Okkkayyy so ive known this gem for a few months now, hes one of my friends roommates and ive always had the feeling that he was crushing on me a bit because he would touch my waist and stuff at parties and after a while he got super touchy. Well last weekend my friends and i went out and the gem was there, so word around was the gem was trying to set me up with one of his friends..?? i got really confused because i thought he was the one that liked me. So i decided to go talk to his friend and just be friendly to the guy and the gem was staring the WHOLE time. After that i was mega confused and i went to ask my friend what his deal was, why was he doing this? She said that he would rather be with me but he was sure that i wasn't into him and that i wouldn't be because we are "friends". I told her no its not his friend i want its him. Then she pulled him to the side and told him how i felt and after that he would not keep his hands away. He kissed me that night. Ever since then its been kinda weird between us like i can tell hes testing the waters with me. I am interested in him but i dont think he thinks so, so what can i do for him to see that i am? im trying to not be too pushy and i am very guarded because ive dated other gems that have screwed me over but this one is different. He works for charity and he wants to help people and make the world a better place and i admire that. He also rambles alot when hes nervous around me so i think hes interested? any advice i would appreciate (:
