Capricorn and Gemini - What's the attraction?
This topic was created in the Gemini and Capricorn Compatibility forum by capris on Wednesday, February 6, 2008 and has 22 replies.
I am thinking of talking to a Gemini. I'm worried because I dated a GEM before and it didn't work out. THey say gem and caps are not a good match. is that true?
Capris- Autumn is absolutly right. It is not impossible. The man I fell completely in love with was a cap, we were together for 3 and half years. Not all of it was bad but it definitly was a rollercoaster ride of my life. I learned soo many things from him it is unbelievable. But yes in most cases caps and gems develop differently and in my case the relationship slowly faded away because we started wanting different things in life. I wanted a house and a ring and maybe a family and he wanted to turbo charge his car.
I found with us the more he was cold the more I put into it. The more love he gave me the faster I fell in love but if it lasted for too long then I would get annoyed.. I found that if he was all lovey all the time that would make me mad and I would pick fights with him. But the more silent he was the more I would pick at him to talk... Then he would. But it all came down to the wonderful nights we would go to bed and he would always wrap his arms tight around me and I would fall straight to sleep.
I still miss that. We would always go to bed together so we could just have that comfort there. Before we moved in with eachother we alwasys fell asleep on the phone with eachother. He was a very special part of my life and still is.. That is why I cant talk to him.
I also know that when he was mad at me it felt like the end of the world. I would cry myself to throw up. Yuck...
So if you to do hook up please dont do that to her...
If I didnt go up to him and give him a kiss as soon as I got into the door he would powt and be like what no kiss??
We had alot of very special moments together and without experiencing him I would have never known that I could truely give myself to someone. And I would have never felt true love either.
So if your worried about the breaking up part don't because the two of you will definitly learn alot from eachother.
And yes we love to talk. Communication and intellegence is an absolute must with us.
Dont worry about if you two will last a lifetime just enjoy the time you have with the gem.
I found with us the more he was cold the more I put into it. The more love he gave me the faster I fell in love but if it lasted for too long then I would get annoyed.. I found that if he was all lovey all the time that would make me mad and I would pick fights with him. But the more silent he was the more I would pick at him to talk... Then he would. But it all came down to the wonderful nights we would go to bed and he would always wrap his arms tight around me and I would fall straight to sleep.
I still miss that. We would always go to bed together so we could just have that comfort there. Before we moved in with eachother we alwasys fell asleep on the phone with eachother. He was a very special part of my life and still is.. That is why I cant talk to him.
I also know that when he was mad at me it felt like the end of the world. I would cry myself to throw up. Yuck...
So if you to do hook up please dont do that to her...
If I didnt go up to him and give him a kiss as soon as I got into the door he would powt and be like what no kiss??
We had alot of very special moments together and without experiencing him I would have never known that I could truely give myself to someone. And I would have never felt true love either.
So if your worried about the breaking up part don't because the two of you will definitly learn alot from eachother.
And yes we love to talk. Communication and intellegence is an absolute must with us.
Dont worry about if you two will last a lifetime just enjoy the time you have with the gem.
Oh and yes you definitly do have to show some kind of emotion with the gem otherwise it wont work at all. I used to break up with my cap because I thought he didnt care about me. Then he would cry and spill his guts so I would take him back because after that I knew I ment something to him.
With geminis or me anyways. ACTIONS speak louder then WORDS. If you tell me you love it doesnt meen anything untill you show me you love me.
Like autunm said watch the signs. Always be ahead of the game. You will do great...
Actually the cap man still to this day was the only one that I didnt get board of....
With geminis or me anyways. ACTIONS speak louder then WORDS. If you tell me you love it doesnt meen anything untill you show me you love me.
Like autunm said watch the signs. Always be ahead of the game. You will do great...
Actually the cap man still to this day was the only one that I didnt get board of....
I think this is a match often underestimated. A lot of the things I've read are like "NO WAY! Don't do it!" Roar, roar, roar. But with my Cap, although it has been the most confusing, it has been the most beneficial. I have learned so much from him and if you can teach a Gemini anything, they will cherish you for it. We love to learn new things.
The communication part is the trickiest. Sometimes I have to basically threaten my Cap in order for him to open up. That, or give him a couple drinks.
I think any combination is possible, but in the case of Cap and Gem, don't let the boredom thing get to you. Like Gemini_82grl said, my Cap was the only man that didn't bore me. I loved his routine and how his life was planned out (literally, his LIFE lol). But don't come off too strong in the beginning. The reason why I'm so wrapped around my Cap's finger is because he never gives me too much. He gives me just enough to hold on to and then he'll let me eat away at that until I start to complain and then he'll give me a little more lol.
Like right now, he's focusing on his work and I'm focusing on mine, but I can feel some complaining building up in me and once I feel compelled to reach out to him he'll say something that will have me grinning and skipping down the hall. But he never says so much that I'm like, "Ugh, overkill." Lol. Just be you basically. Gems like the whole 'I can't get through you' deal, no matter what they say. It's a challenge for us, and we love challenges. Just don't overdo it because we move on quickly too.
The communication part is the trickiest. Sometimes I have to basically threaten my Cap in order for him to open up. That, or give him a couple drinks.
I think any combination is possible, but in the case of Cap and Gem, don't let the boredom thing get to you. Like Gemini_82grl said, my Cap was the only man that didn't bore me. I loved his routine and how his life was planned out (literally, his LIFE lol). But don't come off too strong in the beginning. The reason why I'm so wrapped around my Cap's finger is because he never gives me too much. He gives me just enough to hold on to and then he'll let me eat away at that until I start to complain and then he'll give me a little more lol.
Like right now, he's focusing on his work and I'm focusing on mine, but I can feel some complaining building up in me and once I feel compelled to reach out to him he'll say something that will have me grinning and skipping down the hall. But he never says so much that I'm like, "Ugh, overkill." Lol. Just be you basically. Gems like the whole 'I can't get through you' deal, no matter what they say. It's a challenge for us, and we love challenges. Just don't overdo it because we move on quickly too.
"The communication part is the trickiest. Sometimes I have to basically threaten my Cap in order for him to open up"
Tell me about it! I used have to nag my ex cap to tell me whats bothering or to open up to me...
Tell me about it! I used have to nag my ex cap to tell me whats bothering or to open up to me...
"The communication part is the trickiest. Sometimes I have to basically threaten my Cap in order for him to open up"
Tell me about it! I used have to nag my ex cap to tell me whats bothering or to open up to me..."
At the begining I would pick at him. Then I just started waiting untill the info was said volintarily. When a cap is comfortable with you they will gab your ear off. You just have to listen to them..
I work with a cap and him I talk on the phone and stuff. But the first time we went out for lunch he told me that he needed a girl who could talk because he doesnt. WELL I proved his thery WRONG. Now we have talked on the phone for 5 hours straight No silence.. And finally it was like 4 am I told him to go to bed. So we got off Im sure we could have talked all day..
With caps you really need to open your hearts and listen.. They love to talk you just need to let them open up by themselves...
You can never force info out of a cap not even if you get them drunk or stoned...
Let him/her go to you with what they need to say. Its a way better conversation that way too.
Tell me about it! I used have to nag my ex cap to tell me whats bothering or to open up to me..."
At the begining I would pick at him. Then I just started waiting untill the info was said volintarily. When a cap is comfortable with you they will gab your ear off. You just have to listen to them..
I work with a cap and him I talk on the phone and stuff. But the first time we went out for lunch he told me that he needed a girl who could talk because he doesnt. WELL I proved his thery WRONG. Now we have talked on the phone for 5 hours straight No silence.. And finally it was like 4 am I told him to go to bed. So we got off Im sure we could have talked all day..
With caps you really need to open your hearts and listen.. They love to talk you just need to let them open up by themselves...
You can never force info out of a cap not even if you get them drunk or stoned...
Let him/her go to you with what they need to say. Its a way better conversation that way too.
Capris its a wonderful match it just didnt work for me. That does not mean it wont work for you.
I dont go well with alot of men because I have suck a strong personality. It wasnt the cap at first it was me. Then it turned into him. LOL it takes 2 right...
I dont go well with alot of men because I have suck a strong personality. It wasnt the cap at first it was me. Then it turned into him. LOL it takes 2 right...
"When a cap is comfortable with you they will gab your ear off. You just have to listen to them.."
"You can never force info out of a cap not even if you get them drunk or stoned...
Let him/her go to you with what they need to say. Its a way better conversation that way too."
I agree! When my Cap was a little tipsy, it was actually HIS idea to try and get some things out of ME. But neither of us were drunk enough to just blab. I still held onto some things I wasn't comfortable with sharing and I'm sure he did the same.
But oh my God, when he opens up... Sometimes I just have to sit there and watch in awe because I wasn't used to so many words coming from him at one time. Then when he started cutting me off, I was like "Is this a dream!?" He rarely cuts me off. And when he doesn't it's not in a disrespectful way, it's like he's telling me he's gonna explode if he doesn't say what he has to say RIGHT now. So yeah... Caps do open up when they're comfortable. He even told me that. He'd always say, "I don't know where you're at right now... I don't want to scare you," etc. etc. So when they know it's common ground and that they're not gonna be in a vulnerable position, they will spill the guts.
"You can never force info out of a cap not even if you get them drunk or stoned...
Let him/her go to you with what they need to say. Its a way better conversation that way too."
I agree! When my Cap was a little tipsy, it was actually HIS idea to try and get some things out of ME. But neither of us were drunk enough to just blab. I still held onto some things I wasn't comfortable with sharing and I'm sure he did the same.
But oh my God, when he opens up... Sometimes I just have to sit there and watch in awe because I wasn't used to so many words coming from him at one time. Then when he started cutting me off, I was like "Is this a dream!?" He rarely cuts me off. And when he doesn't it's not in a disrespectful way, it's like he's telling me he's gonna explode if he doesn't say what he has to say RIGHT now. So yeah... Caps do open up when they're comfortable. He even told me that. He'd always say, "I don't know where you're at right now... I don't want to scare you," etc. etc. So when they know it's common ground and that they're not gonna be in a vulnerable position, they will spill the guts.
Yes Autumnc! I agree. 
I think I'm too courageous for my own good. I'll take leaps of faith and end up scaring guys with how honest and blunt I am. If guys enjoy the chase, I'm not much fun. If I like someone, I go for it. I'm not into all the games. And my reliability has often been taken for granted or taken advantage of. I have people that always call on me when all falls down and expects me to build it back up and sometimes I don't even get a frikkin thank you!
I think I'm too courageous for my own good. I'll take leaps of faith and end up scaring guys with how honest and blunt I am. If guys enjoy the chase, I'm not much fun. If I like someone, I go for it. I'm not into all the games. And my reliability has often been taken for granted or taken advantage of. I have people that always call on me when all falls down and expects me to build it back up and sometimes I don't even get a frikkin thank you!Yes Autumnc! I agree. I think I'm too courageous for my own good. I'll take leaps of faith and end up scaring guys with how honest and blunt I am. If guys enjoy the chase, I'm not much fun. If I like someone, I go for it. I'm not into all the games. And my reliability has often been taken for granted or taken advantage of. I have people that always call on me when all falls down and expects me to build it back up and sometimes I don't even get a frikkin thank you!
Yep, Yep, Yep and Yep.. All is true for me as well... I have to come and mop up the mess that people create form themselves then they call demanding. WTF!!!!!
Chase not here unless I have up,down feelings.. Or you really want a chase. I made the leo chase me now I have to chase hom alittle see if he is worth my time.
But GEMuine you are too right... Its scary reading your stuff its like im reading my own... At least I know your a kind heart....
Yep, Yep, Yep and Yep.. All is true for me as well... I have to come and mop up the mess that people create form themselves then they call demanding. WTF!!!!!
Chase not here unless I have up,down feelings.. Or you really want a chase. I made the leo chase me now I have to chase hom alittle see if he is worth my time.
But GEMuine you are too right... Its scary reading your stuff its like im reading my own... At least I know your a kind heart....
Unfortunately (and despite much effort), I find Caps to be too much like stonewalls to be either a) interesting or b) enjoyable, and I say this with one of my dearest friends (and a SIL) as a Cap. For whatever reason, I don't connect at all with Caps and I generally can't stand Pisces, they make my skin crawl. Weird because I love Scorps but with Pisces I often feel the "I'm drowning" bit.
Oh, and I have yet to meet a Cap that is EVER on time. Always late.
Oh, and I have yet to meet a Cap that is EVER on time. Always late.
I heard Capricorns will entertain Geminis, but will never marry Geminis. Don't take you guys seriously, is why.
iF YOU are typical of your signs then this could become one sided or I could just say narrowly two sided bossy Cardinal Capricorn with a very adaptable changeable sign like Gemini but you have to go back to the astrology quirk and consider that Capricorn woman just like Scorpio woman might find the Gemini man very attractive > whether they openly admit it or not whatever but that's the sentiment, its strange but that is how it is atleast from this gender tangent. The other way around I don't know.
I've dated two gemini girls...and there is another one on the horizon!
Sad to say that the previous two didn't last, i'm not even sure this one will take off but both were fun relationships. I didn't play with any deep feelings with them, but it was always fun!
I think the attraction is mutual admiration and intellectual conversations. And gemini girls are HOT! Fun in bed too!
Sad to say that the previous two didn't last, i'm not even sure this one will take off but both were fun relationships. I didn't play with any deep feelings with them, but it was always fun!
I think the attraction is mutual admiration and intellectual conversations. And gemini girls are HOT! Fun in bed too!
Geminis have a lot of emotional issues....you need to humble yourself some if its someone you want to be with... I mean why get upset because a person is lovey dovey? Dont you need affection and love? Why do you need such emotional challenges? I mean you cant have it both ways....its going to take work from both individuals to make it sucessful.....its not going to be easy and it cant be YOUR way all the time...thats why I see I lot of single geminis...especially the males...you guys are very very selfish
Dward you are right we are selfish but with the right person and the patients we turn into very giving people that will do anything for you.. It just takes alot of patients...
I find its the other way around. At the begining there is no attraction then when the conversation starts the fireworks appear. Both cap men in my life were like that.. It took me a bit to become attracted.
Caps are fun and reliable.
I find its the other way around. At the begining there is no attraction then when the conversation starts the fireworks appear. Both cap men in my life were like that.. It took me a bit to become attracted.
Caps are fun and reliable.
I happen to be a very giving Gem, and am selfish (consciously) only during certain conversations where I can't seem to do anything but turn the subject onto my perspective. I've been working on that lately lol.
And I've had my problems with my Cap thinking everything is always going to be his way. And the disappearing thing... kind of etches in stone to me that most likely he's not anywhere near being serious about us. So I don't feel the need to get all serious, and I deny the lovey dovey whatever because I don't want to get attached... if Geminis can do that lol.
And I've had my problems with my Cap thinking everything is always going to be his way. And the disappearing thing... kind of etches in stone to me that most likely he's not anywhere near being serious about us. So I don't feel the need to get all serious, and I deny the lovey dovey whatever because I don't want to get attached... if Geminis can do that lol.
well whatever makes you guys tick i dont know...but I always seem to fall for a gemini guy
GEM guys are so different. My classmate/friend is a gem male and when I found out I was so confused. He acts nothing like me on any level. Our outlooks on life are completely different. He's been settled down with his gf for years and is ready to graduate and marry her, whereas I'm like EEK Marriage?! Lol.
Cappywench thats too funny the guy Im seeing his bday is january that is 8 months and I am very attracted to this guy.
I find Capricorns to be the only ones with enough patients and love to actually make me stable out my emotions....
Its neat... When Im around my cap he knows right away weather to give or take....
Once you find that common ground with a cap male its smooooth sailing from there...
Happiness little things that make your heart melt. Little things that makes you want to give more...
Its a nice balance. But thats why I'm attracted to them, stability, dependability and there reliable...
Im sure there are lots of men out there with these qualities but I have only found it in the 2 male caps I know....
Its neat... When Im around my cap he knows right away weather to give or take....
Once you find that common ground with a cap male its smooooth sailing from there...
Happiness little things that make your heart melt. Little things that makes you want to give more...
Its a nice balance. But thats why I'm attracted to them, stability, dependability and there reliable...
Im sure there are lots of men out there with these qualities but I have only found it in the 2 male caps I know....
Morningdew, that was very unfortunate! The guy sounds like a complete jerk. Blame it on the maturation process. He obviously hasn't gone through it yet.
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