Any of my fellow gemini with a cancer man ? What were the results? Would you do it again ?
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Aug 25, 2012Comments: 25 · Posts: 885 · Topics: 40
Cutegem. Why would you do it again?
I'm not even sure if I still am in a relationship with my Cancer. The last time we spoke he was completely into me and it was hot and heavy with full on attraction. Then he dropped off the face of the earth and I have not heard from him since. It's been a little over a month now. He wouldn't respond to my messages and I think he's even blocked me online which we use to communicate. He told me once to trust him and I did. I'm holding onto that trust but it is hard when he pulls these disappearances. I'd reach out lovingly with cute messages once in a while without being too bothersome but it is really hard. I still care a lot about him and I really don't know what to do. I don't think it is a Gemini or Cancer thing. I think it is just an avoidant guy thing. I'm giving him his space. Being Gemini we are good with giving space.
Would I do it over again? Yes. A thousand times yes.
Hey BlankIndian. How's it goin???
It's been over a month since I got a response from my Cancer. I message him every few days now with something cute and nice and sweet. I think I will stop. I'm a very forgiving person. But you were right to point out in the beginning that these disappearances shouldn't be let slide. I needed to reach real deep inside to come up with this new plan. I think I'm going to really leave him alone now and for good. If he comes back I'll try my best to be understanding but I think I've finally made up my mind about protecting myself from anyone who has no care for me. So thanks for that.
I've said before. I have nothing bad to say about my Cancer. I think it would have worked out if he didn't avoid me so much. I've been extra careful with him. Would I do it again? Yes, I would. I just hope I wasn't so weak and felt so sad when he withdrew from me. But other than that. I love Cancers both guys and gals.
Relationships between a Cancer and Gemini have a lot of potential to be great. I wouldn't rule them out based on one experience of the past.
thank you BlackIndian. I took your advice and I will no longer be playing his games. Disappearance acts are just not cool in my books. I don't care what his issues were any more. 1 month is just too long apart. I can be understanding and patient but it's just going to mess with my head too much. I feel much better now that I've decided that it's going to be over whether or not he's coming back. And yes, this is an individual, not a sign. A dark cloud has been lifted.
Hope you hang in there! Have strength. We're all here for you.