Can I take this gem girl's word seriously

background story: There is Gem A and Gem B. B is my ex. I met both of them at the same time and chose B. Now I'm back to talking to A as friends since I'm no longer committed, nothing more. Then recently she sent these contents over text as we were talking more regularly than usual. (I'm leaving for studies) We joke around as we share the same sense of humour

Gem A has a history of being playful and I'm having second thoughts whether what she said can be taken seriously.

"sigh, can you don't go haha"

me: I'm flying xxx
A: omg what if I sob when you fly
me: Fuck I'd hug you until you stop
A: Die I better not sob then haha
...
A: I will miss you sigh. eat well and don't die.
me: lol won't die. I'm a cockroach.


me: gonna miss you when I leave
A: Ya me too. Sigh don't go haha. Anyway I'm sure you'll enjoy yourself there.
me: we'll keep in touch, I can't imagine a life without you.
A: haha ikr.
me: Yea hope you can come over soon (I've been a bit calculative in keeping my friends close to me. They're great and I'd do anything not to lose them, good or bad.)
A: Aw you'll miss me that much huh


A: hey asshole! Whats your instagram acct? I wanna stalk you lol.
* a few messages back and forth.....
A: God damn it don't go you assshole. I can't take all this weird emotions. I don't have the capacity for this man
...
A: for god sake go meet good girls there please
me: there's one right here (we compliment each other all the time)
A: true, but sometimes time can be a bitch


She's definitely got me confused. Just like to get some opinions here. She seemed direct enough for a typical gem but experience with my gem ex says that they would lie just to get out of a confrontation of any sorts.

Does gem A know about your relationship with gem B. That you chose another?

yea. A started as acquaintances with me and she always knew I was seeing B. A was also my confidante when I broke up.

Then she definitely likes you as more than a friend, but doesn't want to get hurt. She's going to change and you can see it already. She is indecisive and part of that is because you are going away. Why ever would you want to start something when you are going away?

My virgo did that too. What is the point?

FYI, that issue with gem B will come up again when she is in a negative space, however momentarily. Gone but not forgotten. That cheeriness hides a lot, so don't be fooled.

I thought so too. When she said the emotions part, I wanted to meet her, satisfy her want to see me, and me her. I wanted to just have a good time with her (not sexually) so we have something good to share before I leave. Then she blew me off. I figured she didn't want to get vulnerable seeing me.

Bingo.