Gemini disappearing act: Normal?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by slowdance on Monday, July 12, 2010 and has 4 replies.
Hey all,
I'm fairly new to the Gemini board, but I had recently inquired about a Gemini male in a previous post. We had met on vacation and really hit it off (or so I thought). I had some issues with his initial shyness and the fact that he was hesitant to utilize any other form of communication rather than texting. Since then (to my surprise), he left me a v-mail saying that he wanted to call me because he didn't want me to think that he was only going to text. Anyway, for the past couple of weeks we've been talking to each other basically everyday and he's been planning a trip for next Sunday to come see me. Our last conversation left off with both of us excited to see each other within the next week or so. However, after that conversation, he has not contacted me in 3 or 4 days, which is strange since we normally talk multiple times daily. Thinking back, I've been the one who has initiated our last couple of conversations and I don't want to appear clingy by asking him what's going on, so I'm kind of just backing off and waiting to see when he'll contact me. Anyways, I was just wondering, is this typical of Gemini behavior?
-slowdance
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Sound's as though, since Geminis are known for dissapearing with ease. I would know. But if he's really interested in you, that doesn't sound like the right behavior because a guy can easily talk to you everyday and there is no excuse to an at most every other day unless if he was really busy, but i don't think anyone's that busy unless they are famous to not get back with you in a few days, i mean there's text, there's email, there's all types of ways, though all I'm saying is, i wouldn't take this guy that seriously. I am a male and i know, if i were interested in a female and wanted to take it seriously or be on a basis of friendship, then i would contact everyday to at least keep my ground with the girl, & if i were being contacted daily somehow, or i had a genuine desire to be with someone, i would contact. but please be careful, not everyone in this world has your best interest, if you really want to see how its going to go, then give him a try but it sounds like a game and all guys play them, and lots of girls. Some people never grow up and learn to keep it real sometimes.Don't be surprised if it goes well, and don't be surprised if you find he has secrets later on. Just sounds weird lol, but good luck though.
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slowdance:
I'm a gemini, but a woman. So from my perspective, I can understand your frustration about your gemini guy, but also have a different perspective on this.
I'm married, but went through the crazy dating game as you are, and many others on this board. Despite all the unique differences each sign has, there is one
common denominator among men when they are dealing with something emotional; especially dealing with a young lady in a relationship. And that underlying common
action is that often when young men/men are confused about their feelings, they go into their man cave to "deal." It's not necessarily a reflection on you, or other lady's,
but just what guys do.
We women discuss issues/feelings/actions etc. with other women because it's how we relate and figure things out. We don't always want a solution, just some empathy and
sharing. Once we do this, we feel better and move on until we have another crises to talk about. Winking Men, on the other hand, need time and space to work things out
on their own. They don't go running to all their male buddies to share their inner most feelings; that would make them look weak. Men would rather be removed from the
situation they are confused/upset/analyzing and go over it in their heads until they have a solution, or at the very best, can move on. Once they get to that reality,
they either return to the relationship or don't.
I know Virgo's are known for the disappearing act. I would assume it's because they are more analytical and can't deal with emotional issues very easily.
I know Gemini men are more open and very outgoing compared to most Virgo's for example. One keeps their emotions inside left to boil over, and the other wears their emotions
on their sleeve. Being a Gemini, boy do I get this and often find myself wishing I could be more like a Virgo when it comes to my emotions.
Signs are legit and we all have elements of each sign. I read the other day that each sign has two types: you are either an introvert or an extrovert. I think for the most part, that is true.
I can be both, so maybe everyone is able to do that as well, or maybe it's just being a Gemini. I really don't know.
If you really want to understand men more easily, pick up these two books: "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and "The Women Men Adore". I think it will answer some of your questions about men in general. As women, we'll never fully understand men because they are
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SlowDance I feel you I think I'm going threw the same thing with my Gemini.
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