Falling for Gemini

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Scorpio702 on Tuesday, June 12, 2007 and has 28 replies.
How can I attract a gemini's attention? I have a huge crush on a gemini and we have great chemisty and love to sit and argue for hours on end but he only sees me as a friend and nothing more. Anything I can do to get him interested in me as more then just friends?
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"How can I attract a gemini's attention?"
Be smart, dress skanky, and ignore. Don't forget to act 'hard to get'.smile And that'll have them CRAWLIN'.smile
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"Anything I can do to get him interested in me as more then just friends?"
He's probably thinking the same. Do not do anything out of YOUR way. Be yourself and if he doesn't want you because of that...then fuck him..NOT LITERALLY!
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A Scorp falling for a Gem? Gee...never heard that one before...
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follow these simple step by step instructions and you to can cage your Gem...
*coughs out stinger fluid*
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Bravo...you've stopped stalking the pisces...Im proud of you. Now behave yourself...Gems dont take shit like a pisces does.
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Bleh, stupid Pisces. Sitting right behind me as I type this he is sleeping... so tempting to just "Sting" him a few times right now, but I will resist the urge... You see the thing with this Gemini is that he has stated that he sees me as nothing more then a friend, and is not attracted to me in that way, but I know he feels the same connection I do, we've been through so many of the same things and relate to eachother on a deep level, but as I said, he is a very honest and blunt person and says he is only interested in friendship Sad, anything I can do in this situation?
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WHat?? You got the pisces back??
and your with him now, BUT want someone else...tsk tsk

Well dont force that guy into something he says he doesnt want....wont be too good in the long run.
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No, I am not back with him, it's a bad situation. I am living with my ex's family and he just got evicted out of the apartment we were both living in and now he's living here too, but only til the end of the week, I wish I had him back, but there is no hope for me Sad
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awwww, poor girl.
Good luck with everything...may I suggest being single for awhile..
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But, I really like the gemini a lot and really feel like we could have something great, but like you said, there is no forcing it, life sucks Sad
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I have been single for a while... well a few months now
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thats not long enough
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You need to focus all of this energy on YOU.
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I have been, I have been this way my entire life... I can't ever put myself first... ever, and I know it's bad and I need to be my own priority, but I just can't do it.
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well you had no problem with thinking about yourself during your last relationship.

I think this gemini man knows whats best or the two of you...besides wouldnt he be some form of a rebound.
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well thee you have it...I didnt want to label it a scorp thing...but...
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You have to love a Scorp for their mystery & Sex appeal! Yes,it frightens me,but some
Gem's love that!!!
-the more demented Gems do...

Scorps fulfill gems more than gems will ever fulfill scorps.
-hhhmmmmm....now Emerald...hello BTW smile ...do u mean this is an overall sense or this a sexual thing? please advise.
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i had no idea they made chia pets in the form of Darth Vador's helmet but thank you! i love the gift smile
thanks for elaborating...those Scorps get TWO of us and they still want more! Tongue
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Geminis are way too confusing anyway :/
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Blahhhhhhh I'm still so confused by the gemini I love so. Even though he flat out tells me he's not interested in me... but then we go hang out and go to this park alone which has a great view of the strip (Las Vegas) and we are just sitting and talking and I ruin it because I want to go do something and he just wants to sit and talk... why do geminis have to be so confusing???? I mean even though he verbally tells me he's not interested, he shows subtle signs that he is.... this is so wonderfully exciting and confusing and frustrating all at the same time... darn geminis! There has to be a way to win him over... there just has to be!! We have greaaaatttt conversation... we could sit and talk/argue for hours about everything and nothing... so in love... but he will never love me Sad
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I know I make gemini think... which is a lot more then I can say for most of his friends.. who just want to basically party.. when we hang out I pick at his brain and throw out a bunch of new perspectives that he never saw before.. and he has even said that he loves just sitting and talking with me, and that he doesn't have the level of conversation with other people that he has with me, and we are always so flirty and touchy feely... but that's just the gemini flirt in him, because he's that way with all of his female friends, but I know that he will talk to me about really personal stuff that he won't talk to most about... does that count for anything? I hope so!
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That is what we love...stimulating conversation. Try not to focus on how you feel... it's obvious he enjoys your company, can you live with just that? let life come and give what it gives. Be what he's looking for in the here and now. This way, you build a friendship and a companionship that he mmight be looking for. The more you stress us out, the more we push away. FREEDOM, when we don't have this, we withdraw. So be what he needs right now. Don't bring anymore to the table. He knows what you want. It's apparent you have expressed it, and he is still around for your friendship.. ENJOY THAT. You never know what he will think tomorrow. Just a lil' 2 cents... smile
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I sure hope he doesn't know how I feel, I am very discreet when it comes to liking guys like that. So, I am positive that he has no clue, and I want to keep it that way. You are right, he loves my company, and just absolutely loves to sit and argue with me about the same thing for 2 hours... and who knows, maybe he is having a battle in his head as he would put it... I know geminis think about all aspects of everthing, so I am sure I really confuse him because I am one of the few who can just sit and talk with him about everything and nothing and want to be around eachother all the time... so I do appreciate his blunt honesty, but I think he is probably having a harder time with this then I am, I know a lot of geminis like to hide their true feelings, do you think this could be a possibility?
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It might be. I know i do. It takes alot for me to express deep feelings. I mean, i'll talk up a storm about everything and anything, and i do love to talk about feelings, but anything that exposes a weakness, not happenin'. ANd he could be runnin' the situation in his mind over and over and analyzing it to an endless degree. We have a tendancy to do that and cause more problems for ourselves. Get our selves all worried and stressed about things because he broke them down so much further that is neccessary. So just don't push him, enjoy him... let him work through his thing. If he is having a hard time, then i think thats a good sign. i know i don't waste my time and energy on anything that doesn't mean something to me. smile
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"With Gemini's, I would have to say no. If they like you, they will be direct about it. And if they want you only as a friend, they will be direct about that too, although they may still act a bit flirtatious. Just accept what he's told you and find someone who is into you 100% ."
I can be direct, but depends on who and what and where... for the fun and chase of it all, i may choose to not be. And sometimes its very hard to tell someone who isn't irritating me that i'm not interested... very situational.
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"They're not one of those signs that requires constant analysis. They're simple creatures." - I've always thought so too.

I always thought i was easy to understand, and couldn't understand why no one understood me.. LOL go figure. E-Gem, does your scorp "get you"? i'm in that right now, i don'thave to explain anything.. lovin' it! smile
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interesting - does not sound like you being scorpion gal. I m a gemini and had 3 scorpio woman. Priority for scorpio is kinda them self and not even the children when it comes to self acomplishment. As Lady M wrote. Go your own way and be assured life has plenty gifts even for you.
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