Gemini broke up with me

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by howareyoudoing on Friday, April 3, 2009 and has 11 replies.
I'm an Aquarius man and shes a Gemini women, we were in an exclusive relationship for two years and she broke up with me because i did not appreciate her. She told me she fell out of love with me and is now talking to this guy, which she started talking to immediately after we broke up. Its been a month and a half now and we still talk as friends and stuff. Any advice?
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I don't want to make you feel bad. But, Gem women have a knack for breaking hearts. The reason is simple: They are air signs, and need variety, freedom, and mental stimulation. For them, foreplay is in the mind. My father used to say that once you get the mind, then most things will follow. On the other hand. Try this: If you ever get physically close to her again, rub and carress her hand for at least 5 seconds. Then kiss her hand very slowly and affectionately. As you're doing this, gently stroke her other arm. You'll know. But, don't forget! Mental! Mental! Mental! Good luck!
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Any advice on what to do to win her back?
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that's a tuffy. normally if we make up our minds and WE are the ones walking out that door, it's for good. she will probably still stay friends with you, but she already has another guy distracting her from how she feels for you. seeing it's a rebound guy, it probably won't last too long.
GeminiMind is right! there has to be mental stimulation. when she does come back around, also, show her, every way you know how, that you do appreciate her. i hate to say it, but i'll admit to it, we like to be appreciated, somehow, everyday.
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Would it be best to be her good friend and then let her come back to me? I don't want to smother her, i just want to be there for her whether its in a relationship or just as friends.
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Act like you don't care! Giver her space. LOT'S OF SPACE! If you act love sick. It will creep her out. TRUST ME! MissLissa is Right too. If a Gemini is the one walking. It could mean the game's over, and she won't come back. But, read my previous post. And remember: Don't smother! Also, a general Gemini trait is to feel appreciated. Ask her questions. Lot's of questions. Then shut up! Let her talk. She will not shut up. Then you'll know how to make her feel appreciated. It's very important for us Gems to feel appreciated. Usually we talk a lot because we are ruled by the planet Mercury. Mercury is the messenger of the Gods. So, when we speak, in the back of our minds we feel that we are delivering messages. And if not listened to, we feel unapreciated. If that makes any sense. If you still communicate with her, remember all that I've told you grasshopper.
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Geminimind, thank you so much for all the great advice. You have been a great help. Since we broke up it has basically been just cat and mouse between us. Ill contact her one day and then a few days later she will contact me, then repeat. Lately she has been coming around more and being more friendly so i guess it is kind of working. I have to admit though, the reason she left is because i stopped listening to her. At least i know where i messed up and wont repeat it.
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Glad to have helped! Good luck!
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Ah yesssss! I remember when I was 21. I was wise for my age though.
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No sarcasm here my friend. Just reminiscing.
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Eh Heh.....
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