourself. For every 1 negative phrase, combat it with 3 positive phrases. It works. Words have power and changing ones mind does too.
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Thanks. I’ll try this.
This is what I sent him before I blocked him. “I hope you aren’t pressing other girls for sex. It’s creepy and manipulative. It doesn’t take a million no’s to see that someone doesn’t want sex. I thought we were friends but I was just used & discarded. I feel so low & disgusting. Please don’t do that to anyone else. It’s beyond toxic.”
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We’re in his car, we talk & he eventually asks for sex. I said no several times 3-4 times. He asks me to stay & talk a little longer. I even grabbed the door handle & said “I should leave now” twice. It is locked. He asks me to stay. We talk more. He kisses me & we start making out he then roughly grabs my vag. I was shocked & uncomfortable. I felt as if he thought I owed it to him. So I put my hand on top of his. He asks again & I just say yes. He made the sex good for me but I wanted to be in a relationship with whoever I have sex with. I’m not into casual. (I’ve done it before) now he doesn’t even want a relationship.....I want him so bad but he’s ignoring me.


Clearly states that the sex was consensual. She is now disappointed because he’s dodging her and doesn’t want a relationship.


She’s saying it consensual but whatever is consensual about him locking her in a room and not taking her multiple no’s for an answer? That’s not consent.


Correction, she got locked up in a car as she was trying to get out as he's getting forceful onto her.


Show me the part where she said he physically forced her to stay in the car. BTW I never had any trouble getting out of a car. Stop encouraging this bullshit. This ain’t nothing but an example of a female playing coy with a guy pressuring her for sex. Once she said yes, he proceeded. Case closed.


He was my friend. I had no reason to "play coy." Had I wanted it, I would've told him that from the start. Despite this, its crazy how I've already stated that it wasn't rape and you're saying it's all bs. I made a wrong decision by saying yes in the end when I didn't want to. You're completely disregarding the question how do I get over this? Over my mistake. I don't need the unnecessary judgement.


I’m not judging you at all. My statements regarding rape were NOT directed towards you but the users on the forum calling it that. You know you were not raped. You made that very clear. There are some women who don’t know the difference and ALOT of innocent men are locked up in prison because of that. There were way too many people on this forum suggesting that you were.

I read your initial post and some of the commentary after. You come off as a very intelligent young woman who understands you made a poor decision by giving in to the sexual demands of a guy that didn’t have the patience or respect to wait until you were completely ready.

To answer your question, “How do you move on from it?”

Take responsibility for the decision you made (which you already did). Instead of being angry with yourself, change your perspective. It was just an experience that taught you a valuable lesson. You cut all contact from this guy. There should be no gray area. Make it very clear that you are not interested in any dealings with him whatsoever. In the future, when come across guys like this or any hint that he’s an asshole, don’t even give them the time of day.


Who said rape before you did? I said "rapey". Some others said sexual assault. You tanked this girl's thread.

Edit: That came out a little harsh. I mean I think people ended up arguing about how to classify rape instead of trying to help her because of your post. Maybe that's laying too much on you.


I think you are so involved into life of people you don’t know...I am wondering what’s going on with your own life. 🤔
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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.


This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.


It seems like that’s what you want to hear. We all aren’t the same. Dude tried to pursue me for an entire YEAR. I did not want him. You can definitely make sex good for someone despite them not wanting it. He gave me oral. He kept asking if I was enjoying it. He probably did that to make himself feel better bc he knew I didn’t want it to begin with or in hopes that I’d want to continue to do it & it doesn’t matter what my body language says if my words keep saying no. You’re weird af.
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Liar. Are you that hard up and desperate for a man? If you didn’t want him WTF would you agree to go out with him. You even wanted a relationship. This guy was smart for tossing you. You need your head examined.

Get some standards. Men respect that. never give your pussy to a man in a car the first time you fuck. He’ll just think your an easy hoe

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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.


This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.


It seems like that’s what you want to hear. We all aren’t the same. Dude tried to pursue me for an entire YEAR. I did not want him. You can definitely make sex good for someone despite them not wanting it. He gave me oral. He kept asking if I was enjoying it. He probably did that to make himself feel better bc he knew I didn’t want it to begin with or in hopes that I’d want to continue to do it & it doesn’t matter what my body language says if my words keep saying no. You’re weird af.


Liar. Are you that hard up and desperate for a man? If you didn’t want him WTF would you agree to go out with him. You even wanted a relationship. This guy was smart for tossing you. You need your head examined.

Get some standards. Men respect that. never give your pussy to a man in a car the first time you fuck. He’ll just think your an easy hoe
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He was a friend. Are we not supposed to hangout bc he’s a guy & im a girl? We didn’t have sex in the car. He got a hotel. He knows I’m not easy. That was literally my second time having sex ever. But you’re going to believe what you want anyway.


You’re not going to place all of the blame on me. I said yes but only after I had already said no several times. Once I said yes he took me to a hotel. I have no reason to lie to random ppl on the internet. Everything I’ve said is 100% true.
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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.


This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.


It seems like that’s what you want to hear. We all aren’t the same. Dude tried to pursue me for an entire YEAR. I did not want him. You can definitely make sex good for someone despite them not wanting it. He gave me oral. He kept asking if I was enjoying it. He probably did that to make himself feel better bc he knew I didn’t want it to begin with or in hopes that I’d want to continue to do it & it doesn’t matter what my body language says if my words keep saying no. You’re weird af.


Liar. Are you that hard up and desperate for a man? If you didn’t want him WTF would you agree to go out with him. You even wanted a relationship. This guy was smart for tossing you. You need your head examined.

Get some standards. Men respect that. never give your pussy to a man in a car the first time you fuck. He’ll just think your an easy hoe
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Nothing but facts here. He knows she's just a phone call away.
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Why are people up here saying she was raped? WTF did y’all read what she wrote. She was playing hard to get and finally said yes. She also said in her later posts that she wants him and the sex was good. Rape is a very serious crime, literally marks the offender for life. Not a word to just throw around.


I agree I wasn't raped because I said yes in the end but I was not playing hard to get. I feel like I made it clear to him that I did not want it.


This is contradictory to your writings. Plus your body language may have told him you were aroused. Men can pick up on these things. You said you enjoyed it but wanted to wait for a relationship. Perhaps you thought if you gave in sexually, it would have lead to something more.


It seems like that’s what you want to hear. We all aren’t the same. Dude tried to pursue me for an entire YEAR. I did not want him. You can definitely make sex good for someone despite them not wanting it. He gave me oral. He kept asking if I was enjoying it. He probably did that to make himself feel better bc he knew I didn’t want it to begin with or in hopes that I’d want to continue to do it & it doesn’t matter what my body language says if my words keep saying no. You’re weird af.


Liar. Are you that hard up and desperate for a man? If you didn’t want him WTF would you agree to go out with him. You even wanted a relationship. This guy was smart for tossing you. You need your head examined.

Get some standards. Men respect that. never give your pussy to a man in a car the first time you fuck. He’ll just think your an easy hoe


Nothing but facts here. He knows she's just a phone call away.


@Singmealullaby, do woman kind a favor, and don't let this douche be right.
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I’ve blocked him. I just hope he doesn’t continue doing this to others.