my good gemini friend will invite me to all her parties and will always include me to go out...but usually if initiate it. i understand b/c she hangs out a lot with a tight group who have been friends for many years and i'm kinda the newbie to the bunch.
but now she has a new boyfriend and another set of friends with him and i feel like i am being left out of their stuff. not all her friends hang out with him and his group, but he has invited me to things and i follow up with her, but no response. i don't feel comfortable just asking him about it, b/c obviously i would want to go as her guest, not his. he is gemini too and i seem to fit in well w/ everyone maybe b/c of my gemini rising.
so what do you think? maybe i am just not welcome in "that group" but i am ok in the other? or maybe i am just reading it wrong and she is being her normal flighty self. should i be honest with her and ask her what the deal is? i don't want to keep fielding "secondary invites" if it doesn't look like i am welcome.