can gemini's really stay this detached?

Posted by surferpisces
My friends of benefits for the last 3 months is a gemini sun, taurus venus. we sleep over each other houses around 4 nights a week, and do social things together (like a couple) on weekends and so on.


He says he cares about me in a friend way, and vice versa. We cuddle a lot, in fact he likes it more than i do. We are quite close and he has reached a point where he will tell me quite personal things.

But at the end of the day he only labels us "friends with benefits". No feelings for him apparently at all. He says he wants to stay single.


Please no comments about me. Im curious about gemini, are you guys really able to be so close to someone yet not feel anything strongly? I know air signs do carry a flair of detachment to things, but we've been at this now for 3 months....

Posted by Blue_Froggie

Posted by Gob_Shite
When are you stupid women going to realise that a FWB arrangement doesn't guarantee that the relationship will eventually transform into an exclusive one?


So, you're developing feelings. Tough shit, if he doesn't feel the same way. You should have known what you were getting yourself into. No one forced you into it.

How to differentiate an fwb from a committed relationship?


I need to learn the rules now.... Damn I hate this dating stuff

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Posted by surferpisces
My friends of benefits for the last 3 months is a gemini sun, taurus venus. we sleep over each other houses around 4 nights a week, and do social things together (like a couple) on weekends and so on.


He says he cares about me in a friend way, and vice versa. We cuddle a lot, in fact he likes it more than i do. We are quite close and he has reached a point where he will tell me quite personal things.

But at the end of the day he only labels us "friends with benefits". No feelings for him apparently at all. He says he wants to stay single.


Please no comments about me. Im curious about gemini, are you guys really able to be so close to someone yet not feel anything strongly? I know air signs do carry a flair of detachment to things, but we've been at this now for 3 months....

Posted by surferpisces
My friends of benefits for the last 3 months is a gemini sun, taurus venus. we sleep over each other houses around 4 nights a week, and do social things together (like a couple) on weekends and so on.


He says he cares about me in a friend way, and vice versa. We cuddle a lot, in fact he likes it more than i do. We are quite close and he has reached a point where he will tell me quite personal things.

But at the end of the day he only labels us "friends with benefits". No feelings for him apparently at all. He says he wants to stay single.


Please no comments about me. Im curious about gemini, are you guys really able to be so close to someone yet not feel anything strongly? I know air signs do carry a flair of detachment to things, but we've been at this now for 3 months....

Posted by IamThis
I've been with a Gemini sun a month like this. We stay over, we spend time together, friends have labelled us as couple, but we have not discussed it yet. He seems to want to spend a lot of time with me, yet he is very distant in terms of talking about stuff, sharing his thoughts, emotions. It's weird. I was wondering how long would it take until I understand whether it's just a short casual fling or whether he is serious about me. Well, it seems that we might be in the same situation in the next month and the next etc according to your post ?

Posted by surferpisces
My friends of benefits for the last 3 months is a gemini sun, taurus venus. we sleep over each other houses around 4 nights a week, and do social things together (like a couple) on weekends and so on.


He says he cares about me in a friend way, and vice versa. We cuddle a lot, in fact he likes it more than i do. We are quite close and he has reached a point where he will tell me quite personal things.

But at the end of the day he only labels us "friends with benefits". No feelings for him apparently at all. He says he wants to stay single.


Please no comments about me. Im curious about gemini, are you guys really able to be so close to someone yet not feel anything strongly? I know air signs do carry a flair of detachment to things, but we've been at this now for 3 months....

Posted by FeelingShred
(Taurus sun with Venus/Mercury in Gemini here...) Well, women behaving all like crybabies because they happened to be born with a pussy between their legs and they feel that they can exchange its usage for stuff, when they don't get things in exchange, they get all mad... What is exactly the impact it makes in the times that you spend together if you are under Plan A or Plan B or etc? Does it change anything in the relationship between you and the desire you feel for each other being called this or that? Does it really? I thought the main thing was the fact that you spend time together with your significant other and that it is quality time, and not how you call it. I can't understand these "proceedings" to things, either you are or you're not, it's pretty black and white. If I'm spending my day with you, is because I chose to not be with someone else, so stop the bitching already. These types of things actually push men away and make us lose interest, and then starts the cheating and all the f** up stuff, women are the starters of all the (avoidable) drama.