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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 1362 · Topics: 85
I know a few Gemini's that always talk and are quick to judge without much of an explaination. And care for other's but sometimes go to far of compling of their promblems does that just come with the terrritory or is that more one's own uniquness?
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I know lots of peoples who talk and are quick to judge and I am not sure what sign they are. I do know however that they are HUMANS and these darn "humans" do all kinds of things some of which I have no understanding.
Let's think of some things that we can do with this "disfunctional" group of peoples....any ideas?
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I have a feeling that I may need to clarify myself...I am not insuating that Gemini's are the "disfunctional" peoples....I am referring to "humans" of all kinds. Hope I didn't offend anyone.
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Freebird, thank you for clarifying that. I was almost in tears.
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What sillyness. All humans are disfunctional, nothing left to say.
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Maybe we are not disfuntional at all but infact, "normal".
We each can decide what that means......
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I have come to belive that their is no normal such would be determined by math or scince and one can not gague life or if one can we have not be told how the world that is total up the world's life and divide by the amount of people thus u'd get the normal or avegrage range or life that one has. Such thing as that is not aviable to us, now. or maybe forever. But normal is one's concpetion of the middle class which tendes to be the mass or the mass whatever class. U know what I mean.
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And another thing she countuies to explain to me how stuff work when I myself know how they work. Since I've used that stuff longer for instance a spark plug catalog. I find such quite annoying and rude to be truthful. Also do Gemni's also wnat other to judge themselves hard as the reason to always judge everyone else harder then one's normal standard. I don't mean to offend anyone or espically any Gemini's just having prombelms and wondering if it's just in the sign. Thanks.
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My dad's a gemini, and his most annoying traits are 1) over-explaining everything, to the point where he ends up on a completely different topic than we started on...you can never just ask him a simple question and get a simple answer....and 2) he can be very judgemental of people he feels are wrong or stupid or whatever. Especially when it comes to politics, social issues, what have you. Just my experience with ONE gemini. I do not speak for how all geminis are. Just the one I live with.
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That's sort of how I feel here. I live my with and work with my step-sister who is like that. by over explaining things not to the point to a different topic. She's like that to. She said Jhon Mayor didn't deserve a Grammy do his low age he's just 22 but he said he started at 16 it took 3 people and about 5 times talking of this to convince her she was wrong. But i wonder what the other Gemini's thing? Where are they? Are u out there?
Thanks.
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My gemini aunt got into a fight, an actual fight, with my mom about Jennifer Lopez being undeserving of her success. Now, my mother is not a shallow person enough to actually fight about Jennifer Lopez, but it was the principle behind the thing. My aunt was being all over-judgemental, and my mom was bothered by that so she was defending her. lol.
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Defending JLo? That's pretty bad. I just wonder well are the other Gemini's are. Thanks.
I am a gemini....thursday the 13th.and I do agree that I more then often find myself the lead talker and the one who knows what is right...everytime it is a major situation to hold my tongue.And as for over explaining ...that's me...but then I am overyly sensitive to other people's feelings.If I see a person loosing a verbal dual or being pushed in the corner.I am a samurai.Politics ,social issues that is my forte
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I wonder what sign is SHABOOM. I know for sure he wants to bang jennifer lopez. since he is the only one who hasn't.
As I've told you guys already, I am one weird Gemini, so consider yourself warned before I begin my thesis on the virtues & abnormalities of my sign as seen through my eyes....
By all means, I am a talker & a debater, but only on subjects that I am well acquainted with and are important to those I'm speaking to. I am very opinionated, and while I make every effort not to cram my views down everyone's throat, I am not afraid to use my verbal expertise and acquired knowledge as a weapon of choice during a battle of wits ...and I am an expert at wielding that weapon when necessary. I can become positively lethal when provoked. This is especially true when I'm trying to protect the underdog. (My friends swear I should have been a lawyer or a news reporter.) Words can definitely bite, injure and do emotional damage. They can also make you think. They can also heal, encourage and inspire. Wisdom & words are two things that are sacred to me and carry an awesome responsibility. For whatever you decide to dish out can never be retracted and will eventually return, whether for harm or good. Believe me, I've had practical experience with both!
Since I was a child, I have been irritatingly curious about everything and get on people's nerves by asking wayyyy too many questions. (I can't help it. Inquiring minds like mine want to know!) I've always been fascinated by what makes people tick.... what they think, how they feel, what makes them believe the things they do, what's important to them, what they stand for and why... Seriously, I would rather listen to someone with intelligence speak for 5 min. than I would to go sit through a current no. 1 box office hit movie for 2 hours. One of my favorite pastimes is to sit in a large mall, park, restaurant, etc. and just observe & listen to people. I've learned a LOT that way, not to mention made some great friends (and a few enemies) (and gotten into some hilarious trouble) with my hobby.
I do love people of all walks of life and find that I am happiest when surrounded by fascinating homo sapiens. I delight in the fact that I am a magnet that draws the strange & bizarre from every walk of life. Everyone has a story to tell and I get totally absorbed in the personal lives of anyone who wants to detail their experiences. I find that I learn most when I shut up and listen than I ever do by opening my mouth to expose the ignorance of what little I do know.
I'd choose a man with a bright mind over a man with a body to die for, but has shi* for brains any day! To me, an intelligent man is the sexiest turn-on in the world! (Hellooooo Cappies!)
As far as judging people and being rude: I don't like to ?think' I judge people.... It's not my intent to do so, especially when I find so much to criticize in myself. It's just that sometimes Gemini's seem offensive because what we think comes spewing forth like verbal vomit before we realize how harsh it might be sounding to others. I'm a big fan of ?telling it like it is.? Most Gemini's I've been acquainted with just don't have the knack for softening it up like Libra's. (And I've also found that most people that say they want the truth, in reality can't handle the truth...so if you don't want to hear the truth in all its rawness, don't ask a Gemini because they'll tell you!)
I'm very accepting of people's idiosyncrasies & quirks and in most cases find them endearing. There are only a few things I can't tolerate. (This is where my ?rudeness? shines forth, as I can't bear not to chime in to expose these cons!)
#1 Stupid, mean-hearted people.
#2 People who think they know it all, no matter what the subject
#3 People who try to pretend they know something they don't #4 Bigoted, closed-minded people
#5 Liars who wouldn't know the truth if it came up and bit them on the ass (excuse me, JT....?arse.?)
Other than that, I'm pretty tolerant.
My main negatives are: I talk
Just wait, age will slow you down and shut you up...why do everything the hard way?
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Pisces Woman and Gemini Man!
uh, oh what? done it before w/success, but i was way young and he wanted to get married. we've had our charts done and everything appears to be very compatible, i just like to know these things ahead of time, it can be helpful. tnx.