Hi this is my first post here, I mainly come to the site as a guest usually look at opinions of other signs and what not.
At the moment I am curious about a Gemini woman and I'm a Virgo guy, from what i have read around the web apparently these two signs are best off as friends more than anything else even though they mentally click.
I accidentally bumped into her one night after a period of about not seeing her in around a month and a bit, she was with some friends and they ended up ditching us. Afterwards we just ended up sitting down having chai tea and talking about lots of different topics, mainly interests and we were constantly surprising each other.
We ended up avoiding the other pp that ditch us before and went around hanging out and talking a lot about politics sociology and a lot of in depth topics. Through out the night we hugged and randomly went places, she even said i gave the best hugs and this wasn't the first time she had said that. We ended up kissing at the end of the night and it was one of the best nights i had in a long time.
What i am curious about is if it was just a playful gathering or did she actually was interested in me because from what i read Gemini are easily attracted to and at the same time get bored of things.
I generally find it hard to be attracted to anyone but maybe it is my cautious virgo side kicking in or how we worry a lot. Any opinions would be good thanks.
Thanks for the response guys, but I was told the next week where she was having troubles she isn't use to emotions because she needs a lot of space by her best friend. She practically avoided me that night and i had no idea what i did since it was the first time i saw her since the week before. So I don't think we could be anymore than friends for the time being though, she suffers from bipolar and is very anti social which can be hard at times with the dual persona's.
I am just keeping my distance and lettings things go, I am just trying to get back into speaking terms with her for the time being though. Thanks for the insightful responses though.
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Mar 08, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 1633 · Topics: 53
That's smart. If she is in a depression, which we do fall into every now and again (some worse than others) then she does need space to figure it out. If you pull back and let her come to you, she might be very grateful and open to you. You might be suprised. We really enjoy the ability to pull back when we need to, with no consequences. It shows you are stronger and not so needy.
If anything, giving her that freedom could create a very valuable friend. Dispite what you hear about, we are great friends.