Aquarius Vs Libra . . Who's better for GEMINI ?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by GlamGemini on Monday, August 16, 2010 and has 31 replies.
Hey guys !
I feel like Gemini is sometimes the odd ball out when it comes to romance/love
when people think of an air sign couple "Aquarius-Libra" pops up the most
so I wanna know what you guys think
Who do YOU think is better for us Geminis? Why?
The Aquariuses OR The Libras ?
Big Grin
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Posted by gemtaur
Are you conflicted between two guys Glam?


Ahaha no lol
I'm just wondering because Gems are so left out in match ups
So I'm just wondering who's better for us, since Aquas + Libras are pretty different
I'm wondering which would gel better with a Gemini
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Posted by gemtaur
You mean we don't have much to choose from?
We match up with almost anyone. Why limit your options?


I'm not lol
I'm just wondering
It's randomness Tongue
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I've dated 2 Libras
One with a Scorpio venus, talk about super jealousy issues lol.
I couldn't put up with it and left him faster than he could count to 10.
2nd was a Libra/Virgo cusp and he was AWESOME! lol so much fun and so cool Big Grin
Never dated an Aqua yet but the attraction is strong.
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Not really actually.
He was pretty clear on things lol.
He would be indecisive on little things but my Libra best friend does that as well and I don't mind lol.
What about you?
Any Libras or Aquas for you?
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Really?
Do you get along/share good chemistry with Aquas in general more than Libras?
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I like Libras it's just they're a bit too clingy at times, not all of course though
but the ones I've come across anyways.
Aquas are cool partners in crime but yeah they can be a bit cold.
But I guess the same rule applies to them, once they find the right one they can settle lol

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Posted by gemtaur
Libras clingy? You don't have any fire in your chart do you? lol



No I actually don't LOL.
Besides my Sag Jupiter.
My chart is mostly Air + Earth lol but Air is # 1 Tongue
Why? whats the tie with me thinking SOME Libras are clingy and fire in my chart?
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Posted by GlamGemini
Hey guys !
I feel like Gemini is sometimes the odd ball out when it comes to romance/love
when people think of an air sign couple "Aquarius-Libra" pops up the most
so I wanna know what you guys think
Who do YOU think is better for us Geminis? Why?
The Aquariuses OR The Libras ?
Big Grin


Neither. From my observation, same elements probably shouldn't be together except for maybe Gem/Gem. I know, I know, but think about it first.
Same elements in a relationship seldom works long term (depending on your definition of time). To me, it's like astrological incest. Think about it, todays individual are lazy when it comes to relationships so the first sign of trouble people tend to justify a break-up and say the other person just wasn't for them. When in the end that person did not grow, at all. Just my opinion.
However, when I'e been with an Aquarian woman it has been a magical experience. BUT!! I've learned that from time to time the two need each other to 're-fuel'. It helps, and is much needed.
In a relationship Aqua's are way too unpredictable, but I love them. Libra's energetically feel like Cancerians to me. Too internalized. But, I can have an itellectual conversation with both.
The pro is that it seems that only Air signs get "IT". The rest, is like pulling teeth from a snapping turtle.

~GM
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I am an aqua and i am currently dating a gem dude,and yeah,i sensed that he also thinks that i am too aloof or cold.Felt this for a few weeks and thought i'd do something about it...
And since i like to surprise a guy ,when he asked me "what did you do today?" i said "hm...well,missing you" and then he laughed(not a too happy laugh) and said that "yeayea,sure" *note that he spoke with sarcasm*
I think this was the Pisces planets influence on me,so yea,weird moment.
Sooo,yea... never gonna say such a thing cause it seems that he got this imprinted in his head that i am cold and that's it.
So,i don't know what to say if aqua or libra for a gem.I personally got this libra friend and even if it says that we should be best friends or a great match,i totally dislike him sometimes.It's true,waaaaaayyyyy too clingy,or when he gets upset about something he doesn't talk to me for a while but doesn't even have the guts to tell me straight in the face what was his problem. I mean,what in hell?To keep a good friendship i gotta know what he hates about what i do so we can have a healthy friendship.
Anyways,no offense to Libra's,i love you guys but i don't think they are really my type,dunno if they are for you gems . smile
Peace
xox
(lol)
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I think you should really put your money on Aquarius.
Libras are the odd ones out, not Gems..
Aquarius and Gemini are both connected by the mental element.. whereas Libra doesn't want to be arsed to think so much.. they get depression or are drained when they think more than they should.
Take it please, from a very happy Gemini
You know this girl?
Klum
the latest news is that she thinks she's absolutely lucky to have this guy

Seal
I mean this one

Yeah, and guess what? He's an Aquarian.
It's pretty much the closest match for a Gemini girl
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I have never been with an Aquarius but I met a Libra man 20 years ago and the chemistry was amazing. So much so that we both have been thinking of each other and missing each other for 20 years. So no offense to any Aquarius but I say Libra!
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im an aquarius dating a gemini male....physically, mentally so connected and wow. My guy friends who are mostly gemini dated a lot of libras and aquarius girls. They lasted longer with aquarius than libras. Most of the problems gemini men had was that despite being similar, they couldnt keep up. They became predictable.
Im aquarius and they say im the best with libras. BUT I HATE LIBRA MEN they are so easy to read, so pushy, better as friends.
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Well i have had the best experiences with Aquariuses since they've been most friendly with me a gemy, but i have had good experiences with libras to, oh and im glad that candi3bb thinks that of libra men because they seem to be getting to much credit with the ladies just saying, gem men are way cooler and more intelligent then libras who seem like manipulators to me.
cheers^^
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is that a good hhhmmmmm... or a bad hhhmmmmm...??? dont mean to offend..
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From my experience: Aquarius seems to accept my weirdness and are more open to things, and not clingy. They like to have fun. Libra seems to be annoyed at the weirdness, can hold a conversation, try to be fair, are clingy sometimes. I personally would go for the Aquarius because the Aquarius seems to be more accepting of the weird personality I have and can be more open to try things with me. smile
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yes! dude libra men are not charming period theyre just fuckin weak men. Co dependent sign. Chicken shits to voice their own opinion. the men simply force women to get what htey want then apologize and act sweet. SO predcitable. most libra men tend to come across sorta feminine. the last one i dated seemd to be gay. my friends asked me "are you he isnt gay?" lol libras are simply...annoying. all they do is try to say the opposite view of what your stating. JUST TO BALANCE. "agree to disagree" i hate that why bring it up and converse deep topics if your not gonna dive all the way into em???? Libra men suffocate me. so needy...clingy..and when you dont give em the attention they want they move on. WEAK MEN in that sign.
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i love gemini men. THey OhhhhhOOOoh! BABY1 they keep me on my toes we can talk about any topic. He brings it up i complete it with depth. Have fun. Our moodiness and fickleness seems to not bother each other as much as other signs. When he is not a "chattering monkey" sorta cold..(evil twin) i dont really get affected by it because im feeling the same..drained, aloof. then when im talkative,,,loving self the gemini is too. Some gemini men are just weird...(which is awesome fuck normal) Especially being both social signs, at parties i dont have to babysit him. I rarely get jealous at his flirtiness to other women vice versa. Sex IS FUCKING AMAZING we just mesh very well. like peanut butter and jelly, dirty rough, passionate, then soft and romantic. MENTALLY just there with each other.
one gemini guy pursuing me would send me random weird texts. "are u a dragon?" "what is your color?" "the kids at the zoo are easy to do telekenisi on" just different from each gemini to the next. But love it!
The one im talking to and very interested in are...great...but both feel unstable with each other...so fickle .one minute i'll be moody..the next he'll be moody. but always at the same time. When i want my space he wants his. When i want to see him. he wants to see me. SO it just seems like it naturally flows. Good timing sorta.
the only thing i feel with gemini men and my relations to them is that i feel suffocated mentally . i feel i ahve to "suprise and awe" and "constantly be unpreditable" tha ti cannot just breathe and relax.
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from what ive seen ive seen alot of aquarius and gemini matches.
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Experienced with Aqua and will never forget. There was a time when both of our friends started complaining that we dont spend time with them anymore once we were together may be that will be right as u know we rarely got time to leave the bed. Conversation flows from making puff pastry to biotechnology, surrogacy to hanging politicians upside down on their balls. Mind and body stimulation non stop, perfect soul match. Distance kept us apart now but the connection we had still never faded. Libras good for mind stimulation but they are really annoying, full of themselves, their shoes, their looks and their clothes. Too much work for me. So thumbs up for Aqua.
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My ex boyfriend was an Aquarius, i have never dated a Libra. My ex appreciated me because I was not clingy, and I was eccentric, and we connected on an intellectual level. However, because we are both aloof which sometimes made it a problem. He was not emotional and because I am a mutable sign I sometimes wanted to talk about feelings. He was very secretive and as a gemini I must know EVERYTHING about you, he hated when I snooped or played investigator. Both gemini's and Aquarius like to analyze, He felt it was alright to analyze me but he did not want me to analyze him. Aquarius men are Veeeeeeeery selfish, which bothered me because I am very generous. Our relationship lasted 8.5 years, when it was good it good and when it was bad he ignored me. But we are friends now and he gives me encouraging, and still like to psycho-analyze me. The inly Libra's I have in my life are my uncle and two female friends. My uncle is a Ladies man, and my two libra friends are flakey.
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Posted by GeminiDahl
I have never been with an Aquarius but I met a Libra man 20 years ago and the chemistry was amazing. So much so that we both have been thinking of each other and missing each other for 20 years. So no offense to any Aquarius but I say Libra!


I have the same story with a Libra! Married an Aqua; we're divorced now. He was ok but focused wayyyy too much time on friends and things outside of the marriage. That would be ok sometimes but he tried to make a career out of it. We should have remained friends vice the marriage thing. LOL!
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Yes I do have to say that my Libra friend can get clingy--but only when he thinks my attention is elsewhere. If he thinks some other guy has my attention he will go through hell and high water to get my attention. But I call him on his bullshit and then we're back on friendly terms again. He's my best friend. I love that we can talk about anything in the world and he "gets" my craziness. I talk quite a bit with those I'm comfortable with and he doesn't chide me about it. We can be talking and one of us will stop midstream about a topic and switch to something else and we flow! It's no big deal. Now my ex Virgo? That bothered the shit out of him! He liked to say I was scattered. Libra just "gets" me like no other man could. He also admires my mind and often calls me brilliant; he doesn't mind when I use so-called "big" words--he loves it! Hate to keep bringing Virgo up but I've dated quite a few last year and beginning of this year but they would say I was showing off with my vocabulary. They said I thought I was smarter than everyone! Libra male "gets" it once again!
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No. None of the air signs are like Cancers. I am an Aquarius and I know a Libra. They're Libra, not Cancer. Good thing. Aquarius and Libra get along great. I don't like most Geminis. They're easily hurt and just emotional.
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I have a lot of Gem friends and noted that both Aquarians and Librans get them and they connect mentally to each other.
One of my friend who is a Gem is dating a Libran and they are the coolest pair. But, hey, I am close to both of them too, of course in friendship. Together, when we hang out, we have an AWESOME time. Mentally stimulating conversations and QUALITY time. smile
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Posted by geminidude
Experienced with Aqua and will never forget. There was a time when both of our friends started complaining that we dont spend time with them anymore once we were together may be that will be right as u know we rarely got time to leave the bed. Conversation flows from making puff pastry to biotechnology, surrogacy to hanging politicians upside down on their balls. Mind and body stimulation non stop, perfect soul match. Distance kept us apart now but the connection we had still never faded. Libras good for mind stimulation but they are really annoying, full of themselves, their shoes, their looks and their clothes. Too much work for me. So thumbs up for Aqua.


I agree with you a complete 100 % !!
If not for the Gems in my life, I would have never appreciated the true values of life. I think that's enough to say what influence they have had on me.
My closest friend and my GF are Gems. They truly are GEMS!! smile
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Posted by AquariusaTheEleventhHouse
No. None of the air signs are like Cancers. I am an Aquarius and I know a Libra. They're Libra, not Cancer. Good thing. Aquarius and Libra get along great. I don't like most Geminis. They're easily hurt and just emotional.


Gemini being emotional? :O
Am yet to come across one who is that way.
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My ex-bff of 26yrs is an Aqua Cancer Moon, I'm a Gem, Scorpio Moon, my ex is a Libra/Scorpio moon. My ex-bff had the best conversations, fun, 3 fights ever in 26yrs. I miss her but I can't have her in my life.
I see my ex Libra all the time, I miss the good times between us but he didn't stimulate my mind. It's strange b/c most of the Libra's I have known are pretty chatty, he isn't. In fact his energy was quite indifferent.. So I don't really know how to answer this. lol
I dated one Aqua man and he just wasn't for me, he lacked romance period. There was a deep comfort with each other, though.
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lol @ seal post
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I have found that Aquarius is a much better sign for Gemini than Libra. I am a Gemini male who has dated all signs of the zodiac and have come to realize that Aquarius is the best match for Gemini.

Although Libra woman are generally very attractive to Gemini men, they are more likely to be stimulated by things like money, fast cars and size than the intellect of a Gemini man. So they are best left off for Aries, Leo and Sagittarius, and other adventure-loving signs. Not to imply that Gemini is not gifted in the third area, but it's imperative that his partner appreciate him for his high IQ first.

No one can do this better than an Aquarius because both signs operate in similar intellectual realms. That is the magic of the combination. Unless an Aquarius female has been infected by the feminist virus, and this is a sign with many feminists, she will be a Gemini man's best match. So put Libra in the friend zone and choose Aquarius all the way.
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Libra.

Some will say Libra is indecisive where as a matter of fact you can tell when they are interested and like you (at least in my experience). In my experience it was actually the Aquarius who would never let on she liked me...until years later after I moved all the way across the country.
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Another Gemini.


Tongue


Or an Aquarius.

Moons depending, of course.



This thread is ancient. o.O
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