Gemini falling for me?

I've heard about geminis but have never dated one before, so I'm just looking for some feedback here.

A month ago I started seeing a gemini man. The first night we went to his house, watching movies, talking, he played some of the music he'd written for me..just a lot of fun. He drove me home finally around 4am and said he'd call me sometime. "Sometime" came the very next night. He works nights as a mechanic and I've been a night owl for as long as I can remember. He has called me every single night while he's working, and we're always on the phone 3, maybe 4 hours at a time. On his nights off, I go to his house and spend the whole night with him. He mentioned early on that he is pretty secretive with his feelings, and even said that he's had issues with "love" and monogamous relationships for a long time. Yet to see us together, you'd think we were a couple madly in love..he is always hugging, cuddling, kissing. He goes above and beyond to make sure that I am comfortable and happy at all times. The look I get from him, there's a sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me. Basically, the ONLY difference between us and a newlywed couple is there haven't been any "I love you's" said.

My intuition, and common sense, tells me he feels a LOT more about me than he says. Any geminis out there able to give me some feedback?

He just doesn't seem like the typical "gemini" I've heard so much about.

Sorry for the double post on the board...internet went crazy on me.

Damn he's into u girl. Don't ask questions, jus live it up and enjoy

I'm wondering what you might have heard is typical. Maybe jot down a few things and we can comment on them.

Gems get a bad rap because people mistake being friendly, talkative, and willing to go out and do things as love and are hurt and baffled when Gems "disappear" (read: they were never there- romantically- to start with).

It sounds like you two have a good thing started, though.

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I've never dated a gemini man. as a gemini female, don't think i could deal with a gemini guy simply do to the fact that they never stop talking. even i know when it's time to shut up and distance myself when it's appropriate.

with that said, he sounds as if he's genuinely into you. the one thing that bugs me is how much he's into you so early. it's good that he likes you a lot, but with all the communication he's doing with you only into this relationship a month, imho, he comes off a bit clingy. personally, i always enjoyed the subtle hints of attraction during those first few times of dating, and also a little mystery. if a guy or woman tells the person their dating everything about them early on and comes across overtly zealous, that's a big turn off. it undermines the fun and intrigue of getting to know that person and seeing who they really are over time.

one of the first signs of real attraction from a man is the genuine smile and the shiny eyes. since you've seen that, there's a good bet that he likes you. however, as Whimsy accurately pointed out, often we gems are misunderstood because of our instinctive ability to flirt, be silly, spark humor, be supportive and adapt to our scenario. It's our natural personality to be friendly and start a conversation with someone we find interesting. It's been my experience over the years that sometimes men think that if a woman has the fortitude to start a conversation with them, and make them laugh, somehow that correlates that she's attracted to the guy and wants to date him. It's logical that men would think this because they are naturally attracted to a woman who is confident and can laugh. But in the case of a gemini, having the ability to act this way is just the way we wired. doesn't necessarily men that we're in love with the person we're caring on a conversation with or even exchanging our feelings.

That's where you need to be careful imho. He may be a real keeper. But I'd be cautious about how much he's expressing to you this early. Rarely do men, no matter their sign, act this overzealous so early in a relationship. Men value their independence and their freedom. So just keep that in mind. Don't want you to get hurt if in fact he is a guy in need of some security, more than perhaps a relationship. all the best.

you're terrible - he's INTO her... leave it at that lol. I'm happy, if he likes you you will always know it with a Gem, if when he stops talking you should move on 🙂

Posted by DeadRingerr
The sparkle in his eys is his youthful twin dying to come out, you have reached the inner twin!!!!!

And that bright smile tells all...😉

Posted by DeadRingerr
The sparkle in his eys is his youthful twin dying to come out, you have reached the inner twin!!!!!

honestly, i've seen that sparkle in a man's eye, along with the warm smile twice in my life. once with a man whom I wasn't ready to have a life long relationship with and my husband, especially on our wedding day.

the sparkle in the eyes is a common sign of attraction and also can indicate love. a person's eyes shine/sparkle due to the fact that the body is responding to "love" chemicals and this causes moisture to form in the eyes as a way of "cleaning out the eyes". pupils also dilate. here's a snipet from a great article on eye body language: http://www.bbwmagazine.com/love_3_0016.htm<BR>
Revealing Hidden Reactions
"A person can try to hide or manipulate all of the physical and emotional signs of attraction, but they are unable to conceal the physiological signs (a racing heart or perspiration, for example). Because biological reactions occur inside the body, they are usually not apparent to anyone but the person experiencing them. But there are two exceptions: dilated pupils and watery eyes. Both, coincidentally, are linked to interpersonal attraction. Even better, they are very noticeable when you look for them and most people have no idea that these signs of interest even exist.

The first "secret" sign of physiological attraction is dilated pupils. The size of someone's pupils adjusts depending primarily on two things: light and attraction. The darker a room, the larger a person's pupils will be. When someone is attracted to you, their pupils will enlarge more than is expected for their surroundings. To make this determination, all you have to do is compare their pupil size with others in the same surroundings.

As an aside, medications can also alter the size of pupils. So, if you think someone's interested, but their pupil size is small, don't worry. Instead, watch for other signs of attraction - in particular, body language.

Another physiological reaction that indicates that someone is attracted to you is watery eyes. It's almost their way of cleaning off their eyes in order to capture a clearer picture of you."

that is every gemini! correction every person who has interest. Geminis are indeed sweet and loving.

well im not a guy but im a gem..

I have a hard time with things going too smooth,i want some struggle and pain because i want to see how him and i cope with bad stuff.

I am a Gemini also with much air placements, and my issue is keeping my interest in people. Soon enough people become routine and boring and feel that they don't need to keep it exciting and fresh. I do however. But once I have lost that interest I move on rather quickly. I am no stranger to speaking to more than one guy at a time.