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May 23, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 2604 · Topics: 117
One evening two diff friends of mine came together for a small gettogether. One was a sag girl and another was a gemini guy. Sag girl was dating another friend of mine, and gemini guy was in love with another girl who was out of town. we got booze, i started drinking and they started chatting. I told to myself, just watch and see how far this will work... next morning she smsed me saying she broke up with her bf and going to see this gemini guy, he also broke up with his gf. They are together since then and goin to get married soon.
no stories of Sag girl and Gem boy, but i'm a Gem gal married to a Sag boy. we've been together for 5 years, married for 2 of those years. it works out well for the most part, though he's much more interested in doing things, while i'm much more interested in talking about things. i think that's a common set up though with a Gem and any other sign, aside from Libra, perhaps.
one big difficulty that he and i have at times is his discomfort resulting from my often extreme and rapidly shifting emotions. one big plus would be that we're both adventurous quite adventurous and will try anything at least twice. a good example being that he introduced me to snowboarding and i loved it. when we're off the slopes, however, i like to talk about how much fun it was, what we did, how it felt and i'll do this over and over...he just goes and finds something else to do. lol.
as for male Gems...i only know one and yeah, he's full of crap too. one of the weaseliest (that isn't really a word) men i know. he loves to talk big and throw out alot of insinuations, but isn't even a fraction of the man he tries to make himself out to be. the funny part is that it's really obvious, because he over does it. i'd suggest simply being careful if your guy tends to brag in any way or try to tell you, rather than show you, what kind of a man he is. with a Gem measure by actions first, then see if the constant comentary concurs.
glad to hear you're having a good time with your Gem, Sweethearts. as far as what you replied to him...sounds fine to me. no matter the sign, honesty is key.
as for patience...well, it's not our strongest suit. we tend toward pushing the limit, on everything, but at the same time, the pushing is half the fun. with a Gem, the whole relationship will most likely be about fun, really, and sex isn't the only fun thing there is to do, so as long as you've got it covered while you're not "under the covers" then he should be able to keep his things comfortably under wraps til you're down with getting down. i think in general playful pushing is actually enjoyable to both parties, but that may just be my own projection.
i'm sorry to hear that, sweethearts.