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This topic was created in the Gemini forum by bopbop on Wednesday, April 4, 2007 and has 14 replies.
Liars, scared, secretive n generally don't like to reveal abt themself. they dont have a heart n moral values...
they need to think twice before saying anything. Similarly before doing something....m i correct gemi's?
they need to think twice before saying anything. Similarly before doing something....m i correct gemi's?
geminis have a heart.
"Liars, scared, secretive n generally don't like to reveal abt themself. they dont have a heart n moral values...
they need to think twice before saying anything. Similarly before doing something....m i correct gemi's?"
...You also forgot, gossipy, two-faced, TALKATIVE, positive yet can depress you w/ stories of their hurts, bi-polar personas, smart yet ignorant, & cheap...you also forgot to correctly spell 'about'...but that's people for you...AM I correct?
they need to think twice before saying anything. Similarly before doing something....m i correct gemi's?"
...You also forgot, gossipy, two-faced, TALKATIVE, positive yet can depress you w/ stories of their hurts, bi-polar personas, smart yet ignorant, & cheap...you also forgot to correctly spell 'about'...but that's people for you...AM I correct?
sorry to say! a4 ur wrong....im here just telling some of gemis characters
well u also missed the gemini spelling?did I spell tat correct?? tat or that
well u also missed the gemini spelling?did I spell tat correct?? tat or that
So many people foreget the are intellectual individuals... everything about us has to do with the mind... so we are misunderstood... my opinon anyway.. and i don't know too many 'scared' gemini's. we are anything BUT that. and i don't by us being secretive.. you can't talk like we do and be secretive at the same time... we will talk you to death.. about anything and everything. usually we are extremely expressive... problem, yeah we do change how we feel and will tell you we feel one way.. and we do, at that moment.. but it won't neccessarily be that same feeling 20 minutes later.. so that's not lying, lol it's just how things work with us.
we do need to typically think twice before speaking.. i really really try to do that..lol cuz crap just seems to fly right out! but with maturity, you tend to get a handle on that...
you seem to have some serious issues with "US".
And actually, i think a4 has a better understand, not great.. LOL but better... i don't see us being twofaced, i'd love an example of what you're calling twofaced... and ya, i think we can be considered to have bi-polar personas cuz we 'feel' our enviornment.. and our surrounds most of the time affect our emotions..
this is just my lil' bit...
We're cheap?????? i've never been called that..
we do need to typically think twice before speaking.. i really really try to do that..lol cuz crap just seems to fly right out! but with maturity, you tend to get a handle on that...
you seem to have some serious issues with "US".
And actually, i think a4 has a better understand, not great.. LOL but better... i don't see us being twofaced, i'd love an example of what you're calling twofaced... and ya, i think we can be considered to have bi-polar personas cuz we 'feel' our enviornment.. and our surrounds most of the time affect our emotions..
this is just my lil' bit...
We're cheap?????? i've never been called that..
"So many people foreget the are intellectual individuals... everything about us has to do with the mind... so we are misunderstood... my opinon anyway.. and i don't know too many 'scared' gemini's. we are anything BUT that. and i don't by us being secretive.. you can't talk like we do and be secretive at the same time... we will talk you to death.. about anything and everything. usually we are extremely expressive... problem, yeah we do change how we feel and will tell you we feel one way.. and we do, at that moment.. but it won't neccessarily be that same feeling 20 minutes later.. so that's not lying, lol it's just how things work with us.
we do need to typically think twice before speaking.. i really really try to do that..lol cuz crap just seems to fly right out! but with maturity, you tend to get a handle on that...
you seem to have some serious issues with "US".
And actually, i think a4 has a better understand, not great.. LOL but better... i don't see us being twofaced, i'd love an example of what you're calling twofaced... and ya, i think we can be considered to have bi-polar personas cuz we 'feel' our enviornment.. and our surrounds most of the time affect our emotions..
Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail). It seems as if they are in constant denial regarding their unfavorable attributes and characteristics. How can one ever expect to grow and mature if you constantly disaffirm your faults and shortcomings? Personally, I have found quite a few Gemini's to be very "two-faced" as they continually gossipped about friends or family members "private" issues. It's like they never knew when to shut up and keep quiet(even when told upfront not to disclose confidential details). Many times Geminis want to talk about everything, to anybody who will listen (even those who don't want to listen) and often use very little discretion in what they say or who they divulge sensitive information too. Also the fear of not being liked and not being able to socialize and communicate with people on a regular basis drives Gemini's to say whatever they feel regardless of the consquence (known or unknown). Gemini's have some very alluring qualities, but being discreet & excessively communicative is definitely not one of them.
we do need to typically think twice before speaking.. i really really try to do that..lol cuz crap just seems to fly right out! but with maturity, you tend to get a handle on that...
you seem to have some serious issues with "US".
And actually, i think a4 has a better understand, not great.. LOL but better... i don't see us being twofaced, i'd love an example of what you're calling twofaced... and ya, i think we can be considered to have bi-polar personas cuz we 'feel' our enviornment.. and our surrounds most of the time affect our emotions..
Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail). It seems as if they are in constant denial regarding their unfavorable attributes and characteristics. How can one ever expect to grow and mature if you constantly disaffirm your faults and shortcomings? Personally, I have found quite a few Gemini's to be very "two-faced" as they continually gossipped about friends or family members "private" issues. It's like they never knew when to shut up and keep quiet(even when told upfront not to disclose confidential details). Many times Geminis want to talk about everything, to anybody who will listen (even those who don't want to listen) and often use very little discretion in what they say or who they divulge sensitive information too. Also the fear of not being liked and not being able to socialize and communicate with people on a regular basis drives Gemini's to say whatever they feel regardless of the consquence (known or unknown). Gemini's have some very alluring qualities, but being discreet & excessively communicative is definitely not one of them.
"Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail). It seems as if they are in constant denial regarding their unfavorable attributes and characteristics."
being that you responded to my post, i'm assuming you were referring to me being in denial regarding my unfavorable attributes... so lemme point out to you the points in my previous post, how i was pointing out some of MY unfavorable attributes.. since i seem to be in denial... as do all geminis..
1. "you can't talk like we do and be secretive at the same time"
2. "yeah we do change how we feel and will tell you we feel one way.. and we do, at that moment."
3. "we do need to typically think twice before speaking"
so granted, i think younger gem's have more problems with these because as i said.. as you grow, you usually can learn to control and manage your short comings... so to say we are all in constant denial of our short comings.. well... i disagree...
being that you responded to my post, i'm assuming you were referring to me being in denial regarding my unfavorable attributes... so lemme point out to you the points in my previous post, how i was pointing out some of MY unfavorable attributes.. since i seem to be in denial... as do all geminis..
1. "you can't talk like we do and be secretive at the same time"
2. "yeah we do change how we feel and will tell you we feel one way.. and we do, at that moment."
3. "we do need to typically think twice before speaking"
so granted, i think younger gem's have more problems with these because as i said.. as you grow, you usually can learn to control and manage your short comings... so to say we are all in constant denial of our short comings.. well... i disagree...
Tanya023 & BaBy-GrL414, evidently you failed to read my entire post. This proves my point somewhat in regards to Gemini's becoming overly defensive and attempting to contradict and/or deny some of their negative traits. Of course every Zodiac sign has both positive and negative characteristics. However there are distinct traits and attributes that uniquely belong to each Zodiac. This is irrefutable. I specifically stated that my personal point of view did not pertain to every Gemini, just the ones I have dealt with personally.
tanya023: "reading too much on astrology, meeting the gemini's that haven't done you any good, and judging every gemini's like that.. who isn't a liar? who isn't secretive? write something that's distinct."
tanya023: "Also, we're not the only people that are in denial of flaws. Everyone is in denial of their own flaws, no matter how old they are. There's always a reason why a gemini is a gemini. Being observant is good, but asking questions is always the best move. No one's to judge."
BaBy-GrL414: "being that you responded to my post, i'm assuming you were referring to me being in denial regarding my unfavorable attributes... so lemme point out to you the points in my previous post, how i was pointing out some of MY unfavorable attributes.. since i seem to be in denial... as do all geminis.."
BaBy-GrL414: "so granted, i think younger gem's have more problems with these because as i said.. as you grow, you usually can learn to control and manage your short comings... so to say we are all in constant denial of our short comings.. well... i disagree..."
lrm: "Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail)."
lrm: "Personally, I have found quite a few Gemini's to be very "two-faced" as they continually gossipped about friends or family members "private" issues."
tanya023: "reading too much on astrology, meeting the gemini's that haven't done you any good, and judging every gemini's like that.. who isn't a liar? who isn't secretive? write something that's distinct."
tanya023: "Also, we're not the only people that are in denial of flaws. Everyone is in denial of their own flaws, no matter how old they are. There's always a reason why a gemini is a gemini. Being observant is good, but asking questions is always the best move. No one's to judge."
BaBy-GrL414: "being that you responded to my post, i'm assuming you were referring to me being in denial regarding my unfavorable attributes... so lemme point out to you the points in my previous post, how i was pointing out some of MY unfavorable attributes.. since i seem to be in denial... as do all geminis.."
BaBy-GrL414: "so granted, i think younger gem's have more problems with these because as i said.. as you grow, you usually can learn to control and manage your short comings... so to say we are all in constant denial of our short comings.. well... i disagree..."
lrm: "Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail)."
lrm: "Personally, I have found quite a few Gemini's to be very "two-faced" as they continually gossipped about friends or family members "private" issues."
actually you didn't say this was your opinion you just left the blanket statment of
"Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail)."
and you can call it getting overly defensive if you want. you put up a post as you did, in an enviorment such as this, and we responded. my response was not in agreement... as i pointed out by my own post... and i don't see how my post proves that us gemini's are contradicting, over defensive, and in denial.
"Well it's really easy to put a spin on the Gemini's negative traits to make them seem unproblematic. I find this one issue very troubling in regards to many Gemini's (not all, so please no hate mail)."
and you can call it getting overly defensive if you want. you put up a post as you did, in an enviorment such as this, and we responded. my response was not in agreement... as i pointed out by my own post... and i don't see how my post proves that us gemini's are contradicting, over defensive, and in denial.
I guess by writing "not all","many", "personally, I have found" and "quite a few"
in the context of my original post means something different to you than it does to the rest of the free world? If the sentence above looks to you like it constitutes a "blanket statement" with the words "many" & "not all", you may have real issues with comprehension. So because it is "in an enviorment such as this" am I not to post my viewpoints in the Gemini area, or to give my opinions based on my own observations without being considered an hostile enemy? The manner in which you are constantly attempting to defend your viewpoint, when I have clearly stated in plain english that this was not an indictment against all Geminis really gives credence to what I have been saying all along about "some" Geminis who constantly try to protect themselves from criticism and refuse to admit their shortcomings.
in the context of my original post means something different to you than it does to the rest of the free world? If the sentence above looks to you like it constitutes a "blanket statement" with the words "many" & "not all", you may have real issues with comprehension. So because it is "in an enviorment such as this" am I not to post my viewpoints in the Gemini area, or to give my opinions based on my own observations without being considered an hostile enemy? The manner in which you are constantly attempting to defend your viewpoint, when I have clearly stated in plain english that this was not an indictment against all Geminis really gives credence to what I have been saying all along about "some" Geminis who constantly try to protect themselves from criticism and refuse to admit their shortcomings.
I do enjoy your way with words... what i'm not entertained with though.. is the way you dodge the ONE question that i asked in regards to your post saying that MY post confirmed that we gemini's TEND to be in denial of our short comings. That's all i have been trying to get from you. how my post, would have proven that.. that's all i want to know... nothing more.. nothing less...since you love to respond... as i love a debate...which has nothing to do with critism.. i'm in the corporate world.. so believe me i can deal with critisism.
O.K, this somewhat a fair assessment, because "tend" would assume that a person would be more incline to do/not do something. I just wanted some affable insight from the Geminis on this particular matter, not to wage a war over our different sentiments. This is why I specifically placed "not all, so please no hate mail" in my post to evoke humor, and to make sure no one thought I was attempting to make general conclusions or inferences. I am here to gain knowledge and insight, not to be adversarial or confrontational.
i'm not at war..lol sorry if it seems that way.. slightly irritated, i will admit.. but not at war...
well! well! what do we have here!!! u cant start a fire... with out a spar.....k!!
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