First tango with a Gemini male :-)
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by MintSprinkles on Thursday, June 27, 2013 and has 8 replies.
Hello lovelies!
As the title would suggest I am currently interested/friends with a Gemini male and this is my first time ever dealing with them like this. I've known him for about 3 mos and so far he's a pretty cool guy. The way we met was pretty interesting. We both take the city bus into downtown in our town and my oldest daughter who just loves babies started interacting with his 8 month old son. At this point my head was wrapped around some Aries guy and I never paid him any attention. Well eventually we some how sparked a conversation and he started telling me some very personal things. To his surprise though I didn't freak out or judge him like he would have expected. The first time we talk on the phone was for about 4 hrs. He kept saying how he hadn't talked on the phone with anybody like that in a long time and that I was very easy to talk to. Well anyway fast forward a bit, we've hung out a few times, gone to church together, he's come to my house for dinner and I've gone to his. So far I've met his grandma and his dad, which was surprising because he likes to bring up how we haven't really known each other long (which is true). He wants to take things slow and be friends and get to know each other, but we have established that we both like each other in a romantic way. He says he's embarrassed by the fact he wants to do that and doesn't understand why. He says I'm a good women and one he's been looking for but is very afraid of being hurt given his last relationship with the mother of his child. I am very understanding to all of this because I like him and I'd like to see where it goes.
I guess why I'm here is because I'm looking for any tips or advice you guys might have to make sure I don't goof things up with him lol. Here are our charts
His:
Sun Gemini Ascendant Cancer
Moon Gemini
Mercury Taurus
Venus Leo
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Gemini
Me:
Sun Taurus Ascendant Leo
Moon Virgo
Mercury Gemini
Venus Pisces
Mars Libra
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc node Cancer
Any insight into this would be greatly appreciated.
As the title would suggest I am currently interested/friends with a Gemini male and this is my first time ever dealing with them like this. I've known him for about 3 mos and so far he's a pretty cool guy. The way we met was pretty interesting. We both take the city bus into downtown in our town and my oldest daughter who just loves babies started interacting with his 8 month old son. At this point my head was wrapped around some Aries guy and I never paid him any attention. Well eventually we some how sparked a conversation and he started telling me some very personal things. To his surprise though I didn't freak out or judge him like he would have expected. The first time we talk on the phone was for about 4 hrs. He kept saying how he hadn't talked on the phone with anybody like that in a long time and that I was very easy to talk to. Well anyway fast forward a bit, we've hung out a few times, gone to church together, he's come to my house for dinner and I've gone to his. So far I've met his grandma and his dad, which was surprising because he likes to bring up how we haven't really known each other long (which is true). He wants to take things slow and be friends and get to know each other, but we have established that we both like each other in a romantic way. He says he's embarrassed by the fact he wants to do that and doesn't understand why. He says I'm a good women and one he's been looking for but is very afraid of being hurt given his last relationship with the mother of his child. I am very understanding to all of this because I like him and I'd like to see where it goes.
I guess why I'm here is because I'm looking for any tips or advice you guys might have to make sure I don't goof things up with him lol. Here are our charts
His:
Sun Gemini Ascendant Cancer
Moon Gemini
Mercury Taurus
Venus Leo
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Sagittarius
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Aquarius
Asc node Gemini
Me:
Sun Taurus Ascendant Leo
Moon Virgo
Mercury Gemini
Venus Pisces
Mars Libra
Jupiter Scorpio
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Sagittarius
Asc node Cancer
Any insight into this would be greatly appreciated.
I have no idea, how would I check into that?
Ok, so if I'm looking at it right than no it is not conjunct. Is that an indication that there will be trouble if we're not conjunct? Is there anything else good or bad that jumps out at you in our charts?
Thanks for the websites, but I'm pretty much a novice when it comes to this kind of stuff. I have no idea how to find out the aspects of our charts or any of that stuff.
I looked at the second website you suggested and it was very helpful. The common theme with that one was love that would turn into friendship. That's funny because I have this book called "The Secret Language of Relationships" and it's stated that our best relationship is marriage and often times a relationship between the two of us is indistinguishable meaning people won't be able to tell if we're married, lovers or just friends and often times marriages become friendships or something like that. I think that scared him a bit though because after he read that he became distant lol It's all good though, I just give him his space and we've talked since then.
He's actually into astrology a little bit lol. We have talked normally since then, but I noticed he's not pursuing me as much as he was in the beginning. So of course I assume he's losing interest, but seeing as how I'm a straight forward person who doesn't like to waste anybody's time or mine..I just asked him if he still wanted to be friends and work towards the "romantic" aspect of our relationship. He says I'm fine, and to stop thinking it's me. He's going through a lot right now emotionally and he says when he gets depressed he doesn't really want to talk to anyone. Ok fair enough, but I asked how I should proceed when he's feeling that way, because I don't want to be annoying and hit him up if he doesn't feel like talking. Well he'll just ignore me anyway , but still I'm not gonna blow him up. I just give him his space. But sometimes I worry if I let it go too long will he forget about me. I am just trying to find a balance here.
I mean for the most part a Gemini will be straight up and tell you if he's not interested anymore right?
I mean for the most part a Gemini will be straight up and tell you if he's not interested anymore right?
Well I can agree with you on that he has been pretty honest about not rushing things. He has mentioned that if I was getting on his nerves he'd let me know lol. We haven't done anything sexually in the physical sense, even though we talk about it (not intentionally just every time we talk on the phone for more than an hr the convo will lead to that). We've had phone sex once, but that's as far as its gone. Which I'm fine with because like him I don't want to be hurt. It's just so funny how he says he can't believe he is wanting to go this slow with me. It's like he's seeing himself in the 3rd person almost. I guess the old him would have slept with me already, but he said I'm def not a hit it & quit it type of girl.
I guess the thing that's weird for me is the disappearing, but I know that's a Gemini thing & don't trip about it. I'll just randomly text him after awhile to let him know I'm still there for him. I hope that simple gesture is enough for him to stick around.
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