AQUA vs GEM in an arguement

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by aquaswatertheworld on Monday, October 2, 2006 and has 42 replies.
although gemini are witty and agile in a fight, an aquarius, void of all emotional output will pinpoint, and with lazer guided, ego shattering accuracy will deliver a slew of crippling blows when truly aggravated. ( GEMINI WILL FIND A WAY TO PISS OF A MONK). i myself have found sublime joy in crushing an army of bullshit artist gemini in my time with absolutley no regret. get a gemini to truly question his/her self and watch them go mad. get a bag of popcorn cuz the twins go crazy when this happens. their so caught up in their thick web of complete bullshit that when you make them question themselves their mind spirals outta control. and if they dont show it right away they will probally yell out anything about you that they dont like in attempt to win the lost battle. they will save their breakdown for later so listen to quiet crying late at nite. i dunno but i get completely sadistic if confronted by a gemini.
well, from my experience, in part you're right. i dont really like the terribly condescending and ignorantly negative way you put it, but yeah. it's easy to take a Gem down by making them question themselves...i mean, we're always either doing that constantly or doing anything but that. but thankfully, you've also been able to pinpoint your own character flaw too, so...kudos to you. and thanks for the heads up on why you're posting to the Gem board.
Now its tried and true that aquarians attack with full force and determination and have some indeniably intelligent right-away comebacks when in the middle of an argument, but that means nothing to we, gems, absolutely nothing...wanna know why?
First of all,(spontaenity)if we see that we can turn the tied of the discussion in any way,we'll do it...time and time again, there is no stopping...thats why ur best weapon against this is running away and thinking that u were on the right when in fact u didnt even finished the argument...
(versatility) we gems scream of versatility...we can use your own ideas agaisnt you if we are sufficiently determined and pissed off...make a clown out of U for the whole room to laugh at and to top it off, make u believe u were wrong even thou u were right the whole distance...heehee...
(intelligence)u aquarians gotta accept it..we are more intelligent than u are...
the ideas that u come up with are good(radically good!) but not very practical most of the times...and u always take the longer roads...meanwhile we geminians think simple
outside-the-box ideas,and whats more..were natural to it...we will ALWAYS find a way or we will ALWAYS make one...matter of time only...
its true that we geminians know everything about anything, so that gives us a shallow knowledge(were u aquarians excel at...) but when we are really knowledgeable...and we feel combative that day..hehe..u better watch out brother...

but thinking about it..I love aquarian girls, cause when it comes to sex they are so perverted,,,,hahaha..no really no offense intended...my sweetheart darling of my life is a living example...and she is a goth too...a trend that seems to be pronounced in these starsign....
Honestly, I've met my share of angry gemini women who fits the definition of gemini quite perfectly, and there's one thing that they beat me in...WORDS! They can keep going and going and going! I can make one valid point, but in that one, they already made three! I'm like...jeez what? Let me talk! All day if I wanted to take it that far! It's not that they're smarter than me, they totally dominate the argument (as the same with everyday conversation with them) and successfully make me look like the ass! Even though, I STILL LOVE U GEMINI WOMEN!!!!
we love you to!!!! i'm not an angry gemini female Sad at least at the moment lol
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Tongue hehehehe...Ok..Whatever...heehee..
I'm never been attracted to Aquarius. Seems I'm attracted to Cancers. I don't think we're suppose to be attracted to them. But I left my Cancer man after 19 yrs. Stayed for my son. I have a lot of friends that are Cancers both women and men. Don't understand that. Cancers seem to really like me and me like them. I haven't gotten to know any Aquarius well enough to get to know them so I know I'm not attracted to them. So much so that I don't know what month is Aquarius.
no no way. geminis only understand something when u tell them twice.
LOL Gem smile So true smile
exactly it gets tiring when u hav to repeat urself.
I'm sorry, can you say that again? smile
Don't think that we are not aware of that though....good thing is that we can view situations from different angles...
sure but easily distracted
i'm sorry, I wasn't paying attention...something cooler was going on somewhere else smile
lol. figures smile
We'll never be boring- so that's good!!
I agree....hmmm- case in point, right? smile I guess we gems will take a point of view, but we are mutable, so if we are faced with a good argument, we are swayed to agree...easy going is a nice way to say that and we appreciate it when people see us as such!
I don't know Kavindra... I'm not so easily swayed... Not at all actually. Even if they present a great case.... and have good points.. i pretty much stand my ground. The best hope they have is i might say, ya.. you got some good points.. and switch the subject..like we are so good at.. but not too often swayed... very rare..
Both the signs can be equally mentally arrogant in my opinion although not intense or severe usually - basically tossing verbal flow at each other.
These two would make for great mental stimulation also we are more or less 'unconventional' signs, both are very spontaneous - Aquarius being fixed is the less flexible and less adaptable one, similar temperments. In serious situations such as in an arguement the energy could be abruptly explosive and it dissipates quickly the anger that is - physically violent encounters are highly unlikely.
When I deal with or am confronted with negatively aspected aquas, Geminis, Libras (mostly males), I stand my ground and I will fight and they will definitely back off.
@cthugha Oh my life!! "thats why ur best weapon against this is running away and thinking that u were on the right when in fact u didnt even finished the argument..." This is so true! Aquarians are so stuck in their strange ways that they get lost in their thoughts and loose sight of reality right before their own eyes. Because they are so stubborn this will happen every single time and every single time a Gemini will snatch that ego back, shake off what is now irrelevant, and will get the last word. Aquarians may have more intellect but that doesn't mean anything if they cannot deliver! BITCHESSS
Well, for one thing, a Gemini would be able to spell "argument".
meh, I lived with Aqua for 13 years - danced circles around him as I wished. At times I watched him flip flop and get stuck on his own lack of flexible thought, as I pulled the intellectual strings to my own rhythm. It was amusing to watch how easy it was to get just the right reaction. I have a couple of other Aqua friends, they are not much of a challenge either.
However, with that said, young Gems will always question everything, especially themselves - isn't that the first step to self awareness and our own minuscule as well as grandiose potential in the great scheme of things? Will you be so arrogant as to think yourself righteous just for the sake of "I", or will you accept that seeing both sides is always much better than only one view. In the end, access to any information truly is freedom. Isn't it?
I do not hold much respect for verbal acrobatics of most Aquas. They tend to be moody and pull the "woe is me" BS.
Give me a Libra or even a Sag any day or a feisty Leo - they are fun.
Posted by aquaj
I have yet to meet a truly dumb-shit person of either sign.



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i've known my gem bff since i was 8 years old. i dont get all of this. i mean yea in grade school we would defend her because she was super skinny and people thought she was weak. but while we were defending her she was the one throwing rocks and sticks. she always had our backs..
i love this woman to death...she is an equal intellectually in every way shape and form. if i know something new that she doesnt, she will set there and want me to tell her all about it...and vice versa. maybe its the other planets that affect the gems you know or the aquas you know. because i think the gem/aqua relationship is a very good, productive, support, loyal and loving one.
my gem bff is like my sister. it would be very hard to live without her.
sorry about the typos, i am on my phone and trying to eat lunch.
People just like to start threads to prove they're cooler than other people. Whatever.
I was married to an Aqua man. No way could he match me in an argument. I love it when someone tries to match wits with me; it's a game I'm at home with. And guess what? While I'm teaching you a thing or two I might learn something myself--only you won't know it because I'm so skilled at what I do. Now all this sounds like bragging but I'm just stating facts. Now my Virgo friend, he might be the closest one who can match wits with me. That man is soooooooo clever! I love and admire that about him. I give props where it's deserved and Virgo can get it. LOL!
Seriously...you can't win with a Gemini if s/he doesn't want you to. Even if it becomes completely clear that you're right, you're still going to come out wounded somehow. The problem is that arguing is a verbal event, and the realm of the verbal is our home turf, giving us the home-field advantage. Has nothing to do with being smarter, etc...just being able to twist words and turn phrases in a more effective way.
like gem star said, the only sign i can see and have seen match wits with gemini is a virgo. a virgo would know if he won and just let gemini talk to himself which makes it even more entertaining. if the virgoes influenced by air make a banter even more funnier.
in tie with what whimsy said..only a aqua will be able to call them out on their word twists. I think haha in a argument (dating one gemini) we both would argue for the sake of verbal bantering and we end up creating more arguments. Usually also in tie with deadringer comments on style s. Essentially aqua-gemini will be arguing , at least in my experience, about whats fact/ whats honesty. With my gem it has nothing to do with the topic, we argue just to get our way. We fought about the logics behind who should be doing "laundry" (that lasted a week. Then its just arguing about the style in which we argue. Eventually, both parties just stop cause their "bored" with it. and they just compromise.
HAHA ugh i say its a draw!
The best arguers I've come up against arethe Scorpios I've dated. It's because they refused to enter the verbal aren, where they might be at a disadvantage. They would either just keep quiet and stare at me, or else just say the same phrase over and over ("Don't be like that" or "Well, that's how I was when we met")
Scorpio males are weird, know-it-alls. I get along with the Scorpio females until they want to argue about everything--then I cut them with, "I'm done with that let's move one". LOL! That normally infuriates them but they get over it (or do they? hmmm). The few males I deal with were sooooooooooo serious and always trying to read my mind. I'm like are we on a date or am I supposed to be lying on the couch telling you my innermost thoughts? Sheeeesh. To heavy for this Gemini--I said buhbye pretty quickly!
Posted by GemStar05
Scorpio males are weird, know-it-alls. I get along with the Scorpio females until they want to argue about everything--then I cut them with, "I'm done with that let's move one". LOL! That normally infuriates them but they get over it (or do they? hmmm). The few males I deal with were sooooooooooo serious and always trying to read my mind. I'm like are we on a date or am I supposed to be lying on the couch telling you my innermost thoughts? Sheeeesh. To heavy for this Gemini--I said buhbye pretty quickly!



that would be move "on" not one...smh@ me
Sultana- I admire the hell out of my Scorpio husband and we have a good relationship that flows pretty easily. He's really a great, solid, guy. If, for some reason, it didn't work out, though, I would never date a Scorpio again. I promise. We're just too inherently different.
A gem beating an aqua in a argument hehehe you guys are funny. Tongue
i have to agree with Candi on this one. it's definately a draw. (or equal) lol! my aqua and i just argue for the sake of bantering too. would like to add that i see it as great mental exercise. lol! and we have loads of fun with it. smile
This is stupid. When it comes down to it...an arugment between gems and their brothers (aquas) would come down to what the argument was about...Aquas are notorious for being total hipocrits. Complaining and trying to fix other people based on things that they do themselves! gems are notorious for taking an incident and pulling all of the pros and cons out...usually to dwell on the cons until they've confronted the other person. I know me myself( gem girl) does not want to hurt anyone....especially an aquarius. We only want to get our point across. and when u argue back and don't listen or even consider changing your way of doing something...we get mad and want to tell u about yourself a little. and yes its out of spite ill admit it, but how come we can bend over backwards to help u, make u happy and give u money but its hardly reciprocated without personal gain. TIGHTEN UP!
Posted by aquaswatertheworld
although gemini are witty and agile in a fight, an aquarius, void of all emotional output will pinpoint, and with lazer guided, ego shattering accuracy will deliver a slew of crippling blows when truly aggravated. ( GEMINI WILL FIND A WAY TO PISS OF A MONK). i myself have found sublime joy in crushing an army of bullshit artist gemini in my time with absolutley no regret. get a gemini to truly question his/her self and watch them go mad. get a bag of popcorn cuz the twins go crazy when this happens. their so caught up in their thick web of complete bullshit that when you make them question themselves their mind spirals outta control. and if they dont show it right away they will probally yell out anything about you that they dont like in attempt to win the lost battle. they will save their breakdown for later so listen to quiet crying late at nite. i dunno but i get completely sadistic if confronted by a gemini.


Ha it happens to me the other way round. Aquas come as strong but I can see them they are weak. May be because of my Aqua moon. But of all I think Aqua is one of the best match, easy to communicate, steamy sex and a good travel partner.