"So because I didnt wanna have sex with him" he didnt say he wanted to have sex with me I just thought he wanted to since.he asked me.over sooo late
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May 06, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 463 · Topics: 14
gems can be shy, especially sometimes if they like ya. he sounds pretty interested. if you're trying to figure out what he's looking for, ask him. he sounds young or a bit sloppy. i know it takes me awhile to get back to texts sometimes cuz i'm not always 'on', y'know? i gotta gather myself together before i create a worthwhile response. i dated one gem dude once & he was awful with his phone correspondence. i wouldn't take it too personally just yet.
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Nov 16, 2010Comments: 0 · Posts: 2245 · Topics: 36
It's not at all true that Gems aren't shy. We know the art of conversation, and can gab all day about nothing with people we don't even know, but when we're interested in someone it's different.
Thanks for the replys... Yeah he's 21 I guess thats not too young, well for me its not lol... I'll try to ask him what he's looking for... I just feel like he's not interested because I'm use to a guy making the first move(been in a relationship with a cancer for 4yrs) and everytime I ask him to hang out with me he says he's busy or doesn't answer to my text, but he invited me to his poerty/comedy show? Will it be too forward to just call him? I don't know this is confusing lol...
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May 06, 2010Comments: 2 · Posts: 463 · Topics: 14
i chased that gem guy down, no shame & he looovvved it. i was very clear & point blank with him. he's a feminist & he was more on the passive side, preferring to ebb & flow to a stronger woman. told me that's just his personal preference, it makes him feel secure. good thing yer an aries!