Date with a Gemini... cancelled

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by gemini16 on Monday, December 17, 2007 and has 5 replies.
So I had a first date with a (fellow) Gemini, and it went well. He told me he liked me.
Then... he cancelled lunch, which doesn't overly worry me. He really couldn't make it. I contacted him after he cancelled and told him my evening plans were cancelled so we could get together that night. I haven't heard from him. This was yesterday.
I think he likes me. In fact, I'm fairly sure he's keen. I don't normally panic over men, but this is the first guy I've actually liked (since my ex husband) where it appears mutual (Mr Libran... it wasn't mutual with him!).
I'm a Gemini, and I know I can be stand-offish to men I'm not that keen on. Possibly even some I am keen on. I'm wondering if he's playing games with me, or what. Is this typical Gemini behaviour that I've just never been on the receiving end of? (it's hard to be objective if you're the one doing it! Men have told me I'm like this before).
The good news is that the ball is in his court now. I don't have to do anything, so if he contacts me, great, if not, then I'll be disappointed but it was only one date.
Gemini men yes this is typical behavour I know a few. They are the same.. I dated one once to...
Good luck I hope it works out for you.
I am having the same weird issue with my gemini guy....he is so strange yet it turns me on. I think his issue comes from being raised in adoption home which has caused him to put a barrier up. He has trust issues. I wish I could convince him that he can trust me. I can tell it wont be easy...oh by the way I am a aries woman.
emeraldgem - well, out of the blue yesterday he contacted me to tell me he was 'thinking of me'. My male friend (Mr Libran) told me not to trust him.
I'd decided not to contact him, after getting advice from Mr Libran and my sister (Ms Aries). I'm going away tomorrow till the New Year. Who knows if we'll catch up after that. He seemed so keen on the date, yet now I'm beginning to wonder if it's just the Gemini charm? And while I'm good at the Gemini charm, I've never had anyone do it to me!
Of course the libra dude would say that....
I say, if you want him, just follow your heart and see how it works out...

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