Gemini DO's

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by krysrenee7 on Tuesday, January 20, 2009 and has 12 replies.
I'm sure all of you are familiar with my "disclaimer" from my other posts so just keep in mind that the same "disclaimer" applies to my opinion on this topic too.
Gemini Do's:
-Enjoy the game of flirting with them. There is nothing worse to a Gemini then when they throw a hint at someone & the person doesn't take it or get the hint.
-Be accepting of your Geminis need to constantly be on the move. Expecting your Gemini to sit in the house all day with you, to never be able to have their "alone & free time" will not help you in any way when you're trying to get a Gemini to attach to you. Let your Gem. know you accept the fact that they need to have their "own life" aside from the life they have with their partners. Just because your Gemini doesn't want to be up under you 24-7 doesn't mean that when they're away from you, they are betraying you. A Gemini can & will love you the same when they are away from you the same way they can when they are always -around you.
-Be seductive & always slight out of reach-Gemini enjoy a good chase. Geminis are attracted to those who know how to live their own lives too just like they do themselves. Geminis loved to be entertained & seduced because it brings them back to the world where it's just you & them. Always being 100% available or always bowing down to your Gemini will eventually make them see you as boring, non exciting & will eventually stray from you.
-Be a well-read, well-informed & very good listener. Let your Gemini know that you can "keep up" with them when it comes to conversations. Geminis hate playing the "teacher" role. Let them know that you are just as updated, knowledgeable & easy to open up the way they are.
-Use your mind as well as your body to make love (Gemini will respond the strongest to a partner who stimulates their mind). Geminis (just like everyone else) are surrounded by "outer" beauty every single day. They need to know that they can be & STAY attracted to you mentally just as much the way they are physically.
-When your Gem. asks you to go somewhere with them (especially for fun), just go. If your Gem. finds themselves begging for you to join in on the fun, don't be suprised when they eventually just stop asking you & find you to be boring. Gems are attracted to those who have the same idea of what "fun" is & need to know that you will be down for whatever. Always protesting or making excuses for why you "don't want to" will immediately make them think about how things will be long term with you in this area. And once your Gem gets the impression that their partners cannot accept or adapt to the parts of them that makes them who they are, they will no longer have any use for you
-When your Gem. is talking, let them talk & finish everything they have to say before you but in. There is nothing worse to a Gem. then 2 people sitting on the phone talking, but yet neither person's point is getting across. Let your Gem. know that you can keep up with them in the conversation department. If your Gem. doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about anything, they will just find someone else who will listen.
-Female Gemini can sometimes be moody, restlessly and unpredictably flowing with the wind: one day she will come to you, the other day she is unaware of you. Just play this same game if you want to seduce Gemini. Don't ever completely give up or 100% completely give in when you notice these behaviors, but instead give her just enough to keep her interest for you alive. Not too much, not too little, but just enough.
Be quick-minded and alert. Gemini can't stand slowness. Seduce Gemini by showing interest in novelties and keeping up-to-date. Don't appear old. And don't give your Gem. the impression that you are not interested in what they are interested in, even if that's really the case.
your discription is 100% accurate..
especially this
-Female Gemini can sometimes be moody, restlessly and unpredictably flowing with the wind: one day she will come to you, the other day she is unaware of you. Just play this same game if you want to seduce Gemini. Don't ever completely give up or 100% completely give in when you notice these behaviors, but instead give her just enough to keep her interest for you alive. Not too much, not too little, but just enough.
but actually everything applies to me!!
I'm
sun/rising/mercury:gemini
wow! that's pretty accurate. i need to learn how to do that lol
Thanks for the feedback guys smile
how do you do that?? if it's ok to ask. smile
Well, I'm around Gems. all the time. I used to be the kind of person that would not cling to or ever flock to those who were different than me. But as I grew up, I learned that it's alot better to "understand" others & to accept others rather than just having the mindset that how I am is how others should be. When I wanted to start having relationships & actual real friendships with people I had to observe them, adapt to them & understand them & once I started to do that, I noticed things went alot smoother for me.
So with the Gems that I do know very well, I not only observed their behaviors with me & their loved ones but I also just came straight out & asked them. All my friends know that I am very into astrology & when I'd ask them to tell me common things they think are different about them then any other sign (pet peeves, do's, don'ts, etc.) I'd take their answers + my own observations, put 2 & 2 together & make my conclusions based on that.
Alot of people think that I just pull this info out of my ass OR that I get all my info from some kind of astrology website, but I don't have to do any of that b/c I have eyes & a brain & can observe every sign for myself. Sure, I've looked at astrology websites to see if some of my observations were similar but I wanted everyone to know that THIS particular post was strictly my opinion based off of my own experiences with them, and not just a "copy & paste" from someone else's point of view. That's why I gave explanations for all of the main points. I wanted others to clearly see that I was writing this post in my own words
i don't think you do. that's one of the reasons why i asked. smile
that and my curiosity lol.
i've always been into astrology. even as far as making charts and interpreting them but i always need book help to do the interpreting lol. that and there are alot of books that will contradict the other and i have a hard time telling if one's right or the other OR if they're both right lol.
btw,
"But as I grew up, I learned that it's alot better to "understand" others & to accept others rather than just having the mindset that how I am is how others should be."
that is some good sound advice!! thank you! smile
Yeah, when I first took an astrology course in college & also started relying off of astrology websites for info on all of the signs, I found alot of them contradicting & just plain too general (meaning, what they said about Geminis could be said about anyone in any sign.) But once I started to do my own little research, I realized that there is a basis for which the reason they say Gems. are different than Scorps. or Aquas are different than Aries, etc. Sometimes when you read those astrology websites, they're not specific enough & of course their creditials are always questions & plus, they don't always make it clear why astrology is what it is. If every time we read an astrology website & everything they say about your sign applies to EVERYONE'S sign, then people will start to doubt the point of astrology. But once I took it upon myself to find out for myself, I can clearly see why I'm an Aquarian & others are not. Our mannerisms, behaviors & the way we see things are completely different.
thank you so much!
this gives me a really good NEW start! smile

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