Are Gems clingy?!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by scorpio1108 on Tuesday, August 21, 2018 and has 49 replies.
I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...

Some sources say they are super clingy, need constant attention, and don't like being alone. Other things say they need a ton of space and don't like clingy people. What's a person supposed to believe haha?!
Posted by halalbae

What sign is their Venus in?
Was more just a general question I guess. Guy I'm dating is a gem with gem in Venus ... True Gemini that one. Haha always scratching my head at his mood swings 😂😂 I have so many gems in my life and I don't find any of them are clingy.
Yes they are clingy little squirrels esp when they are physically with you.
Posted by LadyNeptune

Yes they are clingy little squirrels esp when they are physically with you.
Hahaha that I have noticed. Very affectionate for sure.
I'm a Gem with Venus and Mars in Cancer and I'm both ends of the spectrum. I can be clingy but then I can also want a TON of space and not want to talk or see you. I'm more so physically clingy than anything (but I think that's the cancer side). I love to snuggle with you and touch you, hold your hang, hug you, slap your butt - anything physical I want it. I want to be CLOSE to you. I can also be clingy in the sense that I want to be in communication with you all the time in different ways and across different platforms.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3

@gemitati
Tell me you love me and find out...

I will eat your pop corn before it popped and lay on top of you neverminding that you saying I am smothering fuck outnof you...asking do you mean that or you just saying it to annoy me...and whatever your answer will be - I would know you just kidding...unless I have to call 911...because you seems like...not breathing... or shit...lmao

They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
I am not clingy! I just want what I want and I get it or...you’ll be sorry!

Is it too much to ask? Just give me what I want!!! Your heart. Your soul. What’s the problem? You have it. I want it. Fork it over...lmao
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I am not clingy! I just want what I want and I get it or...you’ll be sorry!

Is it too much to ask? Just give me what I want!!! Your heart. Your soul. What’s the problem? You have it. I want it. Fork it over...lmao
For how long though 🤔🤔
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
This makes so much sense. It's figuring out the dynamics of the individuals needs that is the hardest haha beautifully written 👌
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
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That hurts!? Lol why
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
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Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
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Do you not want to be understood? I know any gems I ask about trying to understand them, they say I never will... cause they don't even understand themselves.
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
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Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
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I am not clingy! I just want what I want and I get it or...you’ll be sorry!

Is it too much to ask? Just give me what I want!!! Your heart. Your soul. What’s the problem? You have it. I want it. Fork it over...lmao
For how long though 🤔🤔
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Years. Until you can’t take it anymore. It’s been just 9 for me...

Don’t even try! I am hot giving up.

Though I’ve tried. Noops! God made one and I want THAT ONE!

Or I’ll die without...

Mind you. He never hurt me. If he did - he would be a history. Gemini thing. So far...so bad but soooo good! Lol
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Do you not want to be understood? I know any gems I ask about trying to understand them, they say I never will... cause they don't even understand themselves.
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As a general rule of thumb, gems doing normally know what they want no. Hence all the back and forth...
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
You didn't know my sign?!

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Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
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You seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?
The guys I know are nuts in relationships maybe because of their dual personality but clingy is a word I will give. But I have seen many other signs that far more clingy. I get around.
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
You didn't know my sign?!

Sad

Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
You seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?
Well you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/

Lol

Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.
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Ohh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the best
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
You didn't know my sign?!

Sad

Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
You seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?
Shall i guess your sign?
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This should be fun, yea go for it lol
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
You didn't know my sign?!

Sad

Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
You seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?
Well you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/

Lol

Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.
Ohh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the best
You are right tho... Are you a Capricorn?
You think I’m a Capricorn?! Ugh...they seem so boring and cold. I don’t want to say anything else that might tip you one way or the other but no I’m not a cap (no offense to you, a cap, if you’re reading this)
Pisces?
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Not a Pisces, that might be a first hah
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They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.

Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Aww that hurts.
That hurts!? Lol why
It hurts someone tried to understand us.

Have you dated many Geminis?
Only 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty well


Lol


But you dont know me. So that's there...
Didn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet you
You didn't know my sign?!

Sad

Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
You seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?
Well you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/

Lol

Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.
Ohh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the best
You are right tho... Are you a Capricorn?
You think I’m a Capricorn?! Ugh...they seem so boring and cold. I don’t want to say anything else that might tip you one way or the other but no I’m not a cap (no offense to you, a cap, if you’re reading this)
Awww

Please be an Aries?
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Hey! That’s the one I get probably more than any other sigh. But no not an Aries sorry 😐
Posted by scorpio1108

I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...




exactly, because geminis are dual by nature, stop searching for one definite description of them.
Yes I think they are. But they need space too
I'm a Libra and my Gemini husband is very clingly. He can be snoring and if I get out of bed to use the bathroom he wakes up and runs to find me. It's maddening but also sweet. He wants us to do everything together. My mom was a Gemini and she was the same way. My guy has Gemini rising, sun, moon, mercury and venus.
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol

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if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol

The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.

We both like our space but he get's a bit squirrely when I miss his phone calls or something hahaha asks why I'm dodging him. Kind of hypocritical in that sense cause he picks and chooses when he wants to reply to me.
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if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol



The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.

We both like our space but he get's a bit squirrely when I miss his phone calls or something hahaha asks why I'm dodging him. Kind of hypocritical in that sense cause he picks and chooses when he wants to reply to me.
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lol he sounds like a really good match for you. :p

Good luck! you may have some fire/air in you that "gets" him.
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if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol



The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.

We both like our space but he get's a bit squirrely when I miss his phone calls or something hahaha asks why I'm dodging him. Kind of hypocritical in that sense cause he picks and chooses when he wants to reply to me.
lol he sounds like a really good match for you. :p

Good luck! you may have some fire/air in you that "gets" him.
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My venus and mars are both in libra haha I think that's probably it. We shall see I guess.
Posted by scorpio1108

I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...

Some sources say they are super clingy, need constant attention, and don't like being alone. Other things say they need a ton of space and don't like clingy people. What's a person supposed to believe haha?!
its true we like having closeness in our relationships but still want to do what we want to do. Usually its within reason but there are those who take advantage. You just gotta be super good at communicating with them that's where the closeness is. We don't like clingy we like someone who wants to be around us but can be doing their own thing around us.
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if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol




Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?
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Posted by lisabethur8

if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol




Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?
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ohhhh my gawwwwd...

like who you hang out with, as an example.


I"ll give you a short version..


you're in high school and you are chosen as a lead cheerleader.

and you know your girlfriend who is a scorpio or scorpio domiannt.. is your best friend

she hates these other girls,but you as a head cheerleader has to choose the best for the group.

like talent and so on so on..

so she understands that...she is NOT that cray...

well lol

but when you go out, to a mall or shopping you do NOT invite them around for drinks ...not around your best friend who hates them...

you can have the girls she hates around for business and because it is necessary for that team ...

but if she hates them ..do not bring them around or invite.

... basically you just "know" not to piss your girlfriend off. Because she is your best friend/buddy for a reason, and you should know NOT to cross that line.

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cause you know sometimes, these "girls" wanna cozy up with the head cheerleader and hang out with her too. ;p

hard to explain LOL

i never had to have that problem though.

(i had a scorpio best friend in high school and we both never had that problem...we liked and hated the same things LOL)
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Posted by lisabethur8

if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol




Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?


ohhhh my gawwwwd...

like who you hang out with, as an example.


I"ll give you a short version..


you're in high school and you are chosen as a lead cheerleader.

and you know your girlfriend who is a scorpio or scorpio domiannt.. is your best friend

she hates these other girls,but you as a head cheerleader has to choose the best for the group.

like talent and so on so on..

so she understands that...she is NOT that cray...

well lol

but when you go out, to a mall or shopping you do NOT invite them around for drinks ...not around your best friend who hates them...

you can have the girls she hates around for business and because it is necessary for that team ...

but if she hates them ..do not bring them around or invite.

... basically you just "know" not to piss your girlfriend off. Because she is your best friend/buddy for a reason, and you should know NOT to cross that line.

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Thank you for answering, you’re so cute. I meant with a guy, like matters of the heart stuff. Like say a Gem Sun with Taurus Venus?
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Posted by lisabethur8

if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol




Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?


ohhhh my gawwwwd...

like who you hang out with, as an example.


I"ll give you a short version..


you're in high school and you are chosen as a lead cheerleader.

and you know your girlfriend who is a scorpio or scorpio domiannt.. is your best friend

she hates these other girls,but you as a head cheerleader has to choose the best for the group.

like talent and so on so on..

so she understands that...she is NOT that cray...

well lol

but when you go out, to a mall or shopping you do NOT invite them around for drinks ...not around your best friend who hates them...

you can have the girls she hates around for business and because it is necessary for that team ...

but if she hates them ..do not bring them around or invite.

... basically you just "know" not to piss your girlfriend off. Because she is your best friend/buddy for a reason, and you should know NOT to cross that line.

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Thank you for answering, you’re so cute. I meant with a guy, like matters of the heart stuff. Like say a Gem Sun with Taurus Venus?
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matters of the heart? I have no clue.

i couldnt tell if it's their scorpio that's talking. they have that similar tau/scorpio possessiveness feeling.

i feel that Taurus is more "outward" jealousy

Scorpio is more "inward" jealousy but that outward jealousy could be his 'gemini' too? because air is out there, like fire.


i honestly have no clue. But Venus is about possession of beautiful things/people. (possession of value) its 2nd house dignified of beauty.
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I'm a Libra and my Gemini husband is very clingly. He can be snoring and if I get out of bed to use the bathroom he wakes up and runs to find me. It's maddening but also sweet. He wants us to do everything together. My mom was a Gemini and she was the same way. My guy has Gemini rising, sun, moon, mercury and venus.
It’s sooo cute!!! ❤️
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Posted by lisabethur8

if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"

if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.

but they still NEED space. lol

This is true. To be honest Im always very closed off at first when Im interested in someone. I dont share certain parts of my life with people unless I am 1000% sure they actually care about me. My possessiveness shows in funny ways tho because at the end of the day Im still a Gemini lol

Something like this and making sure everyone and their mother knows hes my boyfriend

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yes. i know what u mean. ;p
I don't care for clinginess from my mate, but I do find myself getting clingy when i start to like someone, but most people would find what I consider me getting clingy as anyone else acting normal when they like someone.
Im a gemini. The scorpio attraction is like bees to honey. We love attention. Always make sure with a gemini you can verbally express how you feel about us. We are very romantic and love to seduce. We love intensity and going deep (so to speak) Scorpio is perfect for us. We are loyal and commited, we get a bad wrap. Remember to seduce us mentally, we love that and we crave security. We love to be adored and if we are treated well we will return that tenfold
ps just dont try to control, we hate that
pps we hate any mind games and love a pure heart
Also clingy is different to needy. Just be your confident self but we love to know we are loved and wanted.
Ffs Kaydawg! I couldn't put any of that into action..this is strictly for Scorpio! It's hard to express yourself with that depth towards a man who seems like he couldn't care less but says he's interested! How can anyone put themselves on the line like that?!

I would like to give gems some advice (in respect if Libras)..if you're interested, then consistency is the key. It's fine to be cool and independent, but there's a fine line between that and being an arsehole smile
Posted by scorpio1108

I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...

Some sources say they are super clingy, need constant attention, and don't like being alone. Other things say they need a ton of space and don't like clingy people. What's a person supposed to believe haha?!
They're both true. We get attached to people that are fun and makes us feel good and then we fall back to give space for the same reason. It could be too much because we are intense.
Posted by Gemi13

I'm a Gem with Venus and Mars in Cancer and I'm both ends of the spectrum. I can be clingy but then I can also want a TON of space and not want to talk or see you. I'm more so physically clingy than anything (but I think that's the cancer side). I love to snuggle with you and touch you, hold your hang, hug you, slap your butt - anything physical I want it. I want to be CLOSE to you. I can also be clingy in the sense that I want to be in communication with you all the time in different ways and across different platforms.
I'm venus gem and cancer mars and I'm the same. I go between extremes of wanting to be alone then needing constant reassurance
that awkward moment when you're about to comment and realize the threat is from 3 month ago....

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Posted by Kaydawg

Im a gemini. The scorpio attraction is like bees to honey. We love attention. Always make sure with a gemini you can verbally express how you feel about us. We are very romantic and love to seduce. We love intensity and going deep (so to speak) Scorpio is perfect for us. We are loyal and commited, we get a bad wrap. Remember to seduce us mentally, we love that and we crave security. We love to be adored and if we are treated well we will return that tenfold
Nobody said it better! ❤️
Posted by Gem0620

I don't care for clinginess from my mate, but I do find myself getting clingy when i start to like someone, but most people would find what I consider me getting clingy as anyone else acting normal when they like someone.
Yesss! When we like someone! Try us when we don’t! 👿

not really.. my venus is in gemini and I need freedom and space but also to feel secure and cared for. so they need to know you care, and they'll come at you and be flirty and cute and then back off and need space and back again etc. They're really two sides of a coin, in that they bounce between freedom and cutesy caring stuff etc. They dont want to feel suffocated but want to feel loved.

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