Do Gemini males have an agressive trait?

Just curious. My ex can be really sweet or he can be really agressive. Just curious whether the aggressiveness was just him - maybe the way he was raised.

What sort of aggression?

When he would get mad, he would get scary.

Also, he was assertive, but more over the top than most assertive people. Almost to the point of being a bully.

I think it was just him and had nothing to do with his sign.

I don't think physical aggression is a trait normally attributed to Gems. Gem aggression tends to be more cerebral: passive-aggression, taunting, mental torture, etc.

My Gemini boyfriend is like this. He isn't that bad because it sounds like he's this almost abusive dude...jeez...yeah, he's not that bad. But, he has a bad temper and when angry can say things he does not mean. He is very passionate and generally burns hot a lot. I'd attribute this to the large amount of fire in him. He has his Mars in Leo and Venus in Aries. So, he's very aggressive and pretty macho. Ahaha! He's a guy's guy...so it could be that he had a large amount of fire placements like my Gemini guy.

Posted by truecap
Just curious. My ex can be really sweet or he can be really agressive. Just curious whether the aggressiveness was just him - maybe the way he was raised.

Often it has more to do with a man's current levels of testosterone. i know guys who have mood swings just as women because their testosterone fluctuates, especially if they are under stress, physically fatigued, or having relationship issues.

I think because men have so much testosterone, some are able to keep an even temper while others aren't. It also goes to the maturity level of the man. Some guys mature early on due to their upbringing and inner strength while others never fully reach that level of maturation when dealing with emotions/opinions/conflict/resolutions. How much your sign contributes to the entire picture, I have no idea. However, I'd venture to say that the two elements I mentioned (testosterone/maturation level) play a bigger part than your sign and chart.

I guess because I work in healthcare, I see things in more of a bigger picture, including someone's physiological and psychologically profile. By adding someone's sign/chart, I think you can look for some possible tendencies, however, they certainly aren't predicated on the same type of substantial information as someone's physiological and psychologically profile.

They scream a lot when they are mad lol They will cut you with their words...so yes verbal aggression.