Posted by halalbaeWas more just a general question I guess. Guy I'm dating is a gem with gem in Venus ... True Gemini that one. Haha always scratching my head at his mood swings 😂😂 I have so many gems in my life and I don't find any of them are clingy.
What sign is their Venus in?
Posted by LadyNeptuneHahaha that I have noticed. Very affectionate for sure.
Yes they are clingy little squirrels esp when they are physically with you.
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio3Tell me you love me and find out...
@gemitati
Posted by GemitatiFor how long though 🤔🤔
I am not clingy! I just want what I want and I get it or...you’ll be sorry!
Is it too much to ask? Just give me what I want!!! Your heart. Your soul. What’s the problem? You have it. I want it. Fork it over...lmao
Posted by six4sixThis makes so much sense. It's figuring out the dynamics of the individuals needs that is the hardest haha beautifully written 👌
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowDo you not want to be understood? I know any gems I ask about trying to understand them, they say I never will... cause they don't even understand themselves.Posted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...click to expand
Posted by scorpio1108Years. Until you can’t take it anymore. It’s been just 9 for me...Posted by GemitatiFor how long though 🤔🤔
I am not clingy! I just want what I want and I get it or...you’ll be sorry!
Is it too much to ask? Just give me what I want!!! Your heart. Your soul. What’s the problem? You have it. I want it. Fork it over...lmaoclick to expand
Posted by scorpio1108As a general rule of thumb, gems doing normally know what they want no. Hence all the back and forth...Posted by BlueMarshmallowDo you not want to be understood? I know any gems I ask about trying to understand them, they say I never will... cause they don't even understand themselves.Posted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?Posted by six4sixYou didn't know my sign?!Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...![]()
Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowOhh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the bestPosted by six4sixWell you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?Posted by six4sixYou didn't know my sign?!Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...![]()
Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
Lol
Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowThis should be fun, yea go for it lolPosted by six4sixShall i guess your sign?Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?Posted by six4sixYou didn't know my sign?!Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...![]()
Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.click to expand
Posted by JanMayMarryNot a Pisces, that might be a first hahPosted by six4sixPisces?Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou think I’m a Capricorn?! Ugh...they seem so boring and cold. I don’t want to say anything else that might tip you one way or the other but no I’m not a cap (no offense to you, a cap, if you’re reading this)Posted by six4sixYou are right tho... Are you a Capricorn?Posted by BlueMarshmallowOhh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the bestPosted by six4sixWell you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?Posted by six4sixYou didn't know my sign?!Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...![]()
Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
Lol
Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.click to expand
Posted by BlueMarshmallowHey! That’s the one I get probably more than any other sigh. But no not an Aries sorry 😐Posted by six4sixAwwwPosted by BlueMarshmallowYou think I’m a Capricorn?! Ugh...they seem so boring and cold. I don’t want to say anything else that might tip you one way or the other but no I’m not a cap (no offense to you, a cap, if you’re reading this)Posted by six4sixYou are right tho... Are you a Capricorn?Posted by BlueMarshmallowOhh that. I’m terrible through text. I need to see hear feel people, that’s how I connect. Lol yea that’s probably for the bestPosted by six4sixWell you said you know Geminis but you didn't know I'm a Gemini :/Posted by BlueMarshmallowYou seem disappointed lol but I also don’t spend a whole lot of time on here so there’s that. Ever hear back from your crush boy?Posted by six4sixYou didn't know my sign?!Posted by BlueMarshmallowDidn’t know you were one until you just said so. Him I’m six4six, nice to meet youPosted by six4sixPosted by BlueMarshmallowOnly 300,000 of them. So yea I know the sign pretty wellPosted by six4sixIt hurts someone tried to understand us.Posted by BlueMarshmallowThat hurts!? Lol whyPosted by six4sixAww that hurts.
They can be. I’ve noticed a common theme with gems. There’s this subtle dance in the beginning. I guess that’s the best way to describe it. When they want to be with you they really want to be with you, and then they want their space. And then they want to tell you everything. And then they want to do their own thing, and then they want your both your worlds to come together but still have them separate.
Their freedom is important to them. If they know you’re not going to infringe on that, they become very physical and affectionate and loving. Also, lots of communication and fun banter, nonstop texting, phone calls, FaceTiming, all of it. An overall misunderstood underrated lovely sign.
Have you dated many Geminis?
Lol
But you dont know me. So that's there...![]()
Nice to meet you too! People here call me Instant.
Lol
Crush? That was a joke. I don't date guys who can't ask me out.
Please be an Aries?click to expand
Posted by scorpio1108
I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...
Posted by lisabethur8The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Posted by scorpio1108lol he sounds like a really good match for you. :pPosted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.
We both like our space but he get's a bit squirrely when I miss his phone calls or something hahaha asks why I'm dodging him. Kind of hypocritical in that sense cause he picks and chooses when he wants to reply to me.click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8My venus and mars are both in libra haha I think that's probably it. We shall see I guess.Posted by scorpio1108lol he sounds like a really good match for you. :pPosted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
The Gem I'm dating does have a lot of earth and a bit of water in his chart for sure. He's definitely a whole different breed than what I'm used to dealing with. I have many Gem's in my life via friends and family (my dad included) but he's the first I've actually dated... normally they drive me crazy but he seems to get me on a different level. I find it quite interesting.
We both like our space but he get's a bit squirrely when I miss his phone calls or something hahaha asks why I'm dodging him. Kind of hypocritical in that sense cause he picks and chooses when he wants to reply to me.
Good luck! you may have some fire/air in you that "gets" him.click to expand
Posted by scorpio1108its true we like having closeness in our relationships but still want to do what we want to do. Usually its within reason but there are those who take advantage. You just gotta be super good at communicating with them that's where the closeness is. We don't like clingy we like someone who wants to be around us but can be doing their own thing around us.
I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...
Some sources say they are super clingy, need constant attention, and don't like being alone. Other things say they need a ton of space and don't like clingy people. What's a person supposed to believe haha?!
Posted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?click to expand
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?
ohhhh my gawwwwd...
like who you hang out with, as an example.
I"ll give you a short version..
you're in high school and you are chosen as a lead cheerleader.
and you know your girlfriend who is a scorpio or scorpio domiannt.. is your best friend
she hates these other girls,but you as a head cheerleader has to choose the best for the group.
like talent and so on so on..
so she understands that...she is NOT that cray...
well lol
but when you go out, to a mall or shopping you do NOT invite them around for drinks ...not around your best friend who hates them...
you can have the girls she hates around for business and because it is necessary for that team ...
but if she hates them ..do not bring them around or invite.
... basically you just "know" not to piss your girlfriend off. Because she is your best friend/buddy for a reason, and you should know NOT to cross that line.
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Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by lisabethur8Posted by NostalgicCappyyPosted by lisabethur8
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Hi Lisa, how do they test your Loyalty?
ohhhh my gawwwwd...
like who you hang out with, as an example.
I"ll give you a short version..
you're in high school and you are chosen as a lead cheerleader.
and you know your girlfriend who is a scorpio or scorpio domiannt.. is your best friend
she hates these other girls,but you as a head cheerleader has to choose the best for the group.
like talent and so on so on..
so she understands that...she is NOT that cray...
well lol
but when you go out, to a mall or shopping you do NOT invite them around for drinks ...not around your best friend who hates them...
you can have the girls she hates around for business and because it is necessary for that team ...
but if she hates them ..do not bring them around or invite.
... basically you just "know" not to piss your girlfriend off. Because she is your best friend/buddy for a reason, and you should know NOT to cross that line.![]()
Thank you for answering, you’re so cute. I meant with a guy, like matters of the heart stuff. Like say a Gem Sun with Taurus Venus?click to expand
Posted by DonnaLibraIt’s sooo cute!!! ❤️
I'm a Libra and my Gemini husband is very clingly. He can be snoring and if I get out of bed to use the bathroom he wakes up and runs to find me. It's maddening but also sweet. He wants us to do everything together. My mom was a Gemini and she was the same way. My guy has Gemini rising, sun, moon, mercury and venus.
Posted by halalbaeterritorialPosted by lisabethur8This is true. To be honest Im always very closed off at first when Im interested in someone. I dont share certain parts of my life with people unless I am 1000% sure they actually care about me. My possessiveness shows in funny ways tho because at the end of the day Im still a Gemini lol
if they have Taurus, Scorpio and just overall earth/water, they are posessive jealous....and they test your "loyalty"
if you love them, romantically, you will LOVE that about them, (if you like those characteristics) but if you dont, and only like them as a friend, colleague, whatever, from a distance. it is ridiculous LOL and just overall frustrating.
but they still NEED space. lol
Something like this and making sure everyone and their mother knows hes my boyfriend
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Posted by scorpio1108They're both true. We get attached to people that are fun and makes us feel good and then we fall back to give space for the same reason. It could be too much because we are intense.
I've read so many conflicting things lately about Geminis...
Some sources say they are super clingy, need constant attention, and don't like being alone. Other things say they need a ton of space and don't like clingy people. What's a person supposed to believe haha?!
Posted by Gemi13I'm venus gem and cancer mars and I'm the same. I go between extremes of wanting to be alone then needing constant reassurance
I'm a Gem with Venus and Mars in Cancer and I'm both ends of the spectrum. I can be clingy but then I can also want a TON of space and not want to talk or see you. I'm more so physically clingy than anything (but I think that's the cancer side). I love to snuggle with you and touch you, hold your hang, hug you, slap your butt - anything physical I want it. I want to be CLOSE to you. I can also be clingy in the sense that I want to be in communication with you all the time in different ways and across different platforms.
Posted by KaydawgNobody said it better! ❤️
Im a gemini. The scorpio attraction is like bees to honey. We love attention. Always make sure with a gemini you can verbally express how you feel about us. We are very romantic and love to seduce. We love intensity and going deep (so to speak) Scorpio is perfect for us. We are loyal and commited, we get a bad wrap. Remember to seduce us mentally, we love that and we crave security. We love to be adored and if we are treated well we will return that tenfold
Posted by Gem0620Yesss! When we like someone! Try us when we don’t! 👿
I don't care for clinginess from my mate, but I do find myself getting clingy when i start to like someone, but most people would find what I consider me getting clingy as anyone else acting normal when they like someone.
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