GEMINI + CAPRICORN - Your experience?
This topic was created in the Gemini forum by nats on Wednesday, March 12, 2014 and has 23 replies.
I'd love to hear about some Gem + Cappy relationship experiences. It seems to be either a hit or a miss and both parties must make a LOT of changes and compromises to live peacefully with each other. My cappy partner and I are 3 years and strong but we're guilty of the whole "break up - get back, beak up - get back" and we've recently broken up and gotten back. We have agreed that next time we have a big fight, we NEED to let it go. Our love is so intense and the chemistry is like no other though!
I was with a cap for three years.... It was a miss.
I dated a few; pretty boring and they tried to be so very intense. However I wish I could meet one that had a lighthearted side. The one I do know like that is unavailable. Surely there's another out there somewhere? Call meeeeeeee! LOL!
I dated two capricorns, years ago, when i was in my early 20s. Just had no chemistry with either of them but somehow kind of got stuck going out on dates with them. I don't even really know how, they both had a similar technique that would manipulate me into it. So bizarre.I kept it very friendly with both of them. I didn't even kiss them even after multiple hang outs. They were just too dull for me.
Both of them seemed to be fair more into me than i was into them. I think capricorns get dazzled by gemini. Deer in the headlights. Both of them ended up being a pain to get rid of.
Both of them seemed to be fair more into me than i was into them. I think capricorns get dazzled by gemini. Deer in the headlights. Both of them ended up being a pain to get rid of.
Posted by misslissa
I was with a cap for three years.... It was a miss.
Why was it a miss misslissa? What would you say were pro's and con's of your relo? Who left who? Was it a hard relationship to get over? I cant imagine life without my cappy. We're so very similar in so many ways but yet so completely different in others. They are definitely emotional. I love how they dont show it at all and are only vulnerable around those they trust.
Posted by GemStar05
I dated a few; pretty boring and they tried to be so very intense. However I wish I could meet one that had a lighthearted side. The one I do know like that is unavailable. Surely there's another out there somewhere? Call meeeeeeee! LOL!
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You may need one with some aqua/aries influences. My cappy is a venus in aqua, moon in aries. Moon in aries is hard to deal with but there is something sexy about it. Its so rough and direct! All the cappies I know are very light hearted. They remind me of Geminis in a way. They LOVE to party but know when its time to get down to business. What I dont like about cappies specially the females is that well from my observations is the way they are with money. They're SO concerned with money and how to get it.
Posted by Sunshinedaze
I dated two capricorns, years ago, when i was in my early 20s. Just had no chemistry with either of them but somehow kind of got stuck going out on dates with them. I don't even really know how, they both had a similar technique that would manipulate me into it. So bizarre.I kept it very friendly with both of them. I didn't even kiss them even after multiple hang outs. They were just too dull for me.
Both of them seemed to be fair more into me than i was into them. I think capricorns get dazzled by gemini. Deer in the headlights. Both of them ended up being a pain to get rid of.
I agree with the whole Capricorns being dazzled by Geminis. I feel we have an underlying understanding with them and get along off the bat. At least I have with the cappies I know. My cappy has said to me more than once that i'll never be able to get rid of her unless I cheated. Otherwise I was stuck with her for life. Jesus! At first I was a bit ew at the thought but now im used to it. Cappies love our humour and carefree nature I think. My cappy always envies my ability to be able to 'get over' things easily and not dwell. She dwells on events from the past but not the good ones, only the bad ones. The memories that cause pain.
Have never dated any caps but there was a few who showed their interests in me.. have never felt any attraction towards them..
To me, they were way too serious.. about everything
That made me run.. I respected them as friends or just people themselves but no chemistry ever never.. Quite puzzled why they seemed so into me though.. guess they liked my lighthearted childlike side (people say astrologically gems are the children of the zodiac whilst caps are the parents..?) but then the very same traits that attract them towards me make them look down on me as well.. like, you're never serious but the real world is a harsh cold serious place.. you can't play like the way you always do, you must do what I do - and this, of course, turns me off greatly.. because gems don't agree with the opinion of the world being only a serious place one has to work work work to step up and achieve one's goals, but also some place for us gems to explore and discover..a playground..so in this sense they and I could never agree.. thus things never worked out them and me.. but as I wrote I respected them & their work ethics but no to romantic partner because there was no romantic attraction at all..
To me, they were way too serious.. about everything
That made me run.. I respected them as friends or just people themselves but no chemistry ever never.. Quite puzzled why they seemed so into me though.. guess they liked my lighthearted childlike side (people say astrologically gems are the children of the zodiac whilst caps are the parents..?) but then the very same traits that attract them towards me make them look down on me as well.. like, you're never serious but the real world is a harsh cold serious place.. you can't play like the way you always do, you must do what I do - and this, of course, turns me off greatly.. because gems don't agree with the opinion of the world being only a serious place one has to work work work to step up and achieve one's goals, but also some place for us gems to explore and discover..a playground..so in this sense they and I could never agree.. thus things never worked out them and me.. but as I wrote I respected them & their work ethics but no to romantic partner because there was no romantic attraction at all..
Posted by duchessedenemours
I've dated one. When it was good it was great, but when we fought it was spectacularly awful. Needless to say it kind of crashed and burned.
My Saturn was conj. and Mars was opp. his Sun.
Sounds like my situation. When its good, its fkn AWESOME couldnt be better. When we fight though, the fights are horrible. I dont know why? Its like when we fight, we bring out the WORST in each other. There have been times where its been physcial. Unsure if its a gem + cappy thing or because we're two females.
They would kill eachother......
Geminis are the eternal child, while Capricorns ages backwards.....
Some virgo men are so sexy. I love their seriousness and how they never speak about sex. Makes me want to discover what they're all about! haha
Posted by natsPosted by misslissa
I was with a cap for three years.... It was a miss.
Why was it a miss misslissa? What would you say were pro's and con's of your relo? Who left who? Was it a hard relationship to get over? I cant imagine life without my cappy. We're so very similar in so many ways but yet so completely different in others. They are definitely emotional. I love how they dont show it at all and are only vulnerable around those they trust.click to expand
He had a seizure condition and would drink, knowing it would bring the
seizures on... He was slowly killing himself. In front of my kids and I. That
was what most of the arguing was bout... He had a son as well that he had on the weekends. He wouldn't have anything to do with him and I took care of him instead.
He walked out on me with the reason that I bitched too much... Didn't take long to get over him, cuz it was already over when he decided to tell his mother I was living off of him.... I was paying all the bills while he paid for his booze....
There are too many core differences. What we found attractive about each other in the beginning, drove us apart in the end.
Posted by misslissaPosted by natsPosted by misslissa
I was with a cap for three years.... It was a miss.
Why was it a miss misslissa? What would you say were pro's and con's of your relo? Who left who? Was it a hard relationship to get over? I cant imagine life without my cappy. We're so very similar in so many ways but yet so completely different in others. They are definitely emotional. I love how they dont show it at all and are only vulnerable around those they trust.
He had a seizure condition and would drink, knowing it would bring the
seizures on... He was slowly killing himself. In front of my kids and I. That
was what most of the arguing was bout... He had a son as well that he had on the weekends. He wouldn't have anything to do with him and I took care of him instead.
He walked out on me with the reason that I bitched too much... Didn't take long to get over him, cuz it was already over when he decided to tell his mother I was living off of him.... I was paying all the bills while he paid for his booze....click to expand
Worked out for the best - you have a good ole Aqua now!
Posted by pssymonstaa
1. Put the Capricorn down.
2. Slowly, back away.
3. Turn 180 degrees. Run.
I would have to 2nd that.
Posted by truecapPosted by misslissaPosted by natsPosted by misslissa
I was with a cap for three years.... It was a miss.
Why was it a miss misslissa? What would you say were pro's and con's of your relo? Who left who? Was it a hard relationship to get over? I cant imagine life without my cappy. We're so very similar in so many ways but yet so completely different in others. They are definitely emotional. I love how they dont show it at all and are only vulnerable around those they trust.
He had a seizure condition and would drink, knowing it would bring the
seizures on... He was slowly killing himself. In front of my kids and I. That
was what most of the arguing was bout... He had a son as well that he had on the weekends. He wouldn't have anything to do with him and I took care of him instead.
He walked out on me with the reason that I bitched too much... Didn't take long to get over him, cuz it was already over when he decided to tell his mother I was living off of him.... I was paying all the bills while he paid for his booze....
Worked out for the best - you have a good ole Aqua now!click to expand
This is completely and perfectly true!
I've been very close to a Cap sun for a decade; he has Gemini riding with an Aries moon. Our Asc are the same and I have Leo moon. His sun opposes my sun/moon midpoint. We are now both single and there may be some romantic oppty. I'm hoping that the good stuff will outweigh the Cap and we can make it work. Possible -- must sun sign play a decisive role?
Maybe I can bring a fresh outlook to a capricorn-gemini relationship. This is just how my relationship and experience has been thus far.
I am a gemini sun, leo rising, scorpio moon, mercury in cancer, venus in cancer, and mars in aries.
My man is a capricorn sun, leo rising, pisces moon, mercury in capricorn, venus in capricorn, and mars in taurus.
Anyways, We have been together for 3 years now. I will give you the good and the bad of our relationship. I'll start with the good.
Overall, it's been very pleasant. Our happiest times are when we are with our families. Family is VERY important to the both of us. We both want similar outcomes out of life. Not just mediocre careers, amazing fulfilling careers that make us happy. We are both on the path to amazing success right now. Unlike other Gemini's I read of, I am responsible with money. I save save save. He can actually be irresponsible with money from what I've seen. But that's not really my business just yet because we aren't married and we don't live together. (He's 25 and I am 23 by the way.) The positives when it comes to feelings, if I need him and am feeling insecure or unsure about anything in general.. he's there. In an instant. He doesn't really need me, MR. INDEPENDENT. But he knows I am there for him. Always. Another thing I find interesting is I am the serious one who worries. He's so lighthearted and witty in many aspects. I wish I could be like that. Now... Sex. The. Best. Fucking. Sex. I've. Ever. Had. Before anyone leaves this earth you need to be blessed with the sex of a capricorn. The end.
Now, the cons of our relationship. He doesn't initiate sex. So I worry if he's into it, or if he wants it. (If anyone would like to touch on capricorns and initiating sex, and what I can do to better our sex life.. that would be great.) and of course as most capricorn males, it's hard for him to open up about personal things, but I'm the same. I am sure we will let it all out one day. I'm patient.
Other than that, we don't have many problems. If we are ever arguing about something we work it out calmly. Our relationship is really fluid. I believe our placements in the entire chart are good. Our mars signs could match up better, and that's where I need the most help. But from here on out I would advise anyone who is seeking advice on Capricorns and Gemini's, or any signs for that matter.. to check out your birth charts. There's more to it than sun signs. Although I do believe astro
I am a gemini sun, leo rising, scorpio moon, mercury in cancer, venus in cancer, and mars in aries.
My man is a capricorn sun, leo rising, pisces moon, mercury in capricorn, venus in capricorn, and mars in taurus.
Anyways, We have been together for 3 years now. I will give you the good and the bad of our relationship. I'll start with the good.
Overall, it's been very pleasant. Our happiest times are when we are with our families. Family is VERY important to the both of us. We both want similar outcomes out of life. Not just mediocre careers, amazing fulfilling careers that make us happy. We are both on the path to amazing success right now. Unlike other Gemini's I read of, I am responsible with money. I save save save. He can actually be irresponsible with money from what I've seen. But that's not really my business just yet because we aren't married and we don't live together. (He's 25 and I am 23 by the way.) The positives when it comes to feelings, if I need him and am feeling insecure or unsure about anything in general.. he's there. In an instant. He doesn't really need me, MR. INDEPENDENT. But he knows I am there for him. Always. Another thing I find interesting is I am the serious one who worries. He's so lighthearted and witty in many aspects. I wish I could be like that. Now... Sex. The. Best. Fucking. Sex. I've. Ever. Had. Before anyone leaves this earth you need to be blessed with the sex of a capricorn. The end.
Now, the cons of our relationship. He doesn't initiate sex. So I worry if he's into it, or if he wants it. (If anyone would like to touch on capricorns and initiating sex, and what I can do to better our sex life.. that would be great.) and of course as most capricorn males, it's hard for him to open up about personal things, but I'm the same. I am sure we will let it all out one day. I'm patient.
Other than that, we don't have many problems. If we are ever arguing about something we work it out calmly. Our relationship is really fluid. I believe our placements in the entire chart are good. Our mars signs could match up better, and that's where I need the most help. But from here on out I would advise anyone who is seeking advice on Capricorns and Gemini's, or any signs for that matter.. to check out your birth charts. There's more to it than sun signs. Although I do believe astro
**continued**
Although I do believe astrological signs and charts have a lot of truth to them, try not to judge your relationship based off of other peoples experiences. Everyone is wired differently. And that's what I'm trying to show you now because I see a lot of negatives about capricorn/gemini relationships online. I wanted to shine some light.
Good luck.
Although I do believe astrological signs and charts have a lot of truth to them, try not to judge your relationship based off of other peoples experiences. Everyone is wired differently. And that's what I'm trying to show you now because I see a lot of negatives about capricorn/gemini relationships online. I wanted to shine some light.
Good luck.
For me Caps make really good friends. I have a few Cap friends. I've only dated one and it didn't go well. He thought things should go one way and I thought differently. It came down to it being his way or the highway so I hit the road.
Think of Cap and Gem as a Albatross flying into a jet engine. Didn't see where he/she was going, got sucked into Gemini's jet engine and shredded to pieces. And now the airplane goes down. For me it was hit rather a miss. I liked her, but she got too attached at a young age and I decided it'd be appropriate to end things. Now these days I'm a bit more lighthearted, but I'm still serious with my work, job, gaming, art, and writing and reading. It's for me to not be serious at that. I get too in depth with good storylines in books, games, and movies. Fallout 3 was one, Red Dead Redemption the other.
awful matchup
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