are all geminis so mean!?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by libra chick on Tuesday, June 6, 2006 and has 16 replies.

Signed Up: Jun 06, 2006
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i met this gemini guy a few years ago and we totally clicked. we always have loads to talk about and its fun convos. he ended up having a thing for me and i didnt feel the same way towards him. we didnt talk for a few months and when he got over it, he came back and everything was all peachy. recently we had an arguement and the things that he had to say about me and to me were pretty harsh and i dont understand how such a seemingly chill and nice guy could be so mean. its like he purposefully saved all the evil thoughts of me and blasted me when i stated that he was in the wrong. i was upset by his actions in the situation and still am upset. i feel that i was just in telling him that his actions were not decent and let him know that he shouldnt act that way because it is not right. do all gemini's think they are right all the time? because news flash- you are not. you should have some humility and accept when you are wrong.

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bc we like making people upset =D

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we didnt talk for a few months and when he got over it, he came back and everything was all peachy

did you care that his feelings were hurt or show any concern? why should he care if he hurt yours..

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and once again, i find it pretty stupid how you say "WHY ARE GEMINI'S so mean, according to one experience, with only ONE of them. Thank you

Signed Up: Jun 05, 2006
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no. we're just honest

Signed Up: Jun 06, 2006
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i did not come onto the gemini board to talk shit or say bad things. i simply am telling you what happened so that i may get some input into the way that the gemini mind works and why he acted the way that he did. i did not in anyway say that all gemini's are the same- and all libras dont act like me. thank god cuz the world would be a mess- im asking for your advice on how to deal with it. why is it that some of you got so defensive?? of course i cared and showed concern for when he left. he chose not to speak to me until he got over it. was i happy with his decision? no i wasnt but what could i do if he didnt want to speak to me.

Signed Up: Jun 05, 2006
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hey libra, gemini's are not mean people at all, they r very care free & outgoing....thats the picture they wanna potray for d world in general but when u crack into their carefree(i dont give a s**t...."not humble") attitude & their emotional defenses(like they start caring about u) is where the problem arise.U c they hate being emotionally bowled over....because they are thinkers & not feelers...emotions bog them down(very heavy for them to understand).i.e when they start behaving in a wierder manner ... which can may seem mean or not normal to people(especially 2 people they care about).So i will suggest to just go along with the flow, let him sort out his feeling for u,have patience(even if he shows u his devil twin ..... just to c how u would react to it),most importanlty show ur trust & loyalty bcoz geminis will move heaven & go to the depths of hell for their loves ones...& talking about being right....They r a very analytical lot & can inspect both the side of the argument...which mostly gives them the ability to know what is suitable & what is right(atleast at a given point of time), which gives them the confident feeling that they r always right & humility (What is that? DUH???? )

Signed Up: Apr 12, 2005
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You have a bit of a pretentious attitude or is at least typed that way that is coming off on this thread libra chick

Need more explaining before analysing it can happen,not one for gossip and the OMG's of the situations like libras are...
There is some geminis who are straight out mean just to be mean but again needs more info cause it doesn't sound like you were too innocent in it.Maybe like a you should eat your own words about being wrong and is like you expect that noone should ever be mad at you or the like is what its coming off to me as:?I know some very dimwitted libras also who are so self centered they don't ever think they could be seen in a bad light by someone.So needs more detail!!!

Signed Up: May 11, 2006
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libra chick, i think even libra people are also defensive. What if I say that I have a debate with my Libra boyfriend last night and pointed out to him that all his arguments are contradictive and he stubbornly saying that mine is the one contradictive. When I asked him, show me which part is contradictive he couldn't point out but he keeps insisting that mine is. Isn't he being defensive with no reason to back up his defensiveness? At the end I just sighed and said, "Honey, nevermind .. I think I'm talking to a wall"
Some people can accept to be criticized and some cannot. My dad is the worst at taking criticism and he's an Aquarian. My brother is a Gemini and if you criticize him, he will go sulking in the corner of the room. My Cancer friend hasn't talked to me since the day she's upset with me which is years ago. When I said hi a couple of times to her and all I get is being ignored by her... then I'm sorry, I also have my pride so I move on. Heck even I sometimes cannot accept criticism lol
You cannot change people, all you can do is accept their weaknesses. Knowing him being defensive and sharp tounge, can you still accept him as your friend? If you cannot, then move on.

Signed Up: Dec 03, 2005
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Librachick, i'm just going by your short story you told, i could be wrong but once again i'm only going by what i see, and from what you said you don't seem like truely cared evan if just as a friend, and now your only upset bc of your selfish reasons.

"do all gemini's think they are right all the time? because news flash- you are not"
neither are you doll, this is why were human

Signed Up: Dec 03, 2005
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& if it was to be a sign that would usually be accurate, deffinitly not libras

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EGEM* LOLOL your halarious! but we are the butterflies the mean one's grrrrr

@lizard_scorpio

Signed Up: Jul 07, 2005
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wow juicy, let the mean twin out to play today!?!?!?!?

what you've been up to?

hi tia, haven't seen you for a while...

all good?

libra_chick, everyone can be mean at some point. i don't think this kind of general description can be sign specific. but if you consider gemini as the twins, different personalities in one person, then expect the unexpected... that's the fun of it

Signed Up: Jun 06, 2006
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thanks for all the info... we ended up talking about it so everything is all good. he saw my point and i saw his.. we decided that for next time we should just talk about it more so that we see eye to eye and not end up arguing.

Signed Up: Apr 04, 2005
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HA HA HA HA HA evviillll gems,i 'll put a hex on u only if u put sex on me,geminis,lol. Yes they get mean that's their nature but i even as a cancer laugh at the meaness,lol. I can't help it but i do listen to what they have to say. Just go beyond the "how"it was said and pick out what was said and showing lil or no emotion does help at times.

Signed Up: May 15, 2006
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Most of my friends are gems they are all nice.

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