DUMPED BY GEMINI MAN AFTER 10 DAYS -LOL

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by aries4268 on Monday, April 14, 2008 and has 4 replies.
I am an Aries girl (4/2) and my friend is a gemini (5/29). We met on my bday (4/2) and instantly hit it off. On 4/8, he came to my home and I ended up kicking him out because he went into my personal bathroom located in my bathroom without my permission. (remember the topic--went off on Gemini?). After me cursing him and kicking him out of my home, he and I got over that and moved forward the next day (4/9). On Friday, 4/11 - I stayed at a male's friend house due to a power outage.
The next morning, I spoke to my gemini friend who asked me specifically if I stayed at my male's friend house the night before. I initially lied to him and told him no. We spent the afternoon together visiting friends, eating, just hanging out and he brought up the subject again about where I stayed the night before. This time I told the truth. He then asked if we were initimate and I told him no but we had been in the past. He seemed okay with this. Another male friend called while we were hanging and I talked to him on the phone and even offerred to introduce the two so that they could collaborate on a CD (they both are trying to make it in the rap busines). Afterwards, my gemini friend asked me if I had slept with my friend and I told him yes in the past. My Gemini made a comment (strike 3) and immediately drove me back to my house, got in his car, and left.
He will not answer the phone nor talk with me. This is my first time with a gemini. Is he done? We have not had sex.
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Geminis usually give everybody a chance with them but the minute they detect any dishonesty they still might stay in the situation only LONG ENOUGH to investigate, get their questions answered (the questions they normally already know the answers to before they ask) to make sure they aren't going to walk away from something that was just a misunderstanding. Yes, Geminis tend to be VERY forgiving & normally have sympathy for others BUT they will only let you get away with so many lies or faults. The first time you lied to him, he vented his questions to you, you answered them & he made the CHOICE to continue to give you the chance of still getting to know him on a deeper level. Geminis always let everyone start at 100% when they first meet someone. IT's up to THAT person to stay up to that par...but if they don't, and if they lie over little things (if you didn't have anything to hide about these other guys, you should've never lied & made your testimony seem fishy)your value to them & their trust for you will start declining...99% to 75% to 45% to 0% .
And secondly, (regardless of rather he's a Gemini or not) no man is ever going to be content with his new interest still confiding in some way or another with a sexual partner from the past. Keep in mind, this guy doesn't know you well enough to know that he can trust you without a doubt (because you've already proven to him that he cannot trust the first thing that comes out of your mouth...it's not fair that he has to wait till hours later to finally hear the truth from you) & because of the fact that you've been dishonest about little things before makes him assume that of course you'd be dishonest about the big things (like actually sleeping with the guy that let you stay at his house) that actually WOULD make him have a VALID reason for walking away from you. Geminis always want to know the WHOs, WHATs, WHENs, WHEREs, and WHYs so him questioning you is not a bad thing (that's just him giving you the opportunity to explain yourself) because trust me, if he didn't care, he wouldn't have given you the opportunity or chance to explain yourself & he wouldn't have even given you room to tell a lie). It seems like one day you're trying to pursue him, be honest with him & maintain a healthy trusting, & growing bond with him. But the next day you tell him too much (you tell him things that would sound FISHY to anyone and expect for him to always take your word for it)
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You are starting to stimilate the part of him that questions your every move...and that's NOT good.
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Krysrenee7 - you are absolutely correct. My Gemini finally came around and we spent about 2 hours together. I apologized to him but he spent the entire time questioning me more. At the end, I think I lost more points with him. I tried to be open and upfront but all he did was make me feel like a liar/whore through his questioning. I don't think I can return back to 100% . We have not hade sex which is a good thing.
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