Gemini GUY tips...

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Brickhouse27 on Monday, February 4, 2019 and has 36 replies.
Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...
Posted by nanobot

Do you want just the tip or the whole thing???


I want the whole thing.
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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
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Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???
Two faced..not deep...no genuine compassion ..fickle...great liars....exuberant...extroverted..talk constantly...contagious....but really just assholes... Will suck you in and discard you in the blink of an eye and then you no longer exist...Sorry :/ (sources: 4 best friend geminis and 4 lovers..they stick to me like flies on shit dunno why).
Posted by shakedown

I can only comment on the one I was with.

VERY Talkative (OMG, please shut up)

Funny

Extremely witty

Insecure

Not emotionally deep

Generally happy

Loved talk radio

Industrious

Temper Tantrums

Great with numbers

Rose colored glasses

Loyal

Complained about work ALL the time

Passive Aggressive

Contradictory

Win at all costs

Fear of abandonment

Hypocrite at times

Lethal with words - Often said unforgivable things during arguments

Very giving

Possessive at times

Loved telling stories

Emotionally strong and generally dealt with them internally

Selective memory

Could gas light at times - Sometimes I really just wanted to choke the fuck out of him

Deny, Deny, Deny

Clingy

Could be "fatherly" at times

Overall a very good person

Gemini Sun (12th); Cancer moon (1st); Cancer rising; Aries Mars (10th); Gemini Mercury (12th)

(Pisces Dominant)

Yesss most of this is definitely what I'm seeing. How long did it take him to committ?
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Two faced..not deep...no genuine compassion ..fickle...great liars....exuberant...extroverted..talk constantly...contagious....but really just assholes... Will suck you in and discard you in the blink of an eye and then you no longer exist...Sorry :/ (sources: 4 best friend geminis and 4 lovers..they stick to me like flies on shit dunno why).
You still with them???
They would do anything for you if they truly are in love. Very generous and wants to share everything with you. Needs to be entertained at all times.
Loves to talk... sometimes it can be too much, especially if you want to have some quiet time and just chill at home.
Dated 2 gems. Child at heart. Both are pretty straightforward. Just ask them direct questions if you want a direct answer to anything, including where you stand.
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I can only comment on the one I was with.

VERY Talkative (OMG, please shut up)

Funny

Extremely witty

Insecure

Not emotionally deep

Generally happy

Loved talk radio

Industrious

Temper Tantrums

Great with numbers

Rose colored glasses

Loyal

Complained about work ALL the time

Passive Aggressive

Contradictory

Win at all costs

Fear of abandonment

Hypocrite at times

Lethal with words - Often said unforgivable things during arguments

Very giving

Possessive at times

Loved telling stories

Emotionally strong and generally dealt with them internally

Selective memory

Could gas light at times - Sometimes I really just wanted to choke the fuck out of him

Deny, Deny, Deny

Clingy

Could be "fatherly" at times

Overall a very good person

Gemini Sun (12th); Cancer moon (1st); Cancer rising; Aries Mars (10th); Gemini Mercury (12th)

(Pisces Dominant)

Yesss most of this is definitely what I'm seeing. How long did it take him to committ?
Brickhouse, I think we dated for about a year before deciding to put a "label" on things. I like being best friends with my mate before getting serious. During our relationship, us being best friends was always the back drop and glue to our relationship. We are still friends to this day. He's like one of my girlfriends 😂 where I can chat with him about anything. I hope this answers your question hun.
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Yeah same here, you have to get to know the good and bad. I totally agree. Lol that's good you all still are friends🤣. Yes it did, thank you so much.
The good, bad and ugly... that can be subjective (what's good for some is bad for others and the other way around). 🤷

From the top of my head... 🤔

First things first...Geminis are usually verbal creatures. As in... from all the types of communication - language might work best with Geminis. But it's also what confuses a Gemini the most (if words are just yada yada to you / if you say things you don't mean or if you're not self-conscious of the stuff you say).

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Again, words can be a big thing. A Gemini can display more loyalty to the truth (or logic) - than the person saying those words (be it family, friends or romantic partners). For that reason... stubborn people (also controlling/manipulative) - who see something in a certain way (grass is blue - type of thing) - and expect their partner to follow them blindly... 😒 don't mix so well with Geminis. Since for this people - the objective truth is less relevant... it's more about the person behind those words - so they're prone to question a Gemini's loyalty - for not following them blindly (this are usually the ones who end-up disliking/hating Geminis the most - generally speaking). Which in turn leads to meaningless fights - due to disengagements.

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(if you can relate with above description... other than some fun times in the beginning - while ignoring each-other core traits/tendencies... there's very little room for a happy relationship with a Gemini - long term 😐).

To verbal - at times...

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Same goes for writing...

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They're suppose to be great with children...🤔 Or so they say (children seem to disagree... 🤭)

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Or was it... "Gems are big children?!" 😏

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It's not like they're necessarily against relationship or marriage (some might be) - but for a Gemini that should be the outcome of mutual understanding/agreement. He's sure to pose that question - if he feels that way about you two. Just don't force that upon him - cause if he loves you - that can feel like an entrapment for a Gemini (compelled into doing something just becasue he loves you - rather than doing that for both of you - cause it's the next step).

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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???
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No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3
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Posted by Brickhouse27

Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3
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The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
Posted by neves

The good, bad and ugly... that can be subjective (what's good for some is bad for others and the other way around). 🤷

From the top of my head... 🤔

First things first...Geminis are usually verbal creatures. As in... from all the types of communication - language might work best with Geminis. But it's also what confuses a Gemini the most (if words are just yada yada to you / if you say things you don't mean or if you're not self-conscious of the stuff you say).

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Again, words can be a big thing. A Gemini can display more loyalty to the truth (or logic) - than the person saying those words (be it family, friends or romantic partners). For that reason... stubborn people (also controlling/manipulative) - who see something in a certain way (grass is blue - type of thing) - and expect their partner to follow them blindly... 😒 don't mix so well with Geminis. Since for this people - the objective truth is less relevant... it's more about the person behind those words - so they're prone to question a Gemini's loyalty - for not following them blindly (this are usually the ones who end-up disliking/hating Geminis the most - generally speaking). Which in turn leads to meaningless fights - due to disengagements.

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(if you can relate with above description... other than some fun times in the beginning - while ignoring each-other core traits/tendencies... there's very little room for a happy relationship with a Gemini - long term 😐).

To verbal - at times...

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Same goes for writing...

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They're suppose to be great with children...🤔 Or so they say (children seem to disagree... 🤭)

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Or was it... "Gems are big children?!" 😏

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It's not like they're necessarily against relationship or marriage (some might be) - but for a Gemini that should be the outcome of mutual understanding/agreement. He's sure to pose that question - if he feels that way about you two. Just don't force that upon him - cause if he loves you - that can feel like an entrapment for a Gemini (compelled into doing something just becasue he loves you - rather than doing that for both of you - cause it's the next step).

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I definitely see what your saying. So in your opinions, what the best way to make it work with a gemini?
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
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That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?
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Right! He said he feels like were so compatible. Were always working. We have one day out the week we take and spend time together, with no questions asked. We've been dating since July.

Also the other day I noticed something but maybe I'm overthinking, I was trying to plan a little outing and instead of responding in text he responded in person the following day...why do think this is?
Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
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Since I have been on this board for over 4 years now, and I still have yet to see an intelligent explanation for "not deep" but see it 3x a week anyway, I am forced to assume when someone is "not deep" in water sign language, it equates to "dismissive toward my emotions which are likely invalid and annoying most of the time"


I am a water sign and it also depends on their upbringing. Not all "water" sign think the same way. "Not deep" could be interpreted in a number of ways. I think most base it off emotions.
Posted by LadyNeptune

Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
Sounds just like my friend OMG. They dont let you be around members of their family either so quick?
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Posted by nanobot

Since I have been on this board for over 4 years now, and I still have yet to see an intelligent explanation for "not deep" but see it 3x a week anyway, I am forced to assume when someone is "not deep" in water sign language, it equates to "dismissive toward my emotions which are likely invalid and annoying most of the time"


I am a water sign and it also depends on their upbringing. Not all "water" sign think the same way. "Not deep" could be interpreted in a number of ways. I think most base it off emotions.
Can you explain what that means though? When it's posted several times a week, over years, by different users, you can pick up on patterns. I find water/gem anything highly incompatible. Unless the dude has tons of water in his chart. I have tons of earth myself and it's a no for me.
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To me not deep means have you dont get into your emotions as much as someone else would. I'm not sure if there is a problem tapping into them or what. You rather not deal with the emotions or the smallest thing associated with them.
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?


Right! He said he feels like were so compatible. Were always working. We have one day out the week we take and spend time together, with no questions asked. We've been dating since July.

Also the other day I noticed something but maybe I'm overthinking, I was trying to plan a little outing and instead of responding in text he responded in person the following day...why do think this is?
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How old are you guys? Why only 1 day a week? Do u live far from each other?
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?


Right! He said he feels like were so compatible. Were always working. We have one day out the week we take and spend time together, with no questions asked. We've been dating since July.

Also the other day I noticed something but maybe I'm overthinking, I was trying to plan a little outing and instead of responding in text he responded in person the following day...why do think this is?
How old are you guys? Why only 1 day a week? Do u live far from each other?
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I'm 28 and he is 39. We dont live far at all. We work very close, like in the same building, so we see each other alot.
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?


Right! He said he feels like were so compatible. Were always working. We have one day out the week we take and spend time together, with no questions asked. We've been dating since July.

Also the other day I noticed something but maybe I'm overthinking, I was trying to plan a little outing and instead of responding in text he responded in person the following day...why do think this is?
How old are you guys? Why only 1 day a week? Do u live far from each other?


I'm 28 and he is 39. We dont live far at all. We work very close, like in the same building, so we see each other alot.
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Do either of you have kids? Been married before?
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Can someone tell me what to expect with a Gemini guy PLZ??? THE GOOD, BAD AND UGLY...


You are going to instantly fall in love with a Gem, then question everything, feel complete confusion, pull you hair out and want to give up... but this just means things are going great! Just have patience, don’t expect anything, have fun and keep your Gem mentally engaged 😉 btw, what are you placements OP?
Thank you so much, that's exactly how everything is going lol. I'm still trying to figure out if their exactly right, any suggestions on that???


No prob, love Gem queries 😝 right for you? What are your and his placements? Describe yourself with 3 words, describe him with 3


The 3 words that describe me are honest, carefree, and unique.

The 3 words to describe are talkative, open, and unpredictable
That sounds fun! It also sounds you guys are compatible on the surface... but it really comes down to how you live your life, what is important to you and are you on the same page what you want out of a relationship. How long you guys been dating?


Right! He said he feels like were so compatible. Were always working. We have one day out the week we take and spend time together, with no questions asked. We've been dating since July.

Also the other day I noticed something but maybe I'm overthinking, I was trying to plan a little outing and instead of responding in text he responded in person the following day...why do think this is?
How old are you guys? Why only 1 day a week? Do u live far from each other?


I'm 28 and he is 39. We dont live far at all. We work very close, like in the same building, so we see each other alot.


Do either of you have kids? Been married before?
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We both do. I have a son and he has 3 kids. I've never been married, he has been married.
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Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
Sounds just like my friend OMG. They dont let you be around members of their family either so quick?
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IDK tho. 3 months in I met his dad, grams grandpa, uncles, cousins, etc.

I don't think you can pigeon hole someone based on sun sign astrology alone.

Ironically I was the one who waited over a year before I introduced him to my family. Cap dominant is super slow mo.
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Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
Sounds just like my friend OMG. They dont let you be around members of their family either so quick?
IDK tho. 3 months in I met his dad, grams grandpa, uncles, cousins, etc.

I don't think you can pigeon hole someone based on sun sign astrology alone.

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Yeah you are correct about that. Are you all still together?
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Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
Sounds just like my friend OMG. They dont let you be around members of their family either so quick?
IDK tho. 3 months in I met his dad, grams grandpa, uncles, cousins, etc.

I don't think you can pigeon hole someone based on sun sign astrology alone.



Yeah you are correct about that. Are you all still together?
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Yeah. October will be 4 years. Yikes time flies!
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Within 2 months of dating he locked it down. Ironically after an earlier conversation that morning where I was all "labels mean fuck all, I'd rather be treated like a gf than have the label and be with an asshole".

He's actually more of the strong silent type. Maybe cause hes a gemini/cancer cusper? Or maybe his cancer mercury.

Go with the flow. If he cancels or plans change stay chill. Like for sure you can do the whole, damn was really looking forward to seeing you *sad face*. But keep it low key, don't guilt trip. I find he comes back 2xs as strong when I'm not bothered. Mutable powers ftw.

And the whole 'geminis don't show emotion' is bs. He's straight up shed tears in my presence. There is depth there. They just aren't gonna show that with just anyone.

Thats another thing...really charming life of the party type people but they low key feel like they don't have many true friends. So if they let you get close you are one of few.

Don't worry about how long it takes him to text back. As long as he is actively trying to kick it face to face, he's interested.
Sounds just like my friend OMG. They dont let you be around members of their family either so quick?
IDK tho. 3 months in I met his dad, grams grandpa, uncles, cousins, etc.

I don't think you can pigeon hole someone based on sun sign astrology alone.



Yeah you are correct about that. Are you all still together?
Yeah. October will be 4 years. Yikes time flies!
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Aww! I love it, I know it hasn't been easy but patience is what I'm learning.
Wow, not deep to means surface topics, conversation... like chatting about work or gossip. I feel Gemini’s are deep, some very deep(depending on water influence) I find all Gems to be sensitive, but only some willing to have deep conversation. I like to keep things light mostly so this works for me 🤷🏻‍♀️
RUN FOR UR FUCKKING LIFE!!! HELL NIGHT! FREDDY VS JASON! CHUCKIES BRIDE! HANNABAL... I could keep going but u catch my drift.... YOU WANNA PLAY A GAME? ....SAW!
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Two faced..not deep...no genuine compassion ..fickle...great liars....exuberant...extroverted..talk constantly...contagious....but really just assholes... Will suck you in and discard you in the blink of an eye and then you no longer exist...Sorry :/ (sources: 4 best friend geminis and 4 lovers..they stick to me like flies on shit dunno why).


ALL Geminis are like this from your experience? lol.
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what did i say man? Yes.
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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Two faced..not deep...no genuine compassion ..fickle...great liars....exuberant...extroverted..talk constantly...contagious....but really just assholes... Will suck you in and discard you in the blink of an eye and then you no longer exist...Sorry :/ (sources: 4 best friend geminis and 4 lovers..they stick to me like flies on shit dunno why).
You still with them???
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fuuuuuucck no. Every one turned on me...including my best friend of 8 years who was supposedly in love with me. DO NOT TRUST
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Posted by boxcarmirnta

Two faced..not deep...no genuine compassion ..fickle...great liars....exuberant...extroverted..talk constantly...contagious....but really just assholes... Will suck you in and discard you in the blink of an eye and then you no longer exist...Sorry :/ (sources: 4 best friend geminis and 4 lovers..they stick to me like flies on shit dunno why).
You still with them???

fuuuuuucck no. Every one turned on me...including my best friend of 8 years who was supposedly in love with me. DO NOT TRUST
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Oh my God, not good at all.