Do Geminis and Pisces get along, or do they clash?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by buddhachris on Sunday, May 19, 2013 and has 27 replies.
My aunt is a Pisces, and she has a hard time getting along with my Gemini grandma. My grandma is outspoken and always gives her opinion, and from what I've noticed, this irritates my aunt. My aunt is really sensitive & gets defensive when she feels like she's being insulted.
For example: my grandma told my aunt that her jeans looked very loose and her hips were really out there; then, my aunt went off on my grandma on how she's always so negative. My grandma explained to her that it's not being negative, she didn't intend to offend her, and that she was done talking about the issue. My aunt would not stop insisting that she was indeed being negative.
My grandma doesn't like to fight, so she'll stay quiet or ask to have the conversation dropped. My aunt, on the other hand, won't stop talking until she proves you wrong. She gets so bothered by my grandma's comments that she can ramble on for minutes just to get her point across. After the heated discussions, my grandma will usually forget about the entire problem. My aunt, however, will talk to you about how it's not her fault, even if it is.
Is this a common problem Gemini & Pisces have? It seems like these two signs have very different ways of communicating and they end up clashing. It also seems like Geminis are quick to move on and drop the issue, meanwhile Pisces holds grudges & expects an apology. At least that's what I've observed. I've also seen a lot of girls with both of these signs complain about each other. Ironically, I'm a Virgo, and yet I find Geminis easier to get along with. I love Pisces too though! So how do you think these two signs can get along without always having conflict?
For example: my grandma told my aunt that her jeans looked very loose and her hips were really out there; then, my aunt went off on my grandma on how she's always so negative. My grandma explained to her that it's not being negative, she didn't intend to offend her, and that she was done talking about the issue. My aunt would not stop insisting that she was indeed being negative.
My grandma doesn't like to fight, so she'll stay quiet or ask to have the conversation dropped. My aunt, on the other hand, won't stop talking until she proves you wrong. She gets so bothered by my grandma's comments that she can ramble on for minutes just to get her point across. After the heated discussions, my grandma will usually forget about the entire problem. My aunt, however, will talk to you about how it's not her fault, even if it is.
Is this a common problem Gemini & Pisces have? It seems like these two signs have very different ways of communicating and they end up clashing. It also seems like Geminis are quick to move on and drop the issue, meanwhile Pisces holds grudges & expects an apology. At least that's what I've observed. I've also seen a lot of girls with both of these signs complain about each other. Ironically, I'm a Virgo, and yet I find Geminis easier to get along with. I love Pisces too though! So how do you think these two signs can get along without always having conflict?
I have a male Pisces friend and we get along very well. There are a few Pisces females that I like as well. But there was this one who was cuckoo! My sister is a Pisces but I'm wayyyy older than she is and she's a little cuckoo as well! My son is a Pisces with a Gem rising and that little one is so very funny! I see a very sensitive side in him but I also see his rising as well. He's going to be a heartbreaker someday that one. So all in all I think the two signs can get along for the most part. That cuckoo Pisces I mentioned in the beginning; she got on my nerves! I tried to stay away from her as she could stay stuck on a situation for far too long. She would sound like a broken recorder.... LOL!
It depends if the Pisces has Aquarius or Aries planets, i'm Aquarius, Leo & Libra dominant with Air/Fire in my chart. 
Posted by buddhachris
My aunt is a Pisces, and she has a hard time getting along with my Gemini grandma. My grandma is outspoken and always gives her opinion, and from what I've noticed, this irritates my aunt. My aunt is really sensitive & gets defensive when she feels like she's being insulted.
For example: my grandma told my aunt that her jeans looked very loose and her hips were really out there; then, my aunt went off on my grandma on how she's always so negative. My grandma explained to her that it's not being negative, she didn't intend to offend her, and that she was done talking about the issue. My aunt would not stop insisting that she was indeed being negative.
My grandma doesn't like to fight, so she'll stay quiet or ask to have the conversation dropped. My aunt, on the other hand, won't stop talking until she proves you wrong. She gets so bothered by my grandma's comments that she can ramble on for minutes just to get her point across. After the heated discussions, my grandma will usually forget about the entire problem. My aunt, however, will talk to you about how it's not her fault, even if it is.
Is this a common problem Gemini & Pisces have? It seems like these two signs have very different ways of communicating and they end up clashing. It also seems like Geminis are quick to move on and drop the issue, meanwhile Pisces holds grudges & expects an apology. At least that's what I've observed. I've also seen a lot of girls with both of these signs complain about each other. Ironically, I'm a Virgo, and yet I find Geminis easier to get along with. I love Pisces too though! So how do you think these two signs can get along without always having conflict?
I think your grandma was being honest when she said she didn't mean to offend her... I do the same thing. It's to bring something to their attention just in case they don't want to be seen a certain way....
I get along fine with pisces. *shrugs* But I also have a lot of cancer in my chart too.
Once they learn to communicate as air and water, wind and wave, everything will be fine. Air has to learn that the water is touchy, and wave has to learn that the wind is flighty and ever changing. Water is emotional and slighted easily, whether they admit it or not. Air would rather not have a negative time and moves on quickly to happier times. Plus, as I get older.... I realize sometimes things are
Ugh!
Some things are just more important.
Some things are just more important.
Pisces gets emotional with your fart simple as that. To solve this just say sorry with a cuddle and kisses job done and most of the time ends up in sex, otherwise they'll keep this in their mind and always harass you.
One of my good friends is a gemini. We get along just fine even if we are totally different people. Relationship wise would be interesting but eventually the pisces will not feel its bonding with a gemini.
I've always gotten along with Pisces. I have a Pisces female friend who I really like most of the time, and I adored my great-aunt who was a Pisces.
Maybe due to Scorpio rising though.
I never assume something is as simple as someone's sun sign.
Maybe due to Scorpio rising though.
I never assume something is as simple as someone's sun sign.
Posted by djbuck1
I have wondered about this, myself. Two of my closest and oldest friends are Gems. But they are male. I've never even dated a Gem. Not that I avoid them. It just has never happened.
Yeah I don't think I've ever dated a Pisces.
Maybe I like them more when they're women, as friends or family members.
With the Pisces lover I had, it all just depended on which of his personalities showed up (and, I suppose, which of mine did). One of his personalities was my ideal man...but I also had to contend with all of the others. Sometimes it was ok, and sometimes it was literally impossible.
I haven't read anything, just responding from title .....
The relationship between these two twists constantly ... at first, the impression is really good and the two become smitten ... then, true colors come out and the two are furious at each other ... then an awareness sinks in that the colors aren't so bad and they become impassioned again ... then true colors throws another wrench in, which makes them want to kill each other ... then making up sounds like more fun .... then ... then ... twist
The relationship between these two twists constantly ... at first, the impression is really good and the two become smitten ... then, true colors come out and the two are furious at each other ... then an awareness sinks in that the colors aren't so bad and they become impassioned again ... then true colors throws another wrench in, which makes them want to kill each other ... then making up sounds like more fun .... then ... then ... twist
But, maybe you meant something else entirely ..... I will comment again after I read the tread.
Posted by geminicandle
I met a fun and chatty Pisces guy recently, believe it or not! Hahhahha it was pretty cool, the way he out-talked me:-)
hahaha who!!!
I still haven't read this, but, I want to add ....
Pisces usually end up hurting Geminis feelings ....
Pisces usually end up hurting Geminis feelings ....
Posted by P-Angel
I still haven't read this, but, I want to add ....
Pisces usually end up hurting Geminis feelings ....
Or geminis usually end up hurting pisces feelings?
Posted by P-Angel
I haven't read anything, just responding from title .....
The relationship between these two twists constantly ... at first, the impression is really good and the two become smitten ... then, true colors come out and the two are furious at each other ... then an awareness sinks in that the colors aren't so bad and they become impassioned again ... then true colors throws another wrench in, which makes them want to kill each other ... then making up sounds like more fun .... then ... then ... twist
This sounds like my experience. Good desciption! A twisty and slippery relationship!
Posted by P-Angel
I haven't read anything, just responding from title .....
The relationship between these two twists constantly ... at first, the impression is really good and the two become smitten ... then, true colors come out and the two are furious at each other ... then an awareness sinks in that the colors aren't so bad and they become impassioned again ... then true colors throws another wrench in, which makes them want to kill each other ... then making up sounds like more fun .... then ... then ... twist
Very true, seen this Movie before..lol
Posted by P-Angel
I still haven't read this, but, I want to add ....
Pisces usually end up hurting Geminis feelings ....
Yes they do, Gemini's are smart but can be very gullible. Pisces are not gullible, also very observant.
Gemini's have to slow down their pace and sit back and watch, when it comes to Pisces. If we don't, we reveal to much of ourselves to quickly and the Pisces will use that to their advantage and fuck with our heads.
This is interesting. My best friend who now lives n another state is a Pisces. We couldn't be anymore different but we love each other so much and get along great. We still keep in touch almost daily through texts and try to see each other at least once a year (we have a lot of distance between us and not enough cash 
However from my observation I think she is tougher than I am and I tend to be more sensitive. Maybe it's got smth to do with our other planets..
But she definitely is very moody. Fortunately I've never had to argue with her but I can agree that Pisces do try to argue all the time for no reason (I've only seen this in her romantic relationships) and they get offended easily.
However from my observation I think she is tougher than I am and I tend to be more sensitive. Maybe it's got smth to do with our other planets.. But she definitely is very moody. Fortunately I've never had to argue with her but I can agree that Pisces do try to argue all the time for no reason (I've only seen this in her romantic relationships) and they get offended easily.
I feel like adding that I still deeply love my Pisces ex (as a person, friend, and fellow Earth traveler). I also want to strangle him, then scream and punch something, after being around him for even a few hours. I'll probably ALWAYS love his beautiful, annoying ass.
my co worker is pieces and she is so dreaming and emotional, but she is funny!
Posted by DeeGPosted by P-Angel
I still haven't read this, but, I want to add ....
Pisces usually end up hurting Geminis feelings ....
Yes they do, Gemini's are smart but can be very gullible. Pisces are not gullible, also very observant.
Gemini's have to slow down their pace and sit back and watch, when it comes to Pisces. If we don't, we reveal to much of ourselves to quickly and the Pisces will use that to their advantage and fuck with our heads.click to expand
The Gemini women I have known are definitely gullible (my best friend is a Gemini, and oh goodness how it bothers me that she believes anything a man will say!!). The men are a different case. I've noticed there are two types of Gemini men: Extremely devoted and family oriented while still maintaining their flirtatious and fun loving attitude, or they are very flighty and flirtatious. (Maybe it just takes the right woman to keep the second type down though.. )
Anyway, I'm always the one who ends up getting hurt by these alluring gentleman! They never try to take advantage of me, in fact they often specify that I'm a great girl who they'd love to be with, but they know in their own heart that they don't want what I do. They only come to this realization after months of flirting and getting to know each other. And I'd definitely never use someone's weakness against them! (unless they first wronged me.. but that's my Scorpio rising). If only I had a quarter for every Gem man that left my ego bruised
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That's a great point, and that description definitely describes the thought process much better than the word gullible! When you mentioned that I instantly remembered my Gemini best friend describing exactly that to me a few months back. However my friend unfortunately doesn't use the information she gains to her advantage, she's too anxious of a person. She has a great mass of Gemini in her chart. Sun, rising, moon, and mercury. Crazy!
Posted by P-Angel
I don't like the word guillible for describing Geminis. The problem I notice with myself is I'm typically overanalyzing things to the point where I end up getting screwed. I have my intuition and I'm V E R Y perceptive....but then I start to doubt myself and my feelings and think of the 300 different scenarios that could be beneath the surface to the point where I give it a chance.....but believe you me once you've got to that point I'm wiser to the games, and they won't get played again.
That's a great point, and that description definitely describes the thought process much better than the word gullible! When you mentioned that I instantly remembered my Gemini best friend describing exactly that to me a few months back. However my friend unfortunately doesn't use the information she gains to her advantage, she's too anxious of a person. She has a great mass of Gemini in her chart. Sun, rising, moon, and mercury. Crazy!
Its funny I just lost a Pisces bud of 2 years and gained a new one just recently. He says I inspire him to think outside the box and that he's learning how to become more articulate just so we can communicate better, completely gentle people. I show him how people interpret their worlds and in return he helps me see how they really feel. It's funny because while I'm patient with him he speeds himself up, quite relaxing actually.
I've not observed Geminis being gullible ... it's more like they give the benefit of doubt a lot.
they 'get' what's going on .... they just won't allow it without another chance
they 'get' what's going on .... they just won't allow it without another chance
Water and Air is a challenge but for some reason the mutable seem to be best buddies.
Certainly better than Cardinals and Fixed.
Certainly better than Cardinals and Fixed.
I've a younger brother who is pisces, and it's not like we get along super well - we rarely (or hardly) speak to each other, not that we are doing it intentionally, it is just that way between him and me. I have noticed that I could hurt his feelings very badly, verbally. I try to watch out what I say around him. It's oftentimes I just say things matter-of-factly, but my brother thinks I'm being too cynical or insensitive, or something along that line. I soon apologise as I think it's a right thing to do (i.e., apologising when I see I've done wrong), although he holds grudges for a while... so we rather just try not to talk to each other, but try to show that we care through our actions... most of the time I end up doing more for him than he does for me, however, I don't mind, after all, he's my little brother and I can be quite protective of him when I feel I need to.
Also he's quite a romantic which really doesn't go well with my jaded (my brother has said so) way.
On the other hand, he can be quite sweet, in an unexpected way, which is good. And I appreciate that. So, after all, we are not very close, but we aren't arguing.
There are two male piscean friends as well - I find one quite whiny lol but I know his heart is in the right place. He comes to me to ventilate (which is rare, cause I am usually the one to vent on lol), he's very expressive and also so very much romantic, which I find quite refreshing... I feel like as if I were with & talking with a female friend when I am with this guy lol We sort of have girly talks lol and no, he's not gay
The other one is quiet, reserved type, also romantic. I find it's easy to relax around him as he's gentleman-like and non-menacing, or should I say, less aggressive compared to other guy friends I have. I find him genuine, nice and sweet.
I do not find both of them hot in a romantic way, though. I've had some other pisces approached me, however, have not particularly found them attractive in a romantic way. Although, I often find them cute
As for female pisceans, I lack sufficient data lol however, so far, the females I have had contacts with, they were nice, warm people in general.
Also he's quite a romantic which really doesn't go well with my jaded (my brother has said so) way.
On the other hand, he can be quite sweet, in an unexpected way, which is good. And I appreciate that. So, after all, we are not very close, but we aren't arguing.
There are two male piscean friends as well - I find one quite whiny lol but I know his heart is in the right place. He comes to me to ventilate (which is rare, cause I am usually the one to vent on lol), he's very expressive and also so very much romantic, which I find quite refreshing... I feel like as if I were with & talking with a female friend when I am with this guy lol We sort of have girly talks lol and no, he's not gay
The other one is quiet, reserved type, also romantic. I find it's easy to relax around him as he's gentleman-like and non-menacing, or should I say, less aggressive compared to other guy friends I have. I find him genuine, nice and sweet.
I do not find both of them hot in a romantic way, though. I've had some other pisces approached me, however, have not particularly found them attractive in a romantic way. Although, I often find them cute
As for female pisceans, I lack sufficient data lol however, so far, the females I have had contacts with, they were nice, warm people in general.
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