Any other Gems feel this way or is it just me?!?

Good morning! Today I am my usual happy self and decided to throw this question out to my fellow Gems instead of trawling the other sign's forum looking for answers. It should start with me, right?

I am seeing a Sagittarius and it is way relaxed. We both like it so and everybody's happy. My question is this: Last week Thursday I sent him a text about getting together and he didn't reply. He had called me Tues, Wed and Thurs of that same week and we spoke for hours, I had just forgotten to ask him one thing after our call and texted him. No response. Okay, I figure, no big deal.

I have not heard from since, I called on Wednesday and sent a text Thursday (yesterday) I am not calling or texting again because I just find it so rude!!! What is it with people doing things like that? I am a little shocked because our conversations were easy and free-flowing so it's not like there is any reason for him to act this way. Each time he called me, we spoke for over a hour so I thought we were friends.

My question is twofold, isn't this RUDE? Or am I blowing it out of proportion? I just feel if I take the time to call you, the least you can do is call me back. 2nd question, forgive this and move on OR sign of things to come? I don't know Sags but if it's about liberty and all about them, this can't end well... LOL

What do you think?

I think there's a good chance you're blowing it out of proportion.
That's how Gemini/Sag relationships can get I think. One minute you're the best of friends the next minute one or the other vanishes from existence and pretends the other doesnt exist.
I've come to the conclusion Geminis and Sagi's should remain friends and nothing more.
I know several Sagi's and yes.. They all do the same thing. They'll call you when they need you or feel like it but they're very good at being selfish. But. W/e. The fun with them is worth it, in my opinion. Unless they're over the moon for you, you just kind of have to accept that that is how they are.

Okay, I feel like an ass. He just called, he had lost his phone. We had a good laugh and are fine again, no worries.

I think I do blow this issue out of proportion though because I really CAN'T STAND when people waste my time, ugh! When did we lose common courtesies?? We are a screwed up generation. I say good morning or whatever, when I enter a room, I say sorry if I bump into you when walking on the road...no-one seems to think things like that are important anymore. sigh.

However, I do believe Gems are more attuned to this than other signs because we like and appreciate elegance in all things, including manners and any interactions. So rudeness really irks us! Agree?

Posted by DeeGee

Posted by Geminems
I think there's a good chance you're blowing it out of proportion.
That's how Gemini/Sag relationships can get I think. One minute you're the best of friends the next minute one or the other vanishes from existence and pretends the other doesnt exist.
I've come to the conclusion Geminis and Sagi's should remain friends and nothing more.
I know several Sagi's and yes.. They all do the same thing. They'll call you when they need you or feel like it but they're very good at being selfish. But. W/e. The fun with them is worth it, in my opinion. Unless they're over the moon for you, you just kind of have to accept that that is how they are.

+1

I dated a few Saggies, it never works....they can't handle our duality. They think we're nuts or something.

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Not saying all are but the Sags Ive ever known I cant stand now, dated 2 both were full throttle and the pushy ones for a relationship, dated one for 2 yrs on and off the other almost 11, both Tried to be controlling and very jealous and possesive, both became obsessive, Still having problems with the 11 yr one to this day a year after the split even though he left to be with another sag who was obsessing over him,

theres another sag who i dont mind he is nice a goo friend but im not interested romantically in who is with someone else who has been crushing on me for several years and isnt letting up even though ive made it clear its not going to happen and he needs to go work on his relationship.

Now a new one on my case who was phoning and texting me a bit excessive and if i didnt respond within the hour he would be texting why are you ignoring me? or thinking I had gone some place without him and lying when i wasnt (He kinda invited himself along to something that i changed my mind about going to) uhh making assumptions, doing my nut in! sent a text arent you going to explain? so then i did i said i didnt like it and to go sort his issues as to why he felt so insecure why i was ignoring him, he is aquaintence level not even close friends! ive made it clear im not interested in dating, he is still persistent but trying a different approach, ie: oh you need a break i so want to take you out you really deserve it, can i come over to see you, NOOOOO! maybe he is nice and im not giving him a chance beca

.... he is a sag and because of the issues with the 11 yr sag relationship but nah if hes like that now then pfffft its not looking healthy, go work on yourself.

For me not a healthy match, all insecure and obsessive to different degrees.... yuck!

.. Its like they wont accept no for an answer and neither will they accept closure.

GG55 yes to the obsessive tendencies. In my case the Sags I dated became more obsessed and stalker-ish when the relationships were over.
What was so weird was that in one of the relationships he initiated the break up. Then he couldn't let me go. Odd!

Lol. Some Sags are definitely not kosher.
Emotionally unstable creatures in love

Posted by ShopClass
GG55 yes to the obsessive tendencies. In my case the Sags I dated became more obsessed and stalker-ish when the relationships were over.
What was so weird was that in one of the relationships he initiated the break up. Then he couldn't let me go. Odd!

Lol, that's because most sag's have a Venus in Scorpio. My ex sag had that placement & after we broke up, he told me he refuses to stop contacting me. I'm like what are you retarted? I don't want anything to do with you AT ALL, why would you want to keep in contact with me? Eventually he stopped (thank GOD) after being very icy toward him, he got the hint.

Posted by ShopClass
GG55 yes to the obsessive tendencies. In my case the Sags I dated became more obsessed and stalker-ish when the relationships were over.
What was so weird was that in one of the relationships he initiated the break up. Then he couldn't let me go. Odd!

YES!!! OMG JUST LIKE THAT!!!!.. I cant go into it over the net BUT yes spot on.