Caught Gemini man cheating, I don’t know if there’s still hope.
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by purplehearts94 on Tuesday, August 14, 2018 and has 33 replies.
He’s basically my everything. We cared deeply for each other at least I thought he did. We spend if not every day together than every other day. The day of the eclipse something just felt off, he was hiding something from me. He didn’t want to let me know what he doing Friday night but even tho I felt weird about it I let it go. The next day he invited me to a concert and when we got there he got a missed call from an unknown number and stepped away to call the person back. When he came back he starts kissing me and hugging and he’s normally not affectionate, he knew I knew what was up. I asked him about the call he told me it was his friend josh and he showed me the call. He lied, I called him out on it and he said he lied cause it was a “home girl” and didn’t want to tell me because he knew I’d be mad so I told him to call her back and he refused. We got in a HUGE almost physical fight because I told him to leave me alone. The next day we admitted to both being drunk but I asked him why he had another female calling him at 1am and he told me it was nothing and just to trust him.... My whole world is crushed. I live alone in a state with no family & he’s all I have. We’ve been together only 4 months but we hit it off immediately and I honestly don’t have any friends anymore. He made plans with me last night, we went to a comedy show but it wasn’t the same. He didn’t want to be there. He would touch me occasionally, but he wasn’t acting himself. After we went to my house and he left early. He ALWAYS spends the night. I told him I wanted to talk and he said he to do something work related I do believe him because he FaceTimed me as soon as he made it home and talked to me until he had to work. But either way he has me around while he works. He’s being different with me and I don’t know what to do. He makes me so happy and he told me he doesn’t want to lose me but I think he he’s starting to like someone else. Is this normal Gemini behavior to cheat? & if he does cheat why does he want me to still be around? I’m so in love with him and my heart is heavy right now but he’s just being so different. Please give me advice. I’m Aquarius btw.
Ok, so let me get this straight, you've been with this guy for 4 months, but he is your "world". You guys have already got into a physical fight. You don't know if he cheated, but state it as a matter of fact because he took a call from a girl that he did while in your presence. And you have basically made him your focal point in your life, simply because you have become hugely co-dependent on him solely for human interaction now.
You have become overly clingy, and needy. He is acting differently, not because he is cheating, but in all likelihood, you have become overly dramatic. You aquas have this weird tendency to almost need far too much attention emotionally, when attached. He can, and is more than likely re-evaluating the relationship. That fight, at 4 months, is ridiculous. Especially over a call, when he has done nothing but make you a priority almost everyday for the last 4 months. But you're throwing a fit about a single call, and a single day where he didn't hang out with you. JFC. And you keep painting him the villain with NO proof. He's a cheater now right? Except he took you out on another date, and your proof is, he wasn't up your ass 24/7.
Maybe, just maybe, he has some reservations now that he has to work through.
You have become overly clingy, and needy. He is acting differently, not because he is cheating, but in all likelihood, you have become overly dramatic. You aquas have this weird tendency to almost need far too much attention emotionally, when attached. He can, and is more than likely re-evaluating the relationship. That fight, at 4 months, is ridiculous. Especially over a call, when he has done nothing but make you a priority almost everyday for the last 4 months. But you're throwing a fit about a single call, and a single day where he didn't hang out with you. JFC. And you keep painting him the villain with NO proof. He's a cheater now right? Except he took you out on another date, and your proof is, he wasn't up your ass 24/7.
Maybe, just maybe, he has some reservations now that he has to work through.
Posted by nanobotShe asked a ouija board.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?
Posted by nanobotLOL right? She titles it as if she knows definitively he is cheating. But the more you read the thread, the more you realize, she has no proof. A phone call, and not hanging out with her one night, and her perceived notion that he wasn't being affectionate enough equates to HE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE OMG HE DOES I KNOW IT.Posted by nikkistarLol I don't even know how to tackle this because the whole basis of the post might not even be true, so it's not even worth my time addressing hypotheticals.Posted by nanobotShe asked a ouija board.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?click to expand
It's like, wut?????????? HOWDIDYOUGETFROMPOINTATOTANGENTOFANACUTETRIANGLE?!?!?
Posted by nanobotWe really haven't had a good cheating thread in awhile. We need school to start again, so that all the newbies start coming to DXP all over again. Meh. lolPosted by nikkistarI know, I was ready for another good cheating thread because I hadn't seen one pop up in a minute. I cooked popcorn and I got all comfortable and ready to reply. But then I read it, and there was no her walking in on him fucking some hoe. There was no hair pulled. No clothes got burned. And I was like wtf, what a let down.Posted by nanobotLOL right? She titles it as if she knows definitively he is cheating. But the more you read the thread, the more you realize, she has no proof. A phone call, and not hanging out with her one night, and her perceived notion that he wasn't being affectionate enough equates to HE LIKES SOMEONE ELSE OMG HE DOES I KNOW IT.Posted by nikkistarLol I don't even know how to tackle this because the whole basis of the post might not even be true, so it's not even worth my time addressing hypotheticals.Posted by nanobotShe asked a ouija board.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?
It's like, wut?????????? HOWDIDYOUGETFROMPOINTATOTANGENTOFmANACUTETRIANGLE?!?!?click to expand
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
I got with my Leo and moved in with him in 4 months.
I was in my 20s and LIVING.
He was also my world. We moved to another state together. No friends, just him.
He did cheat on me but wont admit it. I never truly got confirmation. We both changed.
As long as hes not abusive or anything, it's up 2 you to work out out.
You already know the deal. This is who he is. A loving man who keeps secrets from you.
If you stay, you go in eyes wide open.
If you dont, it's never too late to fall in love with someone else. I promise you, the feeling will happen again.
Stay on your birth control. This is a muddy time for both of you.
I was in my 20s and LIVING.
He was also my world. We moved to another state together. No friends, just him.
He did cheat on me but wont admit it. I never truly got confirmation. We both changed.
As long as hes not abusive or anything, it's up 2 you to work out out.
You already know the deal. This is who he is. A loving man who keeps secrets from you.
If you stay, you go in eyes wide open.
If you dont, it's never too late to fall in love with someone else. I promise you, the feeling will happen again.
Stay on your birth control. This is a muddy time for both of you.
Disclaimer: I'm not on dxp much, so it may take days for me to respond.
Posted by nikkistarVery true, fear of abandonment. It can get so bad it drives others away. Thus creating exactly what we feared.
You aquas have this weird tendency to almost need far too much attention emotionally, when attached.
Posted by ASCoppVenus
How much attention do aquas need? I thought y’all like some space? Hmmmmm this is making me re-evaluate my understanding.
Depends tbh. There is no exact answer and insecurities, life experiences and other shit will influence it.
Posted by STILLTbh this is more a lack of maturity and possibly being younger vs being an aqua from what her OP says.
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by justagirlWow. Theres really no general trait between signs eh? Im surprised as I always thought aquas like their space. I do my best to give space to every single aqua im with. But definitely my man is giving me a hard time understanding him coz he is distant yet he wants all of me. And its like dealing with another me. And makes me wonder is he cheating because he is distant then wants all of my attention? Lol i over analyze just because he acts so differently from my other aqua exes. I think hes like OP but just a bit toned down coz hes a man. If u know what im saying...Posted by ASCoppVenus
How much attention do aquas need? I thought y’all like some space? Hmmmmm this is making me re-evaluate my understanding.
Depends tbh. There is no exact answer and insecurities, life experiences and other shit will influence it.click to expand
We do, we love our space, crave it actually but we also want attention from that special one. It can become unchecked and create issues within relationships. You said it, distant yet Wants all of you. 😂 We are oxymorons.
Sorry I shouldn't speak for others, what I said above is how I am.
Posted by justagirlHow old is she? From my teens up until a few yrs ago, I didn't care about men like that. The things I'd do and say, I won't even mention. I just started getting in touch with my feelings. I thought we got softer as we aged.Posted by STILLTbh this is more a lack of maturity and possibly being younger vs being an aqua from what her OP says.
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.click to expand
She has to be a water moon, like the rest of the more fragile ones on here.
Posted by STILLPosted by justagirlHow old is she? From my teens up until a few yrs ago, I didn't care about men like that. The things I'd do and say, I won't even mention. I just started getting in touch with my feelings. I thought we got softer as we aged.Posted by STILLTbh this is more a lack of maturity and possibly being younger vs being an aqua from what her OP says.
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
She has to be a water moon, like I the rest of the more fragile ones on here.click to expand
No clue. Not sure she has posted since her OP. Lol
Posted by nanobot
LMAO @ this thread getting hijacked and no one giving any advice on this silliness and just chocking it up to aqua's being needy.
🤷♀️ Oooopps.
Posted by DMVThanks for you’re response I appreciate the honesty. People act like they’ve never hit off with someone before. We were head over heels within 2 months. But yes I trust my intuition, it feels almost impossible to move on... He’s my best friend and became the only “real” I have out here.. home away from home. I do have others I can talk to. But they all say I’m dumb so I got tired of the negativity but now I’m seeing they were probably all right.
I got with my Leo and moved in with him in 4 months.
I was in my 20s and LIVING.
He was also my world. We moved to another state together. No friends, just him.
He did cheat on me but wont admit it. I never truly got confirmation. We both changed.
As long as hes not abusive or anything, it's up 2 you to work out out.
You already know the deal. This is who he is. A loving man who keeps secrets from you.
If you stay, you go in eyes wide open.
If you dont, it's never too late to fall in love with someone else. I promise you, the feeling will happen again.
Stay on your birth control. This is a muddy time for both of you.
Posted by justagirlPosted by STILLPosted by justagirlHow old is she? From my teens up until a few yrs ago, I didn't care about men like that. The things I'd do and say, I won't even mention. I just started getting in touch with my feelings. I thought we got softer as we aged.Posted by STILLTbh this is more a lack of maturity and possibly being younger vs being an aqua from what her OP says.
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
She has to be a water moon, like I the rest of the more fragile ones on here.
No clue. Not sure she has posted since her OP. Lolclick to expand
No I’m a Leo moon. Gemini rising. & he’s I started feeling emotional at 21 lol
Posted by nanobotI guess you’ve never heard of INTUITION before lol. When you spend every day with someone & suddenly their energy shifts & they start leaving the room to make private phone calls, than yes I will assume his ass is cheating.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?
Posted by purplehearts94Catching someone cheating (your thread title) is a bit of a departure than you assuming he is cheating.Posted by nanobotI guess you’ve never heard of INTUITION before lol. When you spend every day with someone & suddenly their energy shifts & they start leaving the room to make private phone calls, than yes I will assume his ass is cheating.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?click to expand
Time to go full stalker and hire a pi to stake out his place of work.
Posted by STILLThat's Astro racism lmao
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
Posted by ChuckLol between you and Arkansassy 😝
You should cheat too.
Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Posted by AerialViewSorry. They just seem so different.Posted by STILLThat's Astro racism lmao
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊click to expand
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.click to expand
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽
If a woman said her man cheating on her, I believe her, because women know when something is off, maybe we’re not strong physically , but we’re very intuitive .
Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽click to expand
I understood you babe.
"But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts."
There is a misconception about Aquas hiding their emotions. We are genuine people. We don't like to play games. Of course there are some exceptions.
Indifference is our default. Constantly being made aware of it and a few other things is what caused me to get in touch with emotions.
With the exception of the water Aquas, 9 times out of 10 we are not affected by most things. Other times we don't know how to convey what we're feeling, we don't understand what we're feeling, we don't want to burden another or we simply understand that no one cares.
I'm not one to hide my feelings. I have a hard time explaining how I feel and am subsequently misunderstood almost everytime. Never the less, I still try.
Water moon Aquas seem so much more affected than other Aquas. I don't understand why.
What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits.
Thanks. We think you're great too. I still remember how sweet you were to me when we first meant. 😍😍😘😘
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Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽
I understood you babe.
"But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts."
There is a misconception about Aquas hiding their emotions. We are genuine people. We don't like to play games. Of course there are some exceptions.
Indifference is our default. Constantly being made aware of it and a few other things is what caused me to get in touch with emotions.
With the exception of the water Aquas, 9 times out of 10 we are not affected by most things. Other times we don't know how to convey what we're feeling, we don't understand what we're feeling, we don't want to burden another or we simply understand that no one cares.
I'm not one to hide my feelings. I have a hard time explaining how I feel and am subsequently misunderstood almost everytime. Never the less, I still try.
Water moon Aquas seem so much more affected than other Aquas. I don't understand why.
What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits.
Thanks. We think you're great too. I still remember how sweet you were to me when we first meant. 😍😍😘😘click to expand
"What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits."
They don't seem fragile to me, they seem to be able to use their emotion for manipulation to get what they want lol
I don't mind it, I actually like it. Everyone needs to fight for what they want. But the non watery Aquas don't do this cause they don't know how!
The indifference is what kills me- It just leaves people in a state of the unknown. This may be your super power but it can be a downfall as well, in my opinion. By the time you guys figure out what the issue is when you have time to think things through, a lot of the damage is done.
But that goes for everyone I suppose. I do lots and then come back around to try and fix it if I care for you. I always just want to be accepted and let back in
You Aquas are great when it comes to that. But I am just stubborn and so are you guys! I don't want to work hard for you, I just want to ease my way back into the seat next to you, like I never left!Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽
I understood you babe.
"But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts."
There is a misconception about Aquas hiding their emotions. We are genuine people. We don't like to play games. Of course there are some exceptions.
Indifference is our default. Constantly being made aware of it and a few other things is what caused me to get in touch with emotions.
With the exception of the water Aquas, 9 times out of 10 we are not affected by most things. Other times we don't know how to convey what we're feeling, we don't understand what we're feeling, we don't want to burden another or we simply understand that no one cares.
I'm not one to hide my feelings. I have a hard time explaining how I feel and am subsequently misunderstood almost everytime. Never the less, I still try.
Water moon Aquas seem so much more affected than other Aquas. I don't understand why.
What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits.
Thanks. We think you're great too. I still remember how sweet you were to me when we first meant. 😍😍😘😘
"What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits."
They don't seem fragile to me, they seem to be able to use their emotion for manipulation to get what they want lol
I don't mind it, I actually like it. Everyone needs to fight for what they want. But the non watery Aquas don't do this cause they don't know how!
The indifference is what kills me- It just leaves people in a state of the unknown. This may be your super power but it can be a downfall as well, in my opinion. By the time you guys figure out what the issue is when you have time to think things through, a lot of the damage is done.
But that goes for everyone I suppose. I do lots and then come back around to try and fix it if I care for you. I always just want to be accepted and let back inclick to expand
"I don't mind it, I actually like it. Everyone needs to fight for what they want. But the non watery Aquas don't do this cause they don't know how!"
We don't manipulate because of integrity. Plus, it's better to get things because you're you as opposed to fooling someone. Anyone is capable of manipulation. IMO it's pathetic.
You didn't do anything. You never have ill intentions, so you'll able to ease your way back into the seat next to him.
Posted by STILLI hope so! I miss him everyday. I’ll message him soon. I want to make sure my ex is settled and not meddling in my business first lolPosted by saggurl88We don't manipulate because of integrity. Plus, it's better to get things because you're you as opposed to fooling someone. Anyone is capable of manipulation. IMO it's pathetic.Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽
I understood you babe.
"But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts."
There is a misconception about Aquas hiding their emotions. We are genuine people. We don't like to play games. Of course there are some exceptions.
Indifference is our default. Constantly being made aware of it and a few other things is what caused me to get in touch with emotions.
With the exception of the water Aquas, 9 times out of 10 we are not affected by most things. Other times we don't know how to convey what we're feeling, we don't understand what we're feeling, we don't want to burden another or we simply understand that no one cares.
I'm not one to hide my feelings. I have a hard time explaining how I feel and am subsequently misunderstood almost everytime. Never the less, I still try.
Water moon Aquas seem so much more affected than other Aquas. I don't understand why.
What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits.
Thanks. We think you're great too. I still remember how sweet you were to me when we first meant. 😍😍😘😘
"What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits."
They don't seem fragile to me, they seem to be able to use their emotion for manipulation to get what they want lol
I don't mind it, I actually like it. Everyone needs to fight for what they want. But the non watery Aquas don't do this cause they don't know how!
The indifference is what kills me- It just leaves people in a state of the unknown. This may be your super power but it can be a downfall as well, in my opinion. By the time you guys figure out what the issue is when you have time to think things through, a lot of the damage is done.
But that goes for everyone I suppose. I do lots and then come back around to try and fix it if I care for you. I always just want to be accepted and let back in
You didn't do anything. You never have ill intentions, so you'll able to ease your way back into the seat next to him.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI hope so! I miss him everyday. I’ll message him soon. I want to make sure my ex is settled and not meddling in my business first lolPosted by saggurl88We don't manipulate because of integrity. Plus, it's better to get things because you're you as opposed to fooling someone. Anyone is capable of manipulation. IMO it's pathetic.Posted by STILLPosted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI was just commenting on your water moon aqua comment.Posted by saggurl88Posted by STILLI love how you Aquas rally around your own and protect them! 😍😍😘😘😘
All water moon Aquas, please stop claiming to be Aquas because you're not Aqua like at all.
I sent you an invitation the other week to PM me. The invitation is still open.
They’re spilling their water all over the place in these boards lol. I wish I could be a fly on the wall to see how you reel them back in.
I actually like seeing the messiness of watery Aquas. It’s like a flowing open fountain that can’t be contained. I love it. 😊
Lol I hate it. They're drowning me. Its like they have no air at all, but yeah I still love them.
Op is a leo moon though.
I like seeing the watery side and the way they express themselves. I like that they are so open and vulnerable. But I don’t take advantage of it. I’m pretty clear with my intentions.
But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts.
There are advantages to both sides. It just isn’t fun if a water moon Aqua keeps getting hurt. But then again it’s never fun to get hurt.
I’m learning a lot from all Aquas on this site. You guys are pretty great 👍🏽
I understood you babe.
"But I like that their emotions aren’t so easily hidden and that they explain things very well. They don’t hide them. Airy and fiery Aquas hide theirs and keep them too close to their own hearts."
There is a misconception about Aquas hiding their emotions. We are genuine people. We don't like to play games. Of course there are some exceptions.
Indifference is our default. Constantly being made aware of it and a few other things is what caused me to get in touch with emotions.
With the exception of the water Aquas, 9 times out of 10 we are not affected by most things. Other times we don't know how to convey what we're feeling, we don't understand what we're feeling, we don't want to burden another or we simply understand that no one cares.
I'm not one to hide my feelings. I have a hard time explaining how I feel and am subsequently misunderstood almost everytime. Never the less, I still try.
Water moon Aquas seem so much more affected than other Aquas. I don't understand why.
What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits.
Thanks. We think you're great too. I still remember how sweet you were to me when we first meant. 😍😍😘😘
"What's so different about water Aquas is that they seem fragile. They also seem to wallow. Neither of those are Aqua traits."
They don't seem fragile to me, they seem to be able to use their emotion for manipulation to get what they want lol
I don't mind it, I actually like it. Everyone needs to fight for what they want. But the non watery Aquas don't do this cause they don't know how!
The indifference is what kills me- It just leaves people in a state of the unknown. This may be your super power but it can be a downfall as well, in my opinion. By the time you guys figure out what the issue is when you have time to think things through, a lot of the damage is done.
But that goes for everyone I suppose. I do lots and then come back around to try and fix it if I care for you. I always just want to be accepted and let back in
You didn't do anything. You never have ill intentions, so you'll able to ease your way back into the seat next to him.click to expand
Lol the Scorpio or the Gem? Meddling how?
Posted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by purplehearts94Posted by nanobotI guess you’ve never heard of INTUITION before lol. When you spend every day with someone & suddenly their energy shifts & they start leaving the room to make private phone calls, than yes I will assume his ass is cheating.
I'm confused - so are you sure he cheated or not, because you say he definitely did, but you are also implying that he is cheating simply because something "feels off" about a phone call he received.
So did you leave information out? Is there more information to back up your claim that he is cheating?
Inution or paranoia?
It's better to discuss with him. Geminis are brutally honest if we love you. The thing is can you handle that honesty? I'm an open book if i love someone. I would volunteer info on my own.e What they are gonna do with that is fun to watch tho.
Girl I’ve tried asking him. He wants to stay with me, but I can feel it in my soul he’s with someone else... an extra tooth brush in the sink & ignoring phone calls. Just a couple weeks ago it was all about me. Yet he still wants to be with me everyday, calling & hanging out w me. I beg him to be honest.. saying I can take it. But he keeps saying he’s not a cheater and would never. I love him so much I’ve never been this attached before and I’m scared out of mind. I guess I’m set up for another heartbreak.click to expand
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