Gemini Male + Leo Female = ??

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lovestruckleo
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Hey ya'll!

So, I'm just curious...

Upon trying to mend my broken heart after a certain Mr. Libra did me in for... I've now got a Mr. Gemini who has popped back into my life after nearly 15 years!

This boy drove me absolutely crazy in high school. I swear he flirted and asked me out on a daily basis... and I always said NO! I think it was mainly because (actually just realized the coincidence of this!) I was at that point mending my heart from another Libra who I dated 9 grade - 11 grade. (I'm 32 years old, now... by the way).

But, I guess the funny thing is is that I'm totally diggin him these days.

We've been chatting thru email and phone (he still lives in our home town which I visit quite often as my family lives there) but I have moved 5 hours away.

Thinking about giving this guy a shot though. Just curious to see what your opinions are on the Gemini/Leo combo? I've never dated a Gem... or even made out with one for that matter!

Just curious...
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lovestruckleo
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Oh WOW! Yikes!

That sounds a little scary to me. How awful! Hmmm... so basically, since I'm such a sucker for love and romance, I should probably maintain some sort of solid wall for a while until I can pick back up and get to know him better since so many years have passed.

He wasn't really the "player" kind of guy in high school. But then again, it has been 15 years so there's no telling what's gone on in that time.

I really enjoy his energy and his humor. I was planning to visit my family next month and let him know I would be in town. Wonder if I should reconsider having drinks and dinner after all. I certainly don't want to get sucked in to somehthing that may potentially, once again, break my heart.

What is it with me and the mad-attraction for the air signs these days 😛
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Hey 🙂!
I've been in a relationship with a leo guy 🙂... At first felt totally in love with him!
But then I started noticing that he was pretty egoistic and I was more of a ''free bird'' and he was kinda holding me back, he was also jealous and protective over me, which I could handle...but Im a gem, so I can switch off my emotions sometimes, and as soon as I wasnt ''that'' attracted to him anymore, EVERYTHING started bothering me about him... what I basically was tryna say, the only reason we were together was for the outside.. definitely not the inside..
We broke up, we're still friends though... but I can tell u this much... A gemini is always looking for a person that can stimulate his or her mind.. AND be a fun outgoing person at the same time...Im a gem girl, and I want a ''badboy'' who's intellectual at the same time.
I'm currently in a relationship with a gem guy...and he feels the same way about women.
Its hard to understand us Gems lol..we are pretty ''demanding'' in what we want, and since we can switch off our emotions easily, its hard for us to stick with another person.

I suggest that u reseach some moer about us lol... about my gem guy .. I know he gets bored easily, and likes a smart but outgoing guy, he's curious and veryyyyyyy witty!!

hope this helped
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You may be his "exception" and you are curious too. Worth a shot in my book. You never know until you try and stop trying to read everything into it because when you do that you have all this defensiveness about you. Just relax make the date and play it one day at a time.

Dont be too hung up on past relationships either because this person has nothing to do with what went wrong there.
Good luck but most importantly enjoy the ride!🙂
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lovestruckleo
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"You may be his "exception" and you are curious too. Worth a shot in my book. You never know until you try and stop trying to read everything into it because when you do that you have all this defensiveness about you. Just relax make the date and play it one day at a time."

sweethearts.... there is SO MUCH for me to take note of in the above statement. I think this is where I went terribly wrong with my previous Libra.

I researched and reasearched and researched info on the Libra Man and totally ruined and/or conjured up ridiculous things about him and who he was as a person and our relationship and the things that could "possibly" be going on... etc... etc... til it drove me crazy and I broke up with him over nothing. Now he won't have anything to do with me.

Okay... so i'm going to go with the flow!

@ GeminiFlirt

"the only reason we were together was for the outside.. definitely not the inside.."

I'm actually starting to notice this a little. I am assuming it's just because we are such flirtatious individuals... but maybe it's just that we're only getting "reaquainted" at this point so I don't really feel any sort of emotional connection yet. At all, in fact! Hey... wait, maybe that's a good thing 😉
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I've seen this work out really well. Quite opposite of what misslissa experienced - they adore each other in relationships and Gemini's stable drive mixes well with Leo's dynamics (they make great co-workers too). I also have not seen or heard of them cheat on each other at all for that matter. They seem to value each other quite a bit. Even disregarding the Gem-Leo duos which are all over the place, out of the four serious actual relationships I've noticed, three of which are married, the Gemini is crazy about the Leo and its confidence (loves to show Leo off) and Leo loves the Gemini for all its care and determination as well as whimsical routines.

Definitely worth a shot.

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Posted by Mystic Dreamer
Just don't be a gold digger. Leo's can be like that.


Right well two of the marriages I was talking about have Leo as the complete provider, Gemini at home studying, wavering between options but not really making a decision. The other two couples, both are working but the Gemini is stuck in a job situation they're not thrilled with. One is working for family business and hates it, the other is in retail and has been saying she'll quit for the last 3 years.

Anyone can be a golddigger, and typical Leos are generally too proud to depend on a partner for support. Female or male they're not fond of being (metaphorically) grabbed by the balls, least of all in a financial sense.