So my ex of 2 years tried to follow me on instagram yesterday and then on the way down home from work. It surprised me because our relationship started off as really great friends and then we went out. We lasted 2 years and we were super affectionate and passionate with each other. Anywho!! She's planning on getting married sometime next year. she calls me once and hangs up right away. Then she calls me 2 hours later and hangs up right away. The last thing I told her was that I never wanted her to contact me again. Basically, our last chat went 0 to 100 real quick and I'm informed of virgos not being fond of leaving stones unturned but I'm just really try to get to the bottom of this. Help?
I'm a Virgo woman currently in a virtual relationship with a Gemini man. Or I was, it's not working for me because you Gemini men think the world should stop when you turn your charm on us. So whatever we are doing is not important. Yet everything you are doing is more important than returning a phone call, shooting out a quick text, or returning any of the text mess a virgo may shoot you. Virgo women don't do this because we are possessive, or insecure, we do this because we may be the one woman that allow you Gemini men to be as independent, flighty, etc as your twin need to be, however what we are is nurturers by nature, we worry about those we care about, even though we once cared about may cross our minds because we become emotionally invested. I'm an empath so for me the emotional bonding occurs faster than most and as much as I hate it, I need to know you're all right even if you don't have time to actually hold a conversation. Virgo women like to know she crosses your mine, because I promise she's thought about you maybe as close to many times as you think about your penis throughout the day. We relive the last moments we spoke to you. Nothing worse than to be feeling good about your last encounter with your Gemini and out of the blue he cuts you off for days or a week. You worry the entire time and duh you are thinking Duh baby, it's wasn't that deep, I was just busy. Any of this familiar yet?
Ask what you want to ask if it is.
Sorry for the typo's, I'm still mildly pissed from dealing with my Gemini man. I type as fast as I'm thinking and sometimes it comes out as jumble thoughts and misspellings. lol
In all honesty, I don't want to talk to her because she KNOWS I asked her to stay away from me as long as she's with him. Also, I mention her fiancé because before they went out me and her were seeiny each other but she kept me a secret. Until one day HE found out and got all pissy and developed a grudge towards me because he slashed my tires twice a couple of weeks after. I'm not reaching out to her unless she has the balls to talk to me like a normal human being
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Jan 19, 2013Comments: 1552 · Posts: 9503 · Topics: 11
But why should a woman have bigger balls than you?
Did you secretly date someone else's girlfriend for 2 years? You could have made it clear, as soon as you fell in love, that you are SERIOUS about her, see yourself as her boyfriend and EXPECT her to be exclusive with YOU. Or it's the end of it.
By waiting for her to make up her mind during...ahem...two years...while giving signs that you couldn't make up yours....you lost her respect. She probably remembers you as the guy who didn't know what he wanted or if he did, he never had the balls to ask for it. This is how I remember my Gem ex.