OliverTwist
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Cancer female and Gemini Male
Interesting... how old is he and do u know his other placements? Also, what are yours? I'm dating a Gemini 🙂
I have experienced this with my Gem guy friend... has Sag Moon and gem Mars. He continuously would cancel plans and it was super frustrating ? Anyhow, look at the Mars cuz I noticed if it's fixed they are not as likely to go that. I'm a sag moon and gem Mars and go with the flow but I hate being disappointed over and over again with cancelled plans.
Does he have a fidget spinner?
(Moonbutter) he is 23 and will be 24 on Saturday! I'm not exactly sure of our placements! Not exactly sure how that works either. I'm sorry your Gemini canceled on you as well!
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(Moonbutter) he is 23 and will be 24 on Saturday! I'm not exactly sure of our placements! Not exactly sure how that works either. I'm sorry your Gemini canceled on you as well!
It's all good... we never dated. I just had a crush on him and we kissed a few times.
Wait, your birthday is this Saturday? Then you are a Gemini.
Posted by notsosureOh jeez wow I read that wrong ??♀️ ?
No, HIS birthday is this saturday 😉 He´s the gemini.
Yeah... Gemini don't like to feel obligated or "fenced in" so you just gotta be care free and act like a friend... no expectations until they fall for you and then you can start taking them seriously. Just treat him like a casual friend, no biggie if he cancels as long he's respectful and doesn't stand you up.
Posted by MoonbutterI'm a cancer july 8 and he is a gemini lol june 11
Wait, your birthday is this Saturday? Then you are a Gemini.
Posted by MoonbutterI guess that is what ill do then, just treat him as a friend!
Yeah... Gemini don't like to feel obligated or "fenced in" so you just gotta be care free and act like a friend... no expectations until they fall for you and then you can start taking them seriously. Just treat him like a casual friend, no biggie if he cancels as long he's respectful and doesn't stand you up.
Posted by OliverTwistYup... Gems tend to fall for their friendsPosted by MoonbutterI guess that is what ill do then, just treat him as a friend!
Yeah... Gemini don't like to feel obligated or "fenced in" so you just gotta be care free and act like a friend... no expectations until they fall for you and then you can start taking them seriously. Just treat him like a casual friend, no biggie if he cancels as long he's respectful and doesn't stand you up.click to expand
Posted by Blue_Froggie?Posted by MoonbutterPosted by OliverTwistYup... Gems tend to fall for their friendsPosted by MoonbutterI guess that is what ill do then, just treat him as a friend!
Yeah... Gemini don't like to feel obligated or "fenced in" so you just gotta be care free and act like a friend... no expectations until they fall for you and then you can start taking them seriously. Just treat him like a casual friend, no biggie if he cancels as long he's respectful and doesn't stand you up.
Gem guys?
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Posted by WhorpioLMFAOOOO
Does he have a fidget spinner?
Geminis always move fast. From my experience. It's a lesson learned. You set the tempo, not him. I hope you're ok.
I don't take Gems serious at all.
I don't take Gems serious at all.
Posted by Arielle83More along the lines they have to see you as a friend first before going beyond. A Gemini needs a friend & lover in one at the very basic level.
y do they fall for their friends?
Posted by TheTinManHow is this for combo TinMan... Gem with Cancer Venus, Pisces Moon? Good match for a Cancer?
perfect combination. but the Gemini would have to have plenty water in his chart. other than that, I don't see this thing going anywhere. just my two cents. and no I didn't read the op cuz it's too much.
Posted by TheTinManErr I have a Leo Venus... but he has. Leo Mars soo maybe that's ok then?Posted by MoonbutterI don't know nothing about moon signs I think a Gemini with a cancer Venus is a good match for a cancer Sun. and what's more if the cancer Sun also has a cancer Venus, jackpot.Posted by TheTinManHow is this for combo TinMan... Gem with Cancer Venus, Pisces Moon? Good match for a Cancer?
perfect combination. but the Gemini would have to have plenty water in his chart. other than that, I don't see this thing going anywhere. just my two cents. and no I didn't read the op cuz it's too much.
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Posted by TayshiaUmm yeah... older Gems who aren't married totally diffrrrnet. I agree with people's assessment on Gems however they are the ones that can't handle being with a Gem/ not the right fit ??♀️
I'm a cancer female and I've never dated a Gemini but I've had an experience with one older Gemini man. It was very similar to the experience you described. He was a cab driver and I just happened to cross paths with him and he gave me a ride. He was really flirty and had a good sense of humor asked me some questions. We talked and he took me out on dates for a few weeks. He took me out to dinner and breakfast and took me to the waterfront. I could tell he was starting to develop feelings for me just by the way he held and kissed me he said he was falling for me and that he hadn't felt that way towards anyone in a long time. The chemistry was off the charts even though we never got physically intimate or anything. He was very fun to be around. But then I noticed he started to disappear. Then he called and texted me and told me the painful truth. He said he just wanted sex and that he had better options and that he was embarrassed to be seen with me in public the whole time because of our age difference. After that I still hung out with him but it was hard and I eventually cut him off because I was starting to develop feelings and wanted more. And what was even more meseed up was that he was totally disrespectful towards me and would flirt with women constantly in front of me and he had an extremely unusual quick temper his personality was like Jacklle and Hyde. He would calm one minute and flip on me the next for no reason. One time he got loud and yelled at me because I bought him the wrong kind of candy? ? The point is Gemini men are not to be taken seriously. They do not like or value commitment. They give relationships a nice little light touch and then move on quickly to someone new. Their constantly looking for new eye candy. They may be mean and blunt but at least they are honest to themselves and others(unlike most aquarius men) because they actually care. However, they are man-children just like aquarius men no matter how old they get they never grow up.
Posted by TheTinManEh, I know I have a type and Gems fit perfectly🙂 they have the perfect combo of playfulness, intelligence, wit, humor and adventure that I need. Not all... but most. Anyway, my ascendent is Aries and not sure what his is.Posted by Moonbutteryou know to be honest basing astrology on relationship is deep. I think it doesn't make any sense for anybody to look into astrology before getting with anybody. I say if you both love one another just do it. but to answer your question. what's you and his sign? I don't know much about that venus+mars thing. and y'alls ascendant?Posted by TheTinManErr I have a Leo Venus... but he has. Leo Mars soo maybe that's ok then?Posted by MoonbutterI don't know nothing about moon signs I think a Gemini with a cancer Venus is a good match for a cancer Sun. and what's more if the cancer Sun also has a cancer Venus, jackpot.Posted by TheTinManHow is this for combo TinMan... Gem with Cancer Venus, Pisces Moon? Good match for a Cancer?
perfect combination. but the Gemini would have to have plenty water in his chart. other than that, I don't see this thing going anywhere. just my two cents. and no I didn't read the op cuz it's too much.
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