A Gem apologised for hurting me

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Wow. I'm still in shock really. Only been a few days.

At first I thought wow, he is really sorry (like he said) now I'm wondering if it's a ploy to keep me on the back burner in case of emergency.

But the seeming acknowledgement that another human being has feelings (that count!!) blew my mind for a little while.


One small step for a male person, one giant leap for Gemini-kind.
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Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Wow. I'm still in shock really. Only been a few days.

At first I thought wow, he is really sorry (like he said) now I'm wondering if it's a ploy to keep me on the back burner in case of emergency.

But the seeming acknowledgement that another human being has feelings (that count!!) blew my mind for a little while.


One small step for a male person, one giant leap for Gemini-kind.
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Hey, I know what ya mean. After the tornado tore up my neighborhood, my exhusband (gem) showed up to help clear out debris. He basically apologized to me saying he knew he wasn't the best exhusband, if there were such a thing, but he would like to be on friendlier terms. He blamed it on his "situation" which means he was blaming his newly ex girlfriend (the one he had the affair with). We had a very volatile five years and are at least on speaking terms now.

I was impressed with him and it was appreciated. I still don't trust him, but at least things are more relaxed now.
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So weird bc I got an apology from a Gemini male a couple of times and I was always suspicious of the same thing. I mean, we do have fun together and he enjoys talking to me so Ig it was sincere. When he told me he loved me, I wasn't sure but then I read that it's very rare for them to say that and when they do say it, they mean it. But, I also know that they lie and are manipulative so I'm not sure.